If only i known sooner!!!
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Just ended an almost "relationship" with a girl, so i just want chill out for a while to gather my thoughts.
Today received a surprise mail from another girl. It's one of those "send someone a greeting" mail with no text and you have the option to reply. Actually I don't know why she send me this mail because i have been totally ignoring her. I have known this girl for about 1 year but we are not close. We work in the same company and a lot of guys are after her but yet she still remain single.
During our first meeting , we were talking happily when she said something that upset me. I know that she didn't mean to say it and she even apologise after that. I told her that i was upset and she hurt my feelings. Later i regret saying that to her. I wasn't myself that day.
After that incident i thought my chance is lost and that she doesn't even think of me in that way. Whenever she is around i let my colleagues talk to her and i just don't bother.
Few weeks later my frens says that she is very sad but they don't know what had happened. In her blog, she mentioned about "opportunity lost" and "waiting for someone" the more i read her blog, i said to myself....could this girl be talking about me?
After 1 year this is the first mail i received from her, I feel very happy and sad at the same time.
Happy - because i thought she was angry with me .
Sad - because my colleague is going after her
I really like to get to know her better but i don't want to get in the way of my fren. He made up his mind to chase her few months earlier.
Should i reply her mail? I don't want ignore her, she might think that i'm still upset. -
heck..ur still stupid. Dont do anythings! Just leave her be!!!
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Originally posted by Young Stallion:Just ended an almost "relationship" with a girl, so i just want chill out for a while to gather my thoughts.
Today received a surprise mail from another girl. It's one of those "send someone a greeting" mail with no text and you have the option to reply. Actually I don't know why she send me this mail because i have been totally ignoring her. I have known this girl for about 1 year but we are not close. We work in the same company and a lot of guys are after her but yet she still remain single.
During our first meeting , we were talking happily when she said something that upset me. I know that she didn't mean to say it and she even apologise after that. I told her that i was upset and she hurt my feelings. Later i regret saying that to her. I wasn't myself that day.
After that incident i thought my chance is lost and that she doesn't even think of me in that way. Whenever she is around i let my colleagues talk to her and i just don't bother.
Few weeks later my frens says that she is very sad but they don't know what had happened. In her blog, she mentioned about "opportunity lost" and "waiting for someone" the more i read her blog, i said to myself....could this girl be talking about me?
After 1 year this is the first mail i received from her, I feel very happy and sad at the same time.
Happy - because i thought she was angry with me .
Sad - because my colleague is going after her
I really like to get to know her better but i don't want to get in the way of my fren. He made up his mind to chase her few months earlier.
Should i reply her mail? I don't want ignore her, she might think that i'm still upset.
Since all of you are working together...its best to have a good working relationship...i think you should reply to her e-mail but there is something u must remember...
she might not be talking about you,dun get your hopes up too high...u have to stand at a stance that she might be talking about someone else
anyway...what i feel you should do is to reply her and be friends with her again...its no use being cold towards a colleague as it does hurt your working performance...
lets stand at a point that she just wanted to send a suprise email to someone she didn't know for the fun of letting you know that she still knows you...(hey....sometimes, i do send e-mail to girls i rarely talked to because they were once my frens and the email was to let them know,although we were busy with our lifes,i still remember that we are still friends)
Lets just see what happens...stand at point of a friend's view and if anything comes up..then its a different case
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Stallion,
You think too much.
Dun assume the obvious.
You are not the only guy in her universe.
Just reply her e-mail like normal or acknowledge it wihen you met her face to face at work. Just to show everythings's OK.
I have a question. If she did not caught your eye a year ago, why now?
Just b'cos you ASSUME she's interested in you?
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Wanted to type the same thing, aiya... someone did it before me.Originally posted by Magnus:Stallion,
You think too much.
Dun assume the obvious.
You are not the only guy in her universe.
Just reply her e-mail like normal or acknowledge it wihen you met her face to face at work. Just to show everythings's OK.
I have a question. If she did not caught your eye a year ago, why now?
Just b'cos you ASSUME she's interested in you?
Rather passive of you, isn't it?
P.S: Read that portion carefully.
Cheers -
if you like her tell her.. if not.. perhaps let her be..
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ya....i noticed it too...thats why i told him not to get his hopes up too highOriginally posted by Yunhaier:Wanted to type the same thing, aiya... someone did it before me.
P.S: Read that portion carefully.
Cheers
Cheers
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U obviously dont know the Women version of 'STOCK TICK' ..sigh... guys..come on. Dun be suckers n fools man.
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You shouldn't get in the way of your friend, your friend shouldn't get in the way of yours... If she's really interested in your friend, do you think you can so easily 'get in the way'...?Originally posted by Young Stallion:Just ended an almost "relationship" with a girl, so i just want chill out for a while to gather my thoughts.
Today received a surprise mail from another girl. It's one of those "send someone a greeting" mail with no text and you have the option to reply. Actually I don't know why she send me this mail because i have been totally ignoring her. I have known this girl for about 1 year but we are not close. We work in the same company and a lot of guys are after her but yet she still remain single.
During our first meeting , we were talking happily when she said something that upset me. I know that she didn't mean to say it and she even apologise after that. I told her that i was upset and she hurt my feelings. Later i regret saying that to her. I wasn't myself that day.
After that incident i thought my chance is lost and that she doesn't even think of me in that way. Whenever she is around i let my colleagues talk to her and i just don't bother.
Few weeks later my frens says that she is very sad but they don't know what had happened. In her blog, she mentioned about "opportunity lost" and "waiting for someone" the more i read her blog, i said to myself....could this girl be talking about me?
After 1 year this is the first mail i received from her, I feel very happy and sad at the same time.
Happy - because i thought she was angry with me .
Sad - because my colleague is going after her
I really like to get to know her better but i don't want to get in the way of my fren. He made up his mind to chase her few months earlier.
Should i reply her mail? I don't want ignore her, she might think that i'm still upset.
Besides, there's no proof to show that she's really interested in you yet yeah..? -
We all loved being loved don't we?Originally posted by StarPuppy:ya....i noticed it too...thats why i told him not to get his hopes up too high
Cheers
~+StarPuppy+~
Cheers -
maybe she just mass emailed everyone on her mailing list. afterall, thats what you usually do with those kinda mails right? lolz..
dun think too much dude. instead, observe with your eyes. -
Email nia ar... I got SMS lehz...
She say miss me lehz... but so wat? -
if me i'd reply.
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Just got news that my fren just got shot down by her.............He is very upset and we try to console him.
As for the girl, i did return her mail.....so far things remain as per normal. I still don't know what she thinks of me and i would like to let it to remain in that way for now. Actually, she fell off my radar for a long time...i would still like to get to know her but as frens. I don't want to push my luck and also I care for my frens feelings. Rejection is not easy but back stabbing is more worse. I'll take things easy from now on. -
this came to mind my after reading your post.
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What is 'got shot down'...?Originally posted by Young Stallion:Just got news that my fren just got shot down by her.............He is very upset and we try to console him.
As for the girl, i did return her mail.....so far things remain as per normal. I still don't know what she thinks of me and i would like to let it to remain in that way for now. Actually, she fell off my radar for a long time...i would still like to get to know her but as frens. I don't want to push my luck and also I care for my frens feelings. Rejection is not easy but back stabbing is more worse. I'll take things easy from now on.
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"hi, you look kinda lonely today...."Originally posted by Devil1976:What is 'got shot down'...?
"dont even think about it or I'll shoot your Fucking balls off!!" -
aka known as rejectedOriginally posted by Devil1976:What is 'got shot down'...?
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StarPuppy -
I see. <Originally posted by StarPuppy:aka known as rejected
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StarPuppy
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