some advise needed

• Laguna83

  17 Oct 05, 21:12

  OK i have noe this gal during my attachment, i have like her since than but that time she has a bf so i did not make any move. How i noe is through her friendster that she is in a relationship. But recently she has change her profit to single, so i was wondering is she really single now or still attach? So gals will u change to single status while u still in a relationship and wats the reason? Thanks for the advise
• gerrykoh

  18 Oct 05, 09:47

  Arrange a group outing & ask her out.
  Use this opportunity to chat with her & find out how she is, casually ask abt her bf.
• drx

  18 Oct 05, 09:52

  My serious advice to anyone out there.
  
  Please do not trust the profile inside friendster.
  
  
• Tier

  18 Oct 05, 13:50

  Originally posted by Laguna83:

  OK i have noe this gal during my attachment, i have like her since than but that time she has a bf so i did not make any move. How i noe is through her friendster that she is in a relationship. But recently she has change her profit to single, so i was wondering is she really single now or still attach? So gals will u change to single status while u still in a relationship and wats the reason? Thanks for the advise

  hmm I think either she has problem with her relationship or just break up bah. either way its not a right timing to start your wooing plan.
• seraphsigma

  18 Oct 05, 14:08

  Why not just hang out with her more as a friends first without any agenda? THat would allow you to get to know her status, and to get to know her better too.
• Arena

  18 Oct 05, 19:50

  Originally posted by drx:

  My serious advice to anyone out there.
  
  Please do not trust the profile inside friendster.
  
  

  Why not?
• Kennerve

  19 Oct 05, 01:16

  Originally posted by drx:

  My serious advice to anyone out there.
  
  Please do not trust the profile inside friendster.
  
  

  +1
  
  Ask her directly for God sake.. If you are serious abt her.. take ur first step now.
• dokono

  19 Oct 05, 01:42

  Yeah tat's something similar im facing now...the thing is sometimes in friendster the status is "in a relationship" and you see a pictures of the gal u like with another guy...u start to wonder if she is really attached?
  
  The question is : how much can friendster be trusted? My point of view is that it depends on how much the person uses friendster to update her profile. Sometimes i wonder if it would be better to ask her out or ask her directly.
• Burgerking

  19 Oct 05, 02:29

  Wait no more.
• starblue

  19 Oct 05, 09:19

  just ask her directly. why trust a profile when you can hear it for yourself?
• nightsky87

  19 Oct 05, 11:18

  Yep.
  
  If you want to go after her, you must be able to get along well with her in the first place, right? And by getting along, I'm sure it means that both of you can talk to each other..
• ditzy

  19 Oct 05, 11:21

  Originally posted by Arena:

  Why not?

  Because in friendster, I am female but I use a guy's pic and put in my profile that I'm a guy. The above statement is for example only.
• ghimpheng

  19 Oct 05, 15:07

  ask her out as a friend then slowly find out she have a bf or not or find out thru her friend/s
• Laguna83

  19 Oct 05, 20:23

  Originally posted by seraphsigma:

  Why not just hang out with her more as a friends first without any agenda? THat would allow you to get to know her status, and to get to know her better too.

  This is a gd ideal but dunno can jio her out anot
• Laguna83

  19 Oct 05, 20:24

  Originally posted by Kennerve:

  +1
  
  Ask her directly for God sake.. If you are serious abt her.. take ur first step now.

  if ask her directly like too obvious liao
• Laguna83

  19 Oct 05, 20:30

  Thanks ppl for all ur valuable inputs