Should I expose him?
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life is such... take it easy.... -
if she is old enough to have a bf, i think she is old enough to know what she is getting into.
was she born yesterday???
she let him pursue her, fetching her to work, school etc. and buying lunch..
leave them alone.
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What is he most afraid of?
Pictures (which you don't have to give but just show) to his wife/colleague speak louder than words.
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wah what?Originally posted by Devil1976:WAH...
he deserves it. -
it is good to warn her, whether she believe or not is up to her.
what matters is a clear consience. -
If you know that he was married, why get into a relationship? Don't get involved with any married man. The agony isn't worth it. If milk is easily available, why buy a cow or get involve with a married person?
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u will forever go thru it now until u call it a day what...Originally posted by browniebaobao:This is what I'm going thru now also.
I cannot forgive him. I wun expose him. The girl asked for it. LOL. She is partly to be blamed for all the hurt and pain that I suffered.
But if I ever see him again, I make sure he gets 2 slaps from me.
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Like all the forumites already said. The important question is, do you know her? Are you all close working colleagues?Originally posted by 1bigmess:Hi All,
Just came out of a foolish relationship with a married man.
I know for a fact that he is using the same tactic that he wooed me to pursue a female colleague of his who is attached with a bf and I also know that she is falling for his trick.
He would start by being especially nice to the gal e.g. picks her up and have breakfast in the morning, sends her home or to school in the evenings, packs lunch for her if she is too busy to eat and sends caring (later mushy) smses.
Then when on more friendly terms, confide in her his marriage woes e.g. he and his wife had not been intimate for 5years, they couldn't get along but mus stay together cos of son, wife got abit of psycho problems and would hurt hersefl if he leaves her blah blah...
Should I warn this lady?
- Her story may not be the same as yours. What may sound foolish to you may not be for others.
- She may already knew he's married (you did not mention you if you know this fact before you get involved)
- Who knows, she may even know about you and may already have some pre-impression about you. Know what I mean? -
If you're selfish enough, then don't.
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I do not know the woman he is currently courting. I am his ex-colleague but both he and I have joined new companies. This lady is a colleague of his in his present company.
Guess some of you are right, if she got involved with him knowing he is married, who am I to meddle. Nope, I am not doing this out of revenge, tho I hope I was.
ok then, will leave it to "tian" or god to punish him...
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If you have a chance, I think you should warn the gal. Consider it public service.Originally posted by 1bigmess:I do not know the woman he is currently courting. I am his ex-colleague but both he and I have joined new companies. This lady is a colleague of his in his present company.
Guess some of you are right, if she got involved with him knowing he is married, who am I to meddle. Nope, I am not doing this out of revenge, tho I hope I was.
ok then, will leave it to "tian" or god to punish him... -
Look at it from another perspective - perhaps you should be thankful that the gal helped to get you away from the skum of the earth (if indeed you were involved with a married man)?Originally posted by browniebaobao:This is what I'm going thru now also.
I cannot forgive him. I wun expose him. The girl asked for it. LOL. She is partly to be blamed for all the hurt and pain that I suffered.
But if I ever see him again, I make sure he gets 2 slaps from me.
Yes, do give the man/skum more than 2 slaps. -
Dear Bin,
Do you know the lady personally? She's been hurt by a heartless cad, & she wants to prevent another lady from being conned by him. What right do you have to make this kinda ridiculous statement?
Watch it.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by bin:jealousy
threat -
i will nv get involved with someone who is married/attached.Originally posted by Wanda:Look at it from another perspective - perhaps you should be thankful that the gal helped to get you away from the skum of the earth (if indeed you were involved with a married man)?
Yes, do give the man/skum more than 2 slaps.
the girl got involved with him not long after we broke up. -
warn that poor lady, kill that Fucking bastard
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i think you were born without a brain, has it ever occur to you that his current prey is UNAWARE of his ulterior motives? are you trying to say that the threadstarter was just born yesterday too?Originally posted by nuchio:if she is old enough to have a bf, i think she is old enough to know what she is getting into.
was she born yesterday???
she let him pursue her, fetching her to work, school etc. and buying lunch..
leave them alone.
move on with your life instead. dont waste any more of your time and energy. -
nop..i tink u shd just mind ur own biz..n let dat silly gal fall into e trap.Originally posted by 1bigmess:Hi All,
Just came out of a foolish relationship with a married man.
I know for a fact that he is using the same tactic that he wooed me to pursue a female colleague of his who is attached with a bf and I also know that she is falling for his trick.
He would start by being especially nice to the gal e.g. picks her up and have breakfast in the morning, sends her home or to school in the evenings, packs lunch for her if she is too busy to eat and sends caring (later mushy) smses.
Then when on more friendly terms, confide in her his marriage woes e.g. he and his wife had not been intimate for 5years, they couldn't get along but mus stay together cos of son, wife got abit of psycho problems and would hurt hersefl if he leaves her blah blah...
Should I warn this lady?
cos if u go tell her..u might get urself into unwanted trouble (eg: dat man might find out u spoke ill of him after he n gal split n gal blurts out wat u warned her.
stay neutral -
just tell the lady then move onOriginally posted by 1bigmess:Hi All,
Just came out of a foolish relationship with a married man.
I know for a fact that he is using the same tactic that he wooed me to pursue a female colleague of his who is attached with a bf and I also know that she is falling for his trick.
He would start by being especially nice to the gal e.g. picks her up and have breakfast in the morning, sends her home or to school in the evenings, packs lunch for her if she is too busy to eat and sends caring (later mushy) smses.
Then when on more friendly terms, confide in her his marriage woes e.g. he and his wife had not been intimate for 5years, they couldn't get along but mus stay together cos of son, wife got abit of psycho problems and would hurt hersefl if he leaves her blah blah...
Should I warn this lady? -
Warn... men like that should be punished...
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I think what she's trying to say was...Originally posted by coffeeortea:i think you were born without a brain, has it ever occur to you that his current prey is UNAWARE of his ulterior motives? are you trying to say that the threadstarter was just born yesterday too?
In actual fact... Sometimes you'll never really know what others want.. Hence 'making decision for other's might not always be an appropriate thing...