Originally posted by snooZ|r:
i 1st got to know tis gal a month ago, 1st impression was that what a lian. then did not really talk to her then. however my impression of her started to change for e better after mitin up wif our grp of frens 2 weeks later. We manage to break the ice between us and all of sudden i find myself able to chat with her about almost eveything under e sun.
After chattin wif her for a few days in a row, me decide to ask her give me a chance to woo her. she gave in a positive answer then. Things was going smoothly, so i was like thinkin "hey..mayb i shd pop e qns now" well....wrong move coz she told me that she not as gd as in my pt of view n that we shd b frens only. she said that she did try to find tat kinda of feelings but fail to do so. After tat felt really down..coz really like her alot...kinda of like she always pop up in my mind.
then told my closest frens..they told me that mayb she's playin hard to get n tat i shd carry on chasing her if i like her. tats wat i did. then bought a belt that i noe she like v much, plannin to surprise her, but she found out, n ask me y i bought it for her, sayin it felt weird tat some1 bought somethin for her out of e blue. i juz reply "can't a fren buy something for e fren?" but deep down..wat i really wanted to say was "coz i stil like u." going to pass it to her in a few days time n really dunno wat response will i get from her. really can't bear to give up coz i really like her alot...
was wonderin after readin tis long story, wat do u guys view it? do u tink she playin hard to get or really no chance le...kinda confused now..

Only a month of knowing her and you declare every single thing that render you so naked emotionally?
Everything is happening too fast; you can't blame her for being defensive and reject your advances. Being hard to get... is not really the correct term here cause if I was her, I will probably prefer to know someone better before deciding on anything. And this stand applies to many people out there - reason being insurance.

Cheers