Confused...
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I am feeling confused. I like to dress up in female school uniform and evening gowns, but I am strictly heterosexual and likes only girls. I am very confused as the temptation to crossdress is just too great for me. I am feeling confused as crossdressing seems to be associated with homosexuality, but I am not homosexual.
I am feeling very confused now... Can anyone help me?
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all i can say is.......
u are not alone
wait for ur other "jie-meis" to come here..... -
It's perfectly normal. Your habit of crossdressing only goes to reflect that you love women so much that you want to be part of them. It is the best form of practice to fulfil your fetish. Though this may, in turn, lead to you following the path of a transexual. However, your crossdressing is no more than just a huge embrace in your desire towards the opposite sex.
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Yeah... Try other ways to channel that 'desire' and 'love' for them...?Originally posted by philia:It's perfectly normal. Your habit of crossdressing only goes to reflect that you love women so much that you want to be part of them. It is the best form of practice to fulfil your fetish. Though this may, in turn, lead to you following the path of a transexual. However, your crossdressing is no more than just a huge embrace in your desire towards the opposite sex. -
Go get'em!
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why dun you seek a shrink? get professional help to guide you through. whichever path you could, the peers around you will influence you (sometimes with the wrong decision) but only a professional can turn you around or set you to the path you feel most comfortable, whether you will end up cross dress or not.Originally posted by sinewave:I am feeling confused. I like to dress up in female school uniform and evening gowns, but I am strictly heterosexual and likes only girls. I am very confused as the temptation to crossdress is just too great for me. I am feeling confused as crossdressing seems to be associated with homosexuality, but I am not homosexual.
I am feeling very confused now... Can anyone help me?
Thanks! -
Sometimes it might just be a phase you are going through. Cross-dressing has nothing to do with homosexuality, maybe you are simply fascinated with female fashion, or you are simply curious.Originally posted by sinewave:I am feeling confused. I like to dress up in female school uniform and evening gowns, but I am strictly heterosexual and likes only girls. I am very confused as the temptation to crossdress is just too great for me. I am feeling confused as crossdressing seems to be associated with homosexuality, but I am not homosexual.
I am feeling very confused now... Can anyone help me?
Thanks!
I do agree that speaking to a counsellor or psychiatrist will help. At the very least, at least you have come to terms with your behavior. -
u are normal, but then, u have a fetish which is not so healthy at all. So u might consider seek help, because this may hampen ur interaction with the opposite sex.
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Engage in sports or something that can keep you busy and allows interaction with people. That will spend your energy positively. Try not to spend too much time alone as that will allow you to think about other stuff.
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Look for Mark Teo.
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you need to see a psychiatrist.
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Another cross dresser. Fear not. Go to a shrink and talk about it.
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Thanks for the replies guys. I have decided to throw those stuffs away and have channelled to other areas of interests now. Thanks for the help given!
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Build up enough determination and self-discipline..? Good luck?Originally posted by sinewave:Thanks for the replies guys. I have decided to throw those stuffs away and have channelled to other areas of interests now. Thanks for the help given! 