Solution to forget her....
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i used to have a nice gf who treat me well and always listen to me. But after one mistake i let her down. i felt i broke her heart and let myself down too. and we went our separate way...
i had a hard time trying to forget her...
separated since 1 year ago....
and the bottom line i still love her.. -
you still love her?
Then the key question is... why let go in the first place? -
i still love her ....
reason why i leave her is because i let her down by doing something behind her back -
solution?? dettol??
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then spare her from hurts... dun think of getting back together.
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ya trying to move on.....Originally posted by mach10:then spare her from hurts... dun think of getting back together.
trying to look for gf ..... -
Go find her, repent, tell her sweet words n promises ....and aske her back.
or find urself a new gf. -
then i will teach her.. to kick his ass..Originally posted by alexkusu:Go find her, repent, tell her sweet words n promises ....and aske her back.
or find urself a new gf.
A lesson learned :
Dnt kill and say sorry rather think before actions
Let go of the past and spare her of further misery...
Love her, let her stay happy -
[quote]Originally posted by leo-kun:
ya trying to move on.....
trying to look for gf .....[/quote
y r u still wasting your time here ,find a new life -
thanks for your advice ...but is not that easy.Originally posted by subarugal:then i will teach her.. to kick his ass..
A lesson learned :
Dnt kill and say sorry rather think before actions
Let go of the past and spare her of further misery...
Love her, let her stay happy -
Originally posted by bin:
been trying to find a new life however my time is fill up by work and work during the weekend i just wana relax myself
[quote]Originally posted by leo-kun:
[b]
ya trying to move on.....
trying to look for gf .....[/quote y r u still wasting your time here ,find a new life [/b]
doesnt have the chance to find new life.... -
since deep inside your heart, u know u still love her, the more you shld understand how she feels and how hurt she is. Moreover, the time to heal the hurt much depends how deep it is. dun just keep thinking getting back with her...sometimes, loving someone is knowing when to let hold on and when to let go..Originally posted by leo-kun:i used to have a nice gf who treat me well and always listen to me. But after one mistake i let her down. i felt i broke her heart and let myself down too. and we went our separate way...
i had a hard time trying to forget her...
separated since 1 year ago....
and the bottom line i still love her.. -
leo-kun, i truly understand how u feel...we are in the same boat actually. ppl have been saying 'dun think so much', 'keep yourself occupied', 'go and upgrade yourself'. to say is easy but to do it is even harder. loss of sleep and appetite is part and parcel but if we can overcome it, we will come back stronger. it takes time.....Originally posted by leo-kun:thanks for your advice ...but is not that easy. -
hi so have you got over it?Originally posted by mink77:leo-kun, i truly understand how u feel...we are in the same boat actually. ppl have been saying 'dun think so much', 'keep yourself occupied', 'go and upgrade yourself'. to say is easy but to do it is even harder. loss of sleep and appetite is part and parcel but if we can overcome it, we will come back stronger. it takes time..... -
to tell u the truth, she only broke up with me 2 weeks ago. it hit me real hard as if she stabbed my heart. till now i cant accept it. been tossing around at night till eye bags pop out. but what to do, i've done my best by persuading her to give me another but to no avail. what i can do now is to give myself time to cool off and clear my mind and also not to think bout the past. it is suffering but we cant turn back the time isnt it....Originally posted by leo-kun:hi so have you got over it?
if its meant to be, we will be back together again. -
ok be cool time will resolve our problems.Originally posted by mink77:to tell u the truth, she only broke up with me 2 weeks ago. it hit me real hard as if she stabbed my heart. till now i cant accept it. been tossing around at night till eye bags pop out. but what to do, i've done my best by persuading her to give me another but to no avail. what i can do now is to give myself time to cool off and clear my mind and also not to think bout the past. it is suffering but we cant turn back the time isnt it....
if its meant to be, we will be back together again. -
what? u think i was talking cock hia?
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alcoholic "solution" are proven to work, at least temporarily
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dun appear wussy in front of them... we can do it.Originally posted by leo-kun:ok be cool time will resolve our problems. -
learn the lesson and move on.
Don't play with other people's heart. Don't let others play with yours.
It makes me sad that ppl usually don't treasure the people around themselves till they lose them. -
Run away overseas .... stay there for a few years .... it helps ....
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Please don't kept on dwelling on the part that you still love her...cos that's so untrue and pretentious.Originally posted by leo-kun:i still love her ....
reason why i leave her is because i let her down by doing something behind her back
You only realised how much she've loved you before and you assumed that you still love her based on what you're missing out on the most...which is her love. Realised how much you've missed her after you've personally abandoned her for another girl...doesn't justify your claims of still loving her. Have you actually loved her before?
If you still love her, then go and look her up again and seek for a way to start over again with her. But do not tell us that you're looking for a gf, cos that's disgusting to know.
Not cursing you, but if you do not know how to love someone in a proper manner...it doesn't matters how many relationships you'll have in the future...as they all will end in the similar manner like a dejavu. I hope it won't be too late for you to realise it when you do realised it eventually.
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U should and ought to wake up.
To correct u, u do not love her now. U assumed u love her is merely because u know u r the main cause of the breakup and u still bear the guilty conscious towards her until now.
Tat's all the past, guy. It's too late to regret hurting the one who loves u because u should know u ve to bear watever consequences that u have caused b4 hurting her so deeply.
Now u should think for ur current or future gf. Do not let history repeat itself. Do not hurt her the same way u did to ur ex-gf.
The solution to forget her??? None... she will always be etched in ur mind forever.
If u say u can forget her one day, u r only lying to urself. Cuz from her, u ve learn alot.... and the kind of emotions which u nv felt b4... and makes u feel like crying.
Human learn from mistakes. Another word for mistake is called experience. Without experience, u will not know wat u ve done wrong.
At least now u knew, u should think for ur future and not dwell in ur past. Without u, she may be leading a better life now. The best thing u can do for her now is to wish her happiness and search for ur own too. -
find a new one..
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qns is... is she happy now? if she is... y not let her go.. and let her be and stay happy? isnt tat more impt then any other thing else? letting ur lurve ones have the happiness they ought to have...Originally posted by leo-kun:i used to have a nice gf who treat me well and always listen to me. But after one mistake i let her down. i felt i broke her heart and let myself down too. and we went our separate way...
i had a hard time trying to forget her...
separated since 1 year ago....
and the bottom line i still love her..
then... y do u wanna forget her? y not rmb her? rmb the special memories u guys had together?
keep the nice memories... move on with life.... and when another one comes along.. i guess u will grow and learn not to repeat the same mistake again?