Gal prob.. can help?
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I like this girl alot. Shes a good girl and worth wooing. She cared for me and i was like the one or two guys she communicate with so oftenly. At first, we hitted off well and we smsed each other alomost everyday. She doesn't talk to other guys on initiative. Some months later her attitude towards me was damn cold. I didn't know what happened and when i asked her she said nothing -.- It seemed that really nothing has happned from what i know from her good friends and so. Then i decide to tell her that i liked her alot but then, she said she already liked someone else
I knew this all along and that guy was my friend who didn't like her. Shes so determined to love him forever it seems. When i asked her in the past, she said she didn't like him anymore. Then i decided to let things coolown la, then seldom talked. She didn't reply me quite a few times though. I can't stop thinking bout her. So how? sian
(but then i didn't gave her a present for her b'day. i know i was stupid but don't tink its the main prob la) -
and wad exactly is your question?
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U wan to forget her??
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U wana koe hw to grab her back??
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U wana koe wat she tinking and feeling nw??
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He just wants us to know his problem. That's all.
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what am i suppoose to do to get her? or just leave her alone?
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i prefer the last two optionsOriginally posted by BlUe G@rF|eLd:U wan to forget her??
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U wana koe hw to grab her back??
OR
U wana koe wat she tinking and feeling nw?? 
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Did u ever even ask her out for a meal, or go out jalan jalan?? Wats her answer? If 10 out of 10 time she rejected... Gdnitz... Go rest early! Tml is a better day ahead!
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What kind of relationship are you after?Originally posted by raft:what am i suppoose to do to get her? or just leave her alone? -
sounds still young so no need to think so much, shes maybe all nice but i guess theres so much better gals oout there so no need to put all your time on her... since she still love the other guy, u should go get to know more new gals... maintain frens with her n see how from there...Originally posted by raft:I like this girl alot. Shes a good girl and worth wooing. She cared for me and i was like the one or two guys she communicate with so oftenly. At first, we hitted off well and we smsed each other alomost everyday. She doesn't talk to other guys on initiative. Some months later her attitude towards me was damn cold. I didn't know what happened and when i asked her she said nothing -.- It seemed that really nothing has happned from what i know from her good friends and so. Then i decide to tell her that i liked her alot but then, she said she already liked someone else I knew this all along and that guy was my friend who didn't like her. Shes so determined to love him forever it seems. When i asked her in the past, she said she didn't like him anymore. Then i decided to let things coolown la, then seldom talked. She didn't reply me quite a few times though. I can't stop thinking bout her. So how? sian
(but then i didn't gave her a present for her b'day. i know i was stupid but don't tink its the main prob la) -
Just give the birthday present, there's nothing wrong with that. But don't expect anything in return. If she reciprocate your feelings then congrats, but if she doesn't then move on.
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Nothing is cast in stone....
U can try, but whatever you do, dun get too obsessed. -
Originally posted by raft:I like this girl alot. Shes a good girl and worth wooing. She cared for me and i was like the one or two guys she communicate with so oftenly. At first, we hitted off well and we smsed each other alomost everyday. She doesn't talk to other guys on initiative. Some months later her attitude towards me was damn cold. I didn't know what happened and when i asked her she said nothing -.- It seemed that really nothing has happned from what i know from her good friends and so. Then i decide to tell her that i liked her alot but then, she said she already liked someone else I knew this all along and that guy was my friend who didn't like her. Shes so determined to love him forever it seems. When i asked her in the past, she said she didn't like him anymore. Then i decided to let things coolown la, then seldom talked. She didn't reply me quite a few times though. I can't stop thinking bout her. So how? sian
(but then i didn't gave her a present for her b'day. i know i was stupid but don't tink its the main prob la)
I think one of the worst thing you could ever do to complicate the gravity of your own situation is to express your liking for her JUST BECAUSE she seemed to be avoiding you. In your mind, you probably think that your chance may be ruin if you don't employ enough haste, thus your expression.
In all likelihood, she probably knew that you liked her even before your expression, which is why she opt to avoid/send you cold messages because she has an unrequited love from some other guy.
In simple words: you took uncalculated risk and lost much of your unused chips.
She seemed defensive when dealing with you; it would be a hard nut to crack if you wish to explore her emotional realm.
IMHO, I think you have lost much of this battle. Reason being the way you handle her. You could attempt to reverse this trend, but do exercise enough caution to avoid becoming an irritant in impression. You see, people don't treat someone coldly for no rhythm or reason; it just so happen that you don't know the reason behind. There are a number of possibilities - so instead of trying to force it out of her, you could try to source it from people around her.
Cheers