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I really need some help here. I have known this gal for sometimes now. I feel that it's abt time that i reveal my feeling for her. I have to option.One is to said it face to face. But when everytime i talk to her i simply doesn't have the gut to say it. The second option is through the phone. It's the easy way out but it seem insincere. Which one should i choose? Btw, how should i said it that i like her?
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Originally posted by joelwinston2005:I really need some help here. I have known this gal for sometimes now. I feel that it's abt time that i reveal my feeling for her. I have to option.One is to said it face to face. But when everytime i talk to her i simply doesn't have the gut to say it. The second option is through the phone. It's the easy way out but it seem insincere. Which one should i choose? Btw, how should i said it that i like her?
well..best is still get face-face...true..u may be scared but u want to know whats her answer...tell her straight and see how she reacts...
Dun't be like me...still after 3 years...waiting a answer which i know it is a NO
~+Cheers+~
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Give us more details, like how long you have liked her, how you got to know her, etc.
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face to face. its all abt sincerity dude!
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go up and tell her...cos nobody knows what will happen the next day.
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Dun be sad k?Originally posted by StarPuppy: well..best is still get face-face...true..u may be scared but u want to know whats her answer...tell her straight and see how she reacts...
Dun't be like me...still after 3 years...waiting a answer which i know it is a NO
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
Come kor kor gives pup a hug
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The best is always through face to face.Originally posted by joelwinston2005:I really need some help here. I have known this gal for sometimes now. I feel that it's abt time that i reveal my feeling for her. I have to option.One is to said it face to face. But when everytime i talk to her i simply doesn't have the gut to say it. The second option is through the phone. It's the easy way out but it seem insincere. Which one should i choose? Btw, how should i said it that i like her?
Do it thru phone, and you will have to guess and second guess yourself, and her, because you cannot see her expression.
When it comes to guts, remember this simple rule.
If you tell her, there may be a chance you might get accepted. Not tell her, and you will never be accepted.
Maybe you could start with telling her why you like her, and well, skim a bit on the mushy parts "I like you ever since i saw you etcs etcs", and the best way is to tell her that you feel that she makes a very good friend and wonder if it is possible if both of you can be more than friends. -
Although i know that the best way is face to face. what is my starting sentence?
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Think of something up yourself. There's no guide on how to confess to a girl and stuff. Be nice and not too pushy in confessing. Being too pushy might lead to her being repulsive though.
Anyway face to face is still the best. And all the best to you.
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Hmm...does she seem like she likes you?
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Use your imagination
Honestly, there're 1001 ways to tell a person you like them. What works for 1 may Not work for you, understand? You have to play it by ear, depending on the location, the mood at that time, blah blah blah.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by joelwinston2005:Although i know that the best way is face to face. what is my starting sentence? -
How old is she? What kinda person she is...?Originally posted by joelwinston2005:I really need some help here. I have known this gal for sometimes now. I feel that it's abt time that i reveal my feeling for her. I have to option.One is to said it face to face. But when everytime i talk to her i simply doesn't have the gut to say it. The second option is through the phone. It's the easy way out but it seem insincere. Which one should i choose? Btw, how should i said it that i like her?
In MOST CASES, if you ain't got a certain level of CONFIDENCE... UNLESS she REALLY LIKES YOU... CHANCES are... You'll be REJECTED
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how abt writing a letter?
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when deciding this, you have to weigh a few things
1) do you have confidence that she likes you?
2) are you willing to risk losing her friendship if it didnt turn out well?
3) will you persist in chasing her even if her first reaction was only neutral?
if your answer to the above are yes, then you might as well go for the face to face.
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Go out wif her on a date..n seize any opportunity (an appropriate 1 of coz) to hold her hands.Originally posted by joelwinston2005:I really need some help here. I have known this gal for sometimes now. I feel that it's abt time that i reveal my feeling for her. I have to option.One is to said it face to face. But when everytime i talk to her i simply doesn't have the gut to say it. The second option is through the phone. It's the easy way out but it seem insincere. Which one should i choose? Btw, how should i said it that i like her?
Its e more subtle, unspoken form of YES/NO from a gal to a guy initiating a BGR.
Be gentle n natural wen u do so though..cos a lady will be impressed if u do it so naturally n coolly without any hesitation or nervousness.
Be a REAL man ... ladies want security n confidence in her guy.
So u must be 1 to win e damsel's heart..
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1981... nice... 11 years old...
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Face to face of course.. but takes some guts. N ya.. personally a phonecall is insincere.
But that is another option. How about slow-mail.. the old-fashioned letter. It does work.
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Drop hints - ask her out for a date, movie, dinner, etc.
Subtlely take hold of her hand when the opportunity is right - like in the movie theatre, on the bus. If she doesn't resist, she likes you. If she moves her hand away abruptly, pretend your hand was just hovering there by accident or make up random excuses and never ever do that again. -
just ask her if you can hold her hand.
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Don't worry man. I have a friend who got rejected 5 times and he still goes around voicing out his love to any lady he meets. Lemme tell ye he has the skin of a rhino.
So don't ever feel shy or anything. Coz there are people out there who are far worse than you are. Go~ -
lol.. is that a compliment or what..Originally posted by philia:Don't worry man. I have a friend who got rejected 5 times and he still goes around voicing out his love to any lady he meets. Lemme tell ye he has the skin of a rhino.
So don't ever feel shy or anything. Coz there are people out there who are far worse than you are. Go~ -
i think that was supposed to be, uhm, encouraging. T__T
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obvious choice is to ask her out and tell her your feelings when u think it is time ***