NeeD sOmE aDvIce~
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Recently, i get to know an older girl (by 1 yr)whom i like very much. She is smart (going for a part time degree now, while i "o" levels only), successful (owns her own business), pretty, and with a lot of admirers(much more successful in their carreer than me
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In all matters of life, you can say she is pretty much stronger than me..
There are times when we can chat through the night for one week, and then all of a sudden, she ignores me another week. Every now and then, she will just call me and talk to me.. at other times, she wont even reply my smses.. She is also kind of tempermental and like to win.. she get touchy about certain topics easily. i nv even say anything offending and insulting.. But she did tell me her character is like tat.
Even with all that, her personality is the sort i have been looking for. And i do like her a lot. Only a few girls can make my heart pound~ :shes one~ oops:
Any idea how should i go around this? She knows how i feel.. But I cant figure out what is on her mind..
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I guess you just got to take it easy pal...
Don't get too involved fist.... -
Seems like she treat u like a fren, who happen to be able 2 click quite well... but nothin special
But fret not, there is always possibilty..
there are also few suggestions 4 u :
1) Improve urself to match her better... like study higher. If that's not possible due to intelligence or lack of interest, can consider improving ur outlook... get a better haircut, dress casual smart... physical appeaarance is impt... dun care what others tell u
Alternatively, find a powerful mafia gang to join, work hard so u achieve fame & wealth.. u stand a much better chance. Gals are attracted to powerful men..
2) U hav a car? That will increase ur "eligibility" too...To create a impression of wealth,try to stuff some folded newspaper into ur wallet to make it thicker, hav some credit cards jutting out ur of breast pocket etcc.. then jus appear nonchalent & say casually... " Damm.. i hav so much money no plc to keep, they keep spillin out.. "
3)Last resort.. jus find a temple wher u pray sincerely & hope for a miracle... they do happens sometimes -
my god.. when has a part of the female body became somethk that is obscene, or needs to be banned?
i was tryin to type b-r-e-a-s-t pocket earlier... this is rely a case of excessive moderations
Testin ...
vaginal penis cunt bitch -
hMmP i also think she treats u as a friend ....
take things easy ... some times when u try to count a girl ... you Got to yaya papaya abit and lie here and there try to sound like u are a hero or abit of a bad boy ..
http://www.askmen.com/
go to de above mention link ... and read thru .... i read every single page of it ... and the ans and help there give u is quite true .... ] -
u gotta know wat kind of guys she looking for... but i assume shes looking for a mature guy who is stable enuff so work from there... upgrade(study) yourself too...
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that girl sounds familiar to two girls i know..
i guess guys really attracted to successful women.. but i dont think u cant attract her by being more 'successful' than her..there are other ways. -
morning binz
seems like u got a big problem at hand..
u seems to admire her more then u like her..
If i change her to someone who is just simple going and plain jane can u accept her?
I believe thaat u like her character not her. Cos you see the strength in her which u lack. sorry bro..it seems more of a crush...if she really likes you she will hint you by now. -
im not sure myself.. im bad at guessing girls' minds..Originally posted by gUms:hMmP i also think she treats u as a friend ....
take things easy ... some times when u try to count a girl ... you Got to yaya papaya abit and lie here and there try to sound like u are a hero or abit of a bad boy ..
http://www.askmen.com/
go to de above mention link ... and read thru .... i read every single page of it ... and the ans and help there give u is quite true .... ] im pretty gd with guys though..
hmmmm... i know what u mean about yaya papaya a bit.. but.. i tot that is more useful before u hit twenty yrs of age bah.. i dunno leh. -
maybe its what u say, dude..Originally posted by Arena:I guess you just got to take it easy pal...
Don't get too involved fist....
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i think i know.. i also got upgrade myself leh.. for my own sake.Originally posted by BrUtUs:u gotta know wat kind of guys she looking for... but i assume shes looking for a mature guy who is stable enuff so work from there... upgrade(study) yourself too...
no choice.. singapore u need "toilet paper" de.. >.< -
i dun really admire her achievements.. im happy with what i have.. and i want to be better than tat, i will work towards tat de.. i dun admire people and feel sorry for myself de. tats not my way of lifeOriginally posted by drx:morning binz
seems like u got a big problem at hand..
u seems to admire her more then u like her..
If i change her to someone who is just simple going and plain jane can u accept her?
I believe thaat u like her character not her. Cos you see the strength in her which u lack. sorry bro..it seems more of a crush...if she really likes you she will hint you by now.
hmmm.. simple going and plain jane? i dun really know.. but i guess not bah..
haha~~ although i admit im lacking in some things, im not tat bad lah~~ explain to u some other time. ^^
about the crash or not, sad to say, im not sure myself.. hmmmm... mid twenties will still have crush de? hmmm...
ok lah.. like what u say, if she like me, by now i should know ler.. but its hard for me to feel anything from her erratic behaviour.. 50% bah.. -
sorrie my guess is just like the others
she treats you like a friend....
but key word is GUESS....
we are outsiders, we can't see hear her reactions to you. so we can never draw an accurate idea of her intentions.
easiest way is to ask her outright if you stand a chance. -
Originally posted by smudgey:
sorrie my guess is just like the others
she treats you like a friend....
but key word is GUESS....
we are outsiders, we can't see hear her reactions to you. so we can never draw an accurate idea of her intentions.
easiest way is to [b]ask her outright if you stand a chance. [/b]