Most of the gals I noe are like this...
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I realised something over the years.
Most of the gals that i ever liked are the kind of cold princess sort. In other words, they are the kind that will talk so warmly and sweetly to ya one moment and the then ignore you (either sms, msn or meeting up) the next, until thay feel that they are lonely and need someone to talk to. I mean this is very fake rite? People who treat ya as a commodity and call you only when they need you. Even as ppl who are normal frens I am sure this is not exactly good human nature... Such is the case that I am always the one attempting to keep the 'frenship' alive and I am getting tired of all this. Most of my guy frens noe genuinely nice gals, why am I always so unlucky? (With the exception of my ex she went back to her country and was the best gal I had ever known
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Its ok, I'm also like that lah.
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Im assuming you are not that rich?
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That might be one of the reasons.Originally posted by shade343:Im assuming you are not that rich? -
Well I come from a middle income familyOriginally posted by shade343:Im assuming you are not that rich? -
could it be something u said or did?
sometimes it could be their moods at work.
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Threadstarter i share ur sentiments... in fact my prob extends to other arena in similar ways too...
Most of GF(ex) are also not very caring & "enthusiatic" (if thats e rite word) during our time together... it's always me asking her out, making all the arrangements..
I see all my fren's GF putting in a lot of effort to maintain their relationship, spend a lot of time together.. even if it's jus doing nothin together..
am i jus unlucky or... ?
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the disposable tissue theory is always true... more impt, r they cheating on u?Originally posted by Delta 5:I realised something over the years.
Most of the gals that i ever liked are the kind of cold princess sort. In other words, they are the kind that will talk so warmly and sweetly to ya one moment and the then ignore you (either sms, msn or meeting up) the next, until thay feel that they are lonely and need someone to talk to. I mean this is very fake rite? People who treat ya as a commodity and call you only when they need you. Even as ppl who are normal frens I am sure this is not exactly good human nature... Such is the case that I am always the one attempting to keep the 'frenship' alive and I am getting tired of all this. Most of my guy frens noe genuinely nice gals, why am I always so unlucky? (With the exception of my ex she went back to her country and was the best gal I had ever known ) -
Are you trying to insult me? *sniff* Fine. Go away then. I shalln't talk - er, post - with you any longer! I h8z j0o! *storms off*
Hah, no really. Some girls are like that. But not all. I mean, it could also be that it just -happens- to look that way. I know for one if I got shaken up or really nervous by something, I'd just start stammering and refuse to meet anyone's eyes, no matter how well I knew him or her - maybe it's the same for some if not all (yeah right) of these girls.
Keep looking, you'll find someone who's different someday. ;P -
hmmm.. maybe these gals are really just social butterflies. but at least they came to you, and not to some other guys for their problems right? maybe that in itself says something positive about you??
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try lowering your expectations.....Originally posted by Delta 5:I realised something over the years.
Most of the gals that i ever liked are the kind of cold princess sort. In other words, they are the kind that will talk so warmly and sweetly to ya one moment and the then ignore you (either sms, msn or meeting up) the next, until thay feel that they are lonely and need someone to talk to. I mean this is very fake rite? People who treat ya as a commodity and call you only when they need you. Even as ppl who are normal frens I am sure this is not exactly good human nature... Such is the case that I am always the one attempting to keep the 'frenship' alive and I am getting tired of all this. Most of my guy frens noe genuinely nice gals, why am I always so unlucky? (With the exception of my ex she went back to her country and was the best gal I had ever known )
everything is tok about supply n demand
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Cause you choose to hang around people who use you and allow them to treat you badly.
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Well... Maybe you just shouldn't be trying too hard to keep the relationship alive then...Originally posted by Delta 5:I realised something over the years.
Most of the gals that i ever liked are the kind of cold princess sort. In other words, they are the kind that will talk so warmly and sweetly to ya one moment and the then ignore you (either sms, msn or meeting up) the next, until thay feel that they are lonely and need someone to talk to. I mean this is very fake rite? People who treat ya as a commodity and call you only when they need you. Even as ppl who are normal frens I am sure this is not exactly good human nature... Such is the case that I am always the one attempting to keep the 'frenship' alive and I am getting tired of all this. Most of my guy frens noe genuinely nice gals, why am I always so unlucky? (With the exception of my ex she went back to her country and was the best gal I had ever known ) 
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PMS dear.
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My advise is don't keep the friendship alive. People like that are not worth to be friends. I didn't mean that you should not keep the friendship alive, but if there's no effort from the other side, no point going on. I find you when they're alone, but can you find them when you need them? They're just treating you as innocent-idiot-nice guy.
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Er..some typing error at my previous reply. It sud goes like this:
My advise is don't keep the friendship alive. People like that are not worth to be friends. I didn't mean that you should not keep the friendship alive, but if there's no effort from the other side, no point going on. THEY find you when they're alone, but can you find them when you need them? They're just treating you as innocent-idiot-nice guy. -
these kinda girls are more like meteorologists, very well versed with weather.
rainy days, they run far far away from you.
sunny days, they so close to you that you want them to get lost. -
Nah, not all gals r like tt... l had classmates who will just turn to me for help, b4 disappearing when the storm is over... l am also fed up of tt too. Sometimes l find no pt being an angel. Must well live life looselyOriginally posted by starblue:hmmm.. maybe these gals are really just social butterflies. but at least they came to you, and not to some other guys for their problems right? maybe that in itself says something positive about you?? -
Haiz lao xiong I pity you sia,looks like we in the same boat cos i got a gf eerrr EX also like tat!Till then bo pian lan lan we shall find someone who devotes their time for usOriginally posted by Prince Cumming:Threadstarter i share ur sentiments... in fact my prob extends to other arena in similar ways too...
Most of GF(ex) are also not very caring & "enthusiatic" (if thats e rite word) during our time together... it's always me asking her out, making all the arrangements..
I see all my fren's GF putting in a lot of effort to maintain their relationship, spend a lot of time together.. even if it's jus doing nothin together..
am i jus unlucky or... ? -
best post of this topic!!Originally posted by shade343:Im assuming you are not that rich?
i have seen how the girls mood change instantly once they know how rich the guy really is..
happy they are this way though! -
everyone got their lives... so don't expect 100% attention from them.. at all times.... when you're a grown up, life isn't like in sec sch anymore. you see friends everyday.. chat everyday.. share problems everyday.. now everyone's so busy with their own lives..what you expect???
this is what I tell myself lah....gotta accept it -
Originally posted by Delta 5:
Has it ever occurred to you that you could be liking the wrong kind of girls? As in choosing the wrong kind of girls to build your so-called "frenship" with?
I realised something over the years.
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hihi.. i am surprised i am not the only one here who feels this way. after past experiences.. i feel that my perspectives on gals hav changed quite abit. lost confidence, faith.
perhaps they are not what i thought to be?
perhaps they are much much complex.
pls feel free to rebutt me .. -
where is your ex from btw?
i think ur problem lies in ur thinking n the way u approach girls. -
Me too..