Originally posted by countdracula:
i'm not qualified to dish out any advice but this is what i'll do. ignore her for a couple of times to show her you're no pushover. as for killing herself, i'm more incline to the phrase 'a barking dog seldom bites'. she's just trying to gather attention and i think your brother and father have somewhat succeded. you can either help her get involved with some social activities or simply life your own life. otherwise, the one who will be spilling blood is not your mother but you. you need to get out of this bitter cycle and soon i reckon.
I really apreciate your reply. Dad and brother had somewhat "escaped" her clutches, so she's clinging onto me.
She's an expert in mind games. Sentences like:
"I brought you up and this is how you repay me"
"I thought I had a good son, I was wrong"
"This is what I get after been so nice to you"
"Why are you always against your mum? Do you want lightning to strike you?"
"Don't call me mum if you are not home by eight this evening for dinner."
"First is your bastard dad, now it's you, and boy (younger brother) will be next"
"I know you just want me to die so that you can be happy"
Utimately.. thanks for listening... I feel better after letting it all out...
