Internet affair anyone?
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Hmm... Teach you 3 methods here...Originally posted by VampireEB:Thks Devil,
i'm having hard time controlling the temptation in me..
Luckily during meet-up nothing happened..
1. Distal Control
As what I've mentioned in my earlier post. Is to GAIN CONTROL of the situation from a distance (before you meet or continue to communicate with tempts), rather than to make IMPULSIVE DECISION when you're already TOO CLOSE PHYSICALLY with HER...
2. Abrupt Communicative Breakdown
If applicable, just BREAK ALL CONTACTS with her.. Meaning... If you MSN with her, BLOCK HER. Or better still, DELETE her account away. If you're using an extra account, TERMINATE IT. Change the password into something which you won't be able to remember. If you found her on certain website, DON'T go back there... CHANGE contact number.. etc...
3. External Rebound Breakage
Do your WORST (more applicable for people easily pissed off or short-tempered). Or to be more CONVINCING.. Show bits and bits of traits... In things which might irritate her or TURN HER OFF... To the point where she simply lost interest in you... Note. If you're applying this, do not let her know that you've got intention to stay away from her in the 1st place... -
Wow Devil,
This is too harsh already..in that sense like a total cutting off that person already...
like that i gotta ban that person from my forum already?No I can't ban my admin..
Sorry Devil this quite notty problem to solve. THks for advising me
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Mmm.. She's your admin? Ok... Maybe too harsh.. I see there's a line of friendship running in between both of you...Originally posted by VampireEB:Wow Devil,
This is too harsh already..in that sense like a total cutting off that person already...
like that i gotta ban that person from my forum already?No I can't ban my admin..
Sorry Devil this quite notty problem to solve. THks for advising me
So what I'll personally suggest now is something closer to the '3rd method'... Try to find out a bit more about her and turn yourself into someone whom she would not like... Combination of... REMEMBER NOT to meet her in person if you can't handle it.. If REALLY have to, go PUBLIC PLACES.. Ideally under daylight and cut down frequency.. You married or having a gf? One more step of 'poison' into your dose.. Introduce this lady to your gf or wife...
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Devil,Originally posted by Devil1976:Mmm.. She's your admin? Ok... Maybe too harsh.. I see there's a line of friendship running in between both of you...
So what I'll personally suggest now is something closer to the '3rd method'... Try to find out a bit more about her and turn yourself into someone whom she would not like... Combination of... REMEMBER NOT to meet her in person if you can't handle it.. If REALLY have to, go PUBLIC PLACES.. Ideally under daylight and cut down frequency.. You married or having a gf? One more step of 'poison' into your dose.. Introduce this lady to your gf or wife...
You so great ..i mean solving such problematic matters..
ok now .. i knew wat to do ...i wll try to avoid pm each others except forum matters..
To escape the reality i will try not 2 logon my forum too often. 
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bro having mistress or etc when you're married is wrong.. everyone noes its wrong too.. lol
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tsk tsk
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from his posts, he knows it is wrong but matters of the heart isn't so simple when emotions are involved. although it is just a screen name but from an everyday affair, having someone to care has developed to another stage. you should have kept it that way, you did wrong by meeting her.
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I'm know what am i doing rite down ..hopefully to be more discreet ..and good in handling this matter well .. can;t let go so just hold on tight..
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Hmm..Originally posted by VampireEB:I'm know what am i doing rite down ..hopefully to be more discreet ..and good in handling this matter well .. can;t let go so just hold on tight.. -
If I let loose, I'll surely blast, so here's what I think
FeowFeowOriginally posted by VampireEB:I'm know what am i doing rite down ..hopefully to be more discreet ..and good in handling this matter well .. can;t let go so just hold on tight.. -
here's mine.
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sure
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even if u fall in love with someone u have never met IRL. u still love her with true feelings. always remember this. if u really love her and u 2 have some sparks or sth. meet up if cannot then TOO BAD LOR