Dilemma

• Takumi2eLimit

  15 Oct 05, 20:01

  There's this girl who is attached and also very pretty[don say npnt pls]yesterday i received a msg from her, she said after we met, she would think of me everyday but i did not reply to her msg at all although i do like her. Does that mean that she like me? But the problem is she's already attached.
  
  Now what? Should i go for it? Should i not not care about it?
  
  many thanks in advance.
• The Den

  15 Oct 05, 20:08

  Maybe she's just flirting?
  
  Ask her abt her bf.. could it be she having r/s problems?
  
  How long u known each other?
• kentheman

  15 Oct 05, 20:08

  play along w her lo...
  
  but do not ever commit to her for now..for if she broke up w tt guy n go w u, this shows how much she tinks of in a relationship. she can break off w her guy to b w u, she can oso break off w u for another guy...
• Takumi2eLimit

  15 Oct 05, 20:14

  Originally posted by The Den:

  Maybe she's just flirting?
  
  Ask her abt her bf.. could it be she having r/s problems?
  
  How long u known each other?

  Erm, perhaps. Some of my friends told me she's a flirt lah but i dunno wan believe anot as she don look like one in my presence.
  
  With regards to the r/s problems, hmmm, i don think so because my friends are constantly telling me how close they are.
  
  6 months i think.
• alexkusu

  15 Oct 05, 20:19

  make her come to you, not you go to her.
• Takumi2eLimit

  15 Oct 05, 20:21

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  make her come to you, not you go to her.

  as in how?
  
  Play a waiting game?
• The Den

  15 Oct 05, 20:53

  Originally posted by Takumi2eLimit:

  Erm, perhaps. Some of my friends told me she's a flirt lah but i dunno wan believe anot as she don look like one in my presence.
  
  With regards to the r/s problems, hmmm, i don think so because my friends are constantly telling me how close they are.
  
  6 months i think.

  If you really like her, find out more wat's happening in her life.
  
  From wat you told us, she may be flirting.
  
  compare her behaviour wif u and others, wait for her to make the move cos she's attached.. in any way, pls let her make her choice if u really really like her.
• rogue13

  17 Oct 05, 13:49

  Originally posted by Takumi2eLimit:

  There's this girl who is attached and also very pretty[don say npnt pls]yesterday i received a msg from her, she said after we met, she would think of me everyday but i did not reply to her msg at all although i do like her. Does that mean that she like me? But the problem is she's already attached.
  
  Now what? Should i go for it? Should i not not care about it?
  
  many thanks in advance.

  Establish 1st if she is juz a flirt or if she is on the rocks with her bf. 'cuz if she can do that to her bf, she can do to anyone. In summary: dun attach feelings 1st, look b4 u leap.
• coffeeortea

  17 Oct 05, 13:56

  Originally posted by Takumi2eLimit:

  Erm, perhaps. Some of my friends told me she's a flirt lah but i dunno wan believe anot as she don look like one in my presence.
  
  With regards to the r/s problems, hmmm, i don think so because my friends are constantly telling me how close they are.
  
  6 months i think.

  haha.. obviously she wont reveal her true colors to you now mah.. you will have to let time be the judge
• Simple_Bear

  17 Oct 05, 13:57

  Juz be careful and dun gt over emotional...
  
  Be rational abt this dude...
  
  
• seraphsigma

  17 Oct 05, 14:48

  Stay cautious. Possible flirt... try putting yourself in her bf's shoes and see the whole picture again. How will you think of it?