is it true?
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there was this girl i had loved secretly for the past 7 years. During my sec four days 5 years ago, Actually, I had confessed twice to her i loved her, but both times, she never gave any answers but instead, just changed the topic. Recently, we kept in touch and went out a lot. I tried 2 hint to her i still like her, by talking about a mutual friend of ours, who I know like her for almost 4 years liao. She said it is impossible to like someone so long, unless its because he was unwilling to accept the fact that he failed to win her heart, and its just a ego thing. Do u all think what she says is true?
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You will have to ask yourself...
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Ah boy...u need to get new sources...Originally posted by nanren4ever:there was this girl i had loved secretly for the past 7 years. During my sec four days 5 years ago, Actually, I had confessed twice to her i loved her, but both times, she never gave any answers but instead, just changed the topic. Recently, we kept in touch and went out a lot. I tried 2 hint to her i still like her, by talking about a mutual friend of ours, who I know like her for almost 4 years liao. She said it is impossible to like someone so long, unless its because he was unwilling to accept the fact that he failed to win her heart, and its just a ego thing. Do u all think what she says is true?
Btw...this is another Eureka moment~ -
I meant:
Ah boy...u need to get new sources...
Y don't u cut to e chase and ask her already...directly of course!
Btw...this is another Eureka moment~
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What we think nt impt...wat U think is the most impt...juz tell her that U like her...Originally posted by nanren4ever:there was this girl i had loved secretly for the past 7 years. During my sec four days 5 years ago, Actually, I had confessed twice to her i loved her, but both times, she never gave any answers but instead, just changed the topic. Recently, we kept in touch and went out a lot. I tried 2 hint to her i still like her, by talking about a mutual friend of ours, who I know like her for almost 4 years liao. She said it is impossible to like someone so long, unless its because he was unwilling to accept the fact that he failed to win her heart, and its just a ego thing. Do u all think what she says is true?
If her ans is positive, good for U...
If her ans is negative, move on...
Good Luck Dude...
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ego cannot explain 7 years of waiting... 3 years, maybe. but not 7. that is entirely my own opinion of things of cos... you are your best judge.
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Cannot let go?
Its quite ambiguous. I mean, for SOME cases, the reason why you can't let go is because you still like her. So, its up to you to decide. But you must take note of one thing; 7 years is a long time. People do change. Are you sure you like her, NOW, for who she is, or what she was 7 years ago? -
Pardon me but why is this girl still so wishy washy? You like her and if she likes you, you won't be in this state. Forget about her! After so much hinting, I can't believe she is so "blur"?? Come on, there are better girls out there.
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Not necessarily true... Anyway.. You should know better than us if you think about it...?Originally posted by nanren4ever:there was this girl i had loved secretly for the past 7 years. During my sec four days 5 years ago, Actually, I had confessed twice to her i loved her, but both times, she never gave any answers but instead, just changed the topic. Recently, we kept in touch and went out a lot. I tried 2 hint to her i still like her, by talking about a mutual friend of ours, who I know like her for almost 4 years liao. She said it is impossible to like someone so long, unless its because he was unwilling to accept the fact that he failed to win her heart, and its just a ego thing. Do u all think what she says is true?
Back on the ISSUE... I think she's being pretty STRAIGHT FORWARD for now... Time to give up...? -
thanks, I think I know what to do liao..probably that was a big hint to me to start letting go..
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just have sex with her la
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hey dude...perhaps u can find a day, and when the mood's right, tell her honestly how u feel about her...put yr pride and embarassement aside for a moment.
what matters, is getting your honest message across to her.
what matters not, is whether she'll accept you.
if u drag yr feet for too long, u'll never know if one day, u'll lose control and become pushy or desperate, things will look ugly.
if u r sincere and nice about the whole thing, even if she rejects you, i'm sure you'll still remain as friends.
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could be true but this have to ask yourself... how much u really know about her? is she the only one is the world or isit just that she is the only gal that u know...? ask yourself y are u still waiting... from wat i think she dun have any feeling for u... so ask those questions to yourself... theres many gal out there...Originally posted by nanren4ever:there was this girl i had loved secretly for the past 7 years. During my sec four days 5 years ago, Actually, I had confessed twice to her i loved her, but both times, she never gave any answers but instead, just changed the topic. Recently, we kept in touch and went out a lot. I tried 2 hint to her i still like her, by talking about a mutual friend of ours, who I know like her for almost 4 years liao. She said it is impossible to like someone so long, unless its because he was unwilling to accept the fact that he failed to win her heart, and its just a ego thing. Do u all think what she says is true? -
I just think its silly to continue to think someone will suddenly love u after so many years of indifference.There is a forest out there..why so into a dying tree?
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*Nods*
Agree : ) You put it way better than I ever can! I hope there's No copyright, because I'd like to use it in my advice to others.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by nopulseisgood:I just think its silly to continue to think someone will suddenly love u after so many years of indifference.There is a forest out there..why so into a dying tree? -
i don't think she likes you. maybe you should try to observe her body language when you are out on a date with her.
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After 7 years..just cut to the chase.Dude, you deserve a honest and direct answer.
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don't give up if u really love her.