so troubled..
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uhh hi people. thanks for reading my post. there's been a problem bugging me.. the problem is.. i have no temper at all. maybe it sounds strange.. but.. im well known for not having any temper... no one can ever make me angry.. the most is i get pissed for awhile.. like about a minute or less, then i start smiling again.. i jus find it very pointless to get angry.. but.. becos of this.. i find that no one is scared of me.. everyone climbs on top of my head..
its weird.. its like.. take my bf for example.. last time, i will "fa da xiao jie pi qi".. den he will always sweet talk me.. calm me.. den i will feel happy inside (i know its bad.. but.. aiya girls shld know wat i mean).. sometimes he does that to me too, and i have to sweettalk him back.. etc.. but as we go on.. now we're together for almost a year, he knows i wont get so angry easily.. he sorta "don care" me whenever i 'claimed to be angry/pissed'..
i tried gettin really angry before.. like last time i couldnt take it, i was training my cadets for national day, there was this girl, she gave me an attitude.. and her performance was lousy.. i was pissed.. i tried shouting, get angry.. but it didnt work.. in the end, i dunno why or how.. i ended up crying.. pissed until cry.. am i normal??
and for my frens.. sometimes they joked way too much.. overboard.. inside me i know im pissed.. thinking "how could u guys ever joke abt me this way" but then i don get angry.. i jus smiled and ask them go away.. even thou i know they are jus tryin to be funny.. but its not funny, its mean, yet i laughed.. but.. aiya i dunno how to describe.. but it seems like no one is scared of me.. cos i have no temper..
issit a good or bad thing?? i also dunno why im here posting this.. but.. i jus need to rant?? i dunno.. so confused.. and nowadays i feel like im going mad.. o lvls are jus round the corner.. i dunno why im still feeling so relaxed... so "just let it be"... i know the problem with me.. i keep procrastinating.. i know i need and i have alot to study.. i know my results gonna be like sai if i still don put in more effort... but im still not working hard!!!!!!!! im lazy!!!!!!! i cant find anything to motivate me anymore.......... i know my parents hope that i can do well... they do ask me to study hard.. whenever they see me playing game, they'll ask me to study.. i once told my dad about this problem... he said its okay.. as long as i've put in my best, he's happy already..
but i feel so guilty.... i know i can make it... i wanna make them proud.. but im still not working hard....... i really am scared.... i dunno wats wrong with me now.... its terrible.... what should i do...??? -
do your best..
it's good to have a happy disposition in life... some try and are angry all their lives.. they're miserable people..
you are blessed, so don't fret..
as for what you want, think about it this way.. go do your best.. make a decision to work at it and you know your folks will be pleased and proud that you have done your best... sometimes, the results don't matter, it's the effort you put in..
keep being happy, and remember that when a person is happy, that person is truly blessed -
blessed?? hmm.. maybe.. but no one is scared of me.. everyone treats me so friendly.. like even guys.. those dirty stuffs they talk abt.. thou i don really like it and feel kinda offended... but i dunno why i laughed.. its jus weird...
yes i will do my best.. but this 2weeks study break im having now, im treating it like holidays.. i slp late everyday, cos im playin games, nt studying.. and wake up jus nice for lunch.. den game till dinner, after which i bath and watch tv.. its jus like holidays.. i tried sitting down and jus STUDY.. but i cant get things in my mind.. how? im scared... im poor at math and i don wanna disappoint my parents.. i don wanna cry when i get my results back... i don wan my results to be like sai..... -
you may have a problem with expressing your true feelings. it may have something to do with the way you are brought up. are you, perhaps, the middle child?
if you are unhappy about certain things, do not feel obliged to laugh or smile. it does not pay to always put on the cheerful mask. -
like starblue said, don't feel obliged to do stuff...
maybe put a sign on your room.. "i gotta work hard this 2 weeks" and go for it.. it's just 2 weeks
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You are angry, but just do not know how to express it. at least thats what i think abt ur situation. maybe when you get angry your body lanquage will become odd and messed up, so people do not take you seriously. There's no point to get angry? sometimes anger can be power, though i think you shouldn't go overboard with being hot-tempered or cold-tempered (got such word?)
haha just one thing, mi do not think you can be a teacher. there r teachers out there that get angry at a class, do not know what to do, stand infront and stare blankly, while her body lanquage tells everyone that she does not know what to do, and what to expect. and then when the class starts being harsh towards her, pple, especially boys, will know how to take advantage when such a weak teacher comes in. sometimes to the extent of throwing malicious remarks that will offend the teacher. when the teacher cannot take it anymore, she (most likely) will break down and cry. try not to be a teacher.
sometimes you got to show some temper, as a "military deterence"....so that people actually think twice before offending you. or carry out something harsh on someone that offended you and make that example known to everyone. don't just tell it, make sure pple witness it, then you should be safe. no one will dare to take you lightly.... -
maybe u duno how to express ur emotions?
not that u dun have a temper?
i have a fren who says that she v long time nv feel angry liao, juz apply the 'bo chup' attitude. -
you are unable to express your emotions I guess your facial expressions does not show others that you are angry even though you are shouting
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Try alternate expressions like crying (nothing wrong with this especially for a girl...) or giving COLD SHOULDER instead when you're angry... If you can't express 'anger', at least take an effort to suppress 'laughter'...? Or you can easily give people a 'wrong message'...? Go see a doctor if you really need to?Originally posted by blueberryjam:uhh hi people. thanks for reading my post. there's been a problem bugging me.. the problem is.. i have no temper at all. maybe it sounds strange.. but.. im well known for not having any temper... no one can ever make me angry.. the most is i get pissed for awhile.. like about a minute or less, then i start smiling again.. i jus find it very pointless to get angry.. but.. becos of this.. i find that no one is scared of me.. everyone climbs on top of my head..
its weird.. its like.. take my bf for example.. last time, i will "fa da xiao jie pi qi".. den he will always sweet talk me.. calm me.. den i will feel happy inside (i know its bad.. but.. aiya girls shld know wat i mean).. sometimes he does that to me too, and i have to sweettalk him back.. etc.. but as we go on.. now we're together for almost a year, he knows i wont get so angry easily.. he sorta "don care" me whenever i 'claimed to be angry/pissed'..
i tried gettin really angry before.. like last time i couldnt take it, i was training my cadets for national day, there was this girl, she gave me an attitude.. and her performance was lousy.. i was pissed.. i tried shouting, get angry.. but it didnt work.. in the end, i dunno why or how.. i ended up crying.. pissed until cry.. am i normal??
and for my frens.. sometimes they joked way too much.. overboard.. inside me i know im pissed.. thinking "how could u guys ever joke abt me this way" but then i don get angry.. i jus smiled and ask them go away.. even thou i know they are jus tryin to be funny.. but its not funny, its mean, yet i laughed.. but.. aiya i dunno how to describe.. but it seems like no one is scared of me.. cos i have no temper..
issit a good or bad thing?? i also dunno why im here posting this.. but.. i jus need to rant?? i dunno.. so confused.. and nowadays i feel like im going mad.. o lvls are jus round the corner.. i dunno why im still feeling so relaxed... so "just let it be"... i know the problem with me.. i keep procrastinating.. i know i need and i have alot to study.. i know my results gonna be like sai if i still don put in more effort... but im still not working hard!!!!!!!! im lazy!!!!!!! i cant find anything to motivate me anymore.......... i know my parents hope that i can do well... they do ask me to study hard.. whenever they see me playing game, they'll ask me to study.. i once told my dad about this problem... he said its okay.. as long as i've put in my best, he's happy already..
but i feel so guilty.... i know i can make it... i wanna make them proud.. but im still not working hard....... i really am scared.... i dunno wats wrong with me now.... its terrible.... what should i do...??? -
Originally posted by blueberryjam:uhh hi people. thanks for reading my post. there's been a problem bugging me.. the problem is.. i have no temper at all. maybe it sounds strange.. but.. im well known for not having any temper... no one can ever make me angry.. the most is i get pissed for awhile.. like about a minute or less, then i start smiling again.. i jus find it very pointless to get angry.. but.. becos of this.. i find that no one is scared of me.. everyone climbs on top of my head..
its weird.. its like.. take my bf for example.. last time, i will "fa da xiao jie pi qi".. den he will always sweet talk me.. calm me.. den i will feel happy inside (i know its bad.. but.. aiya girls shld know wat i mean).. sometimes he does that to me too, and i have to sweettalk him back.. etc.. but as we go on.. now we're together for almost a year, he knows i wont get so angry easily.. he sorta "don care" me whenever i 'claimed to be angry/pissed'..
i tried gettin really angry before.. like last time i couldnt take it, i was training my cadets for national day, there was this girl, she gave me an attitude.. and her performance was lousy.. i was pissed.. i tried shouting, get angry.. but it didnt work.. in the end, i dunno why or how.. i ended up crying.. pissed until cry.. am i normal??
and for my frens.. sometimes they joked way too much.. overboard.. inside me i know im pissed.. thinking "how could u guys ever joke abt me this way" but then i don get angry.. i jus smiled and ask them go away.. even thou i know they are jus tryin to be funny.. but its not funny, its mean, yet i laughed.. but.. aiya i dunno how to describe.. but it seems like no one is scared of me.. cos i have no temper..
issit a good or bad thing?? i also dunno why im here posting this.. but.. i jus need to rant?? i dunno.. so confused.. and nowadays i feel like im going mad.. o lvls are jus round the corner.. i dunno why im still feeling so relaxed... so "just let it be"... i know the problem with me.. i keep procrastinating.. i know i need and i have alot to study.. i know my results gonna be like sai if i still don put in more effort... but im still not working hard!!!!!!!! im lazy!!!!!!! i cant find anything to motivate me anymore.......... i know my parents hope that i can do well... they do ask me to study hard.. whenever they see me playing game, they'll ask me to study.. i once told my dad about this problem... he said its okay.. as long as i've put in my best, he's happy already..
but i feel so guilty.... i know i can make it... i wanna make them proud.. but im still not working hard....... i really am scared.... i dunno wats wrong with me now.... its terrible.... what should i do...???
Actually to me, it isn't something good or bad - it's just you. Having a good temper is something out your personality. You do want to change this personality, but don't know how you go about doing it. I think this is more about self discovery... about how you can blend this personality with the people around you.
Astro mode: On
Astrologically speaking, I suspect you may have weak Mars, the planet that governs your anger and temper or have missing fire element in your Natal Chart. Because your Mars (or missing Fire Element) is very likely to be weak, you feel that the word 'initiating' is missing. There is also a lack of motivition to do things because the drive to work, perform and everything else is missing. There is an absence of courage to fight for your desire and you are likely to be a person who takes what that comes to you than a person that make things happen.
It probably also explains why you cry, when others would have blew their top. This suppression is unable to evolve into verbal/action, thus transformed into emotional energy (tears).
P.S: Are you a Pisces, Cancer?
Cheers -
Yun: weak mars?
then me aries, super hot-tempered la? -
Indeed. Sometimes being to lenient, other people will think that you can't do anything and start to climb over your head and take advantage. Being too violent, you make yourself look silly. That is how the World is, am i right?
Speaking of which, this is my first post, rite? Just wanna say, been looking around for some time, decided to register. Hi everyone. -
hihi guys. been busy. sorry. trying to study.. but hardly learn anything. oh well.. uhh Yun: im born in April.. Taurus.. moo~. lol..
hmmmm.. ya loh, too lenient kana bully....... too fierce like dunno what liddat... sighs...... life is hard...
and im still lacking the "substance/feeling" to push me to study harder!!!!!!!!!!! HOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW???????? so angry with myself... been crying..... hais.... -
Taurus... Cadet... BlueBerry... I tink I noe who u r....
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Forget it...tink not u... O'Levels over liao...
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Yun has said the astro stuff..
I shall say the "china" way..
Sometimes its the way you are brought up.. The name you are given and such.. Why I say name..
For example myself.. My name was given by a fortune teller.. I mean. how many of you find that fortune telling is true.. But somehow or rather for me its true..
My chinese middle name has"huo" (fire) in it.. and my last name has rain(or water content).. For me.. When I tend to be in a fiery temper.. No matter how pissed off I am.. I will usually cool off after 10 mins.. When I am in a heated arguement.. my tears will tend to flow.. Not that cause i loose out in the arguement.. (In fact I am still quarreling).. But tears just flow out without control..
My point here is that sometimes its in built in you.. Be it your name or like what Yun said.. Astrology stuff.. which is a little hard to explain..
If its in born.. bear with it..
CheersOriginally posted by blueberryjam:uhh hi people. thanks for reading my post. there's been a problem bugging me.. the problem is.. i have no temper at all. maybe it sounds strange.. but.. im well known for not having any temper... no one can ever make me angry.. the most is i get pissed for awhile.. like about a minute or less, then i start smiling again.. i jus find it very pointless to get angry.. but.. becos of this.. i find that no one is scared of me.. everyone climbs on top of my head..
its weird.. its like.. take my bf for example.. last time, i will "fa da xiao jie pi qi".. den he will always sweet talk me.. calm me.. den i will feel happy inside (i know its bad.. but.. aiya girls shld know wat i mean).. sometimes he does that to me too, and i have to sweettalk him back.. etc.. but as we go on.. now we're together for almost a year, he knows i wont get so angry easily.. he sorta "don care" me whenever i 'claimed to be angry/pissed'..
i tried gettin really angry before.. like last time i couldnt take it, i was training my cadets for national day, there was this girl, she gave me an attitude.. and her performance was lousy.. i was pissed.. i tried shouting, get angry.. but it didnt work.. in the end, i dunno why or how.. i ended up crying.. pissed until cry.. am i normal??
and for my frens.. sometimes they joked way too much.. overboard.. inside me i know im pissed.. thinking "how could u guys ever joke abt me this way" but then i don get angry.. i jus smiled and ask them go away.. even thou i know they are jus tryin to be funny.. but its not funny, its mean, yet i laughed.. but.. aiya i dunno how to describe.. but it seems like no one is scared of me.. cos i have no temper..
issit a good or bad thing?? i also dunno why im here posting this.. but.. i jus need to rant?? i dunno.. so confused.. and nowadays i feel like im going mad.. o lvls are jus round the corner.. i dunno why im still feeling so relaxed... so "just let it be"... i know the problem with me.. i keep procrastinating.. i know i need and i have alot to study.. i know my results gonna be like sai if i still don put in more effort... but im still not working hard!!!!!!!! im lazy!!!!!!! i cant find anything to motivate me anymore.......... i know my parents hope that i can do well... they do ask me to study hard.. whenever they see me playing game, they'll ask me to study.. i once told my dad about this problem... he said its okay.. as long as i've put in my best, he's happy already..
but i feel so guilty.... i know i can make it... i wanna make them proud.. but im still not working hard....... i really am scared.... i dunno wats wrong with me now.... its terrible.... what should i do...??? -
you sound like a time-bomb waiting to explode.
you time will come when the world (or someone) ignites your wrath. think of carrie.
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its a good problem to have..
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:Yun: weak mars?
then me aries, super hot-tempered la? That's why... people always say Aries is hot tempered. Not because an Aries is an Aries - rather, the God of War's ruling planet is Mars.
This is the same as Scorpio - who has two ruling planets: both Mars and Pluto. Just that Aries's temper tends to be outwardly and Scorpio tends to be inwardly.
A little astro lesson here:
What causes weak Mars?
It depends on the placing on your planet Mars. She is a Taurus and as for temper-wise, the bull is gentle until provoked. But that is only her Sun Sign. Then if her Mars lies in gentle-sign like Pisces, the fiery side of Mars is douse by the watery fishes and the Masculine side of Mars is neutralised by the most feminine sign of Zodiac. Thus, you can picture how the temper is being affected.
Mars in the following signs are afflicted: Taurus (detriment), Cancer (falls), Libra (detriment).
Mars doesn't only rule temper - it also rule your energy, our drive and animal instinct (inclusive of sex). Those who studies Psychology or read about them - still remember Freudian theory of Id, Ego and Superego? Mars represent Id - our basic needs and desire.
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wads gemini?split personality??
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[/b]Originally posted by blueberryjam:uhh hi people. thanks for reading my post. there's been a problem bugging me.. the problem is.. i have no temper at all. maybe it sounds strange.. but.. im well known for not having any temper... no one can ever make me angry.. the most is i get pissed for awhile.. like about a minute or less, then i start smiling again.. i jus find it very pointless to get angry.. but.. becos of this.. i find that no one is scared of me.. everyone climbs on top of my head..
its weird.. its like.. take my bf for example.. last time, i will "fa da xiao jie pi qi".. den he will always sweet talk me.. calm me.. den i will feel happy inside (i know its bad.. but.. aiya girls shld know wat i mean).. sometimes he does that to me too, and i have to sweettalk him back.. etc.. but as we go on.. now we're together for almost a year, he knows i wont get so angry easily.. he sorta "don care" me whenever i 'claimed to be angry/pissed'..
i tried gettin really angry before.. like last time i couldnt take it, i was training my cadets for national day, there was this girl, she gave me an attitude.. and her performance was lousy.. i was pissed.. i tried shouting, get angry.. but it didnt work.. in the end, i dunno why or how.. i ended up crying.. pissed until cry.. am i normal??
and for my frens.. sometimes they joked way too much.. overboard.. inside me i know im pissed.. thinking "how could u guys ever joke abt me this way" but then i don get angry.. i jus smiled and ask them go away.. even thou i know they are jus tryin to be funny.. but its not funny, its mean, yet i laughed.. but.. aiya i dunno how to describe.. but it seems like no one is scared of me.. cos i have no temper..
issit a good or bad thing?? i also dunno why im here posting this.. but.. i jus need to rant?? i dunno.. so confused.. and nowadays i feel like im going mad.. o lvls are jus round the corner.. i dunno why im still feeling so relaxed... so "just let it be"... i know the problem with me[b].. i keep procrastinating.. i know i need and i have alot to study.. i know my results gonna be like sai if i still don put in more effort... but im still not working hard!!!!!!!! im lazy!!!!!!! i cant find anything to motivate me anymore.......... i know my parents hope that i can do well... they do ask me to study hard.. whenever they see me playing game, they'll ask me to study.. i once told my dad about this problem... he said its okay.. as long as i've put in my best, he's happy already..but i feel so guilty.... i know i can make it... i wanna make them proud.. but im still not working hard....... i really am scared.... i dunno wats wrong with me now.... its terrible.... what should i do...???
u r a lazy bum...fail ur exams n disappoint ur parents ....im sure u have not e least bit of self-discipline. with such parents stil dun appreciate n make them proud of u...Being LAZY is e most incorrigible n sickening traits one can hv n u fit e bill, sad to say.
Parents r for life n they slog hard to giv u e best education. FOR GOD'S SAKE, get ur ass off watever silly stuff (including chasing gals who clearly doesnnt have e least bit of liking for u..so stop deceiving urself, we gals find guys like u who cant accept rejection e worse of e SNAGS groupie... )
SNAGS like u wont attract any fine gals, cos guys/gals who r lazy even wen iot comes to exam wil eventually become e scums of society n live on social welfare..so if dats e life u desire, dun post such self-pity post n demoralising post to other enterprising n less than perfect (some r ur clique though...they shd noe who they r without me posting their names here! even in their 30s ..wtbf)
SO MR AP (aka attract pity n no solutions and no one can help u here cos procrastination is a contagious deadly social disease! ONLY u can help urself cos u already know what is stopping u from studying n making ur parents worth their investment n care n time spent on nurturing slops like u!
PERIOD x2
(Jus a GENTLE msg to all those peeps who totally disagree wif my way of posting advices or replies, tHIS is my attitude towards losers n those arrogant nerds. esp a pup who intentionalli came up wif a overly-exagerated story decribing his pathetic plight (wich is totally untru cos he/she was like so different n mean in his comments on other pple in oher channels.)
Guess he./she lost e attention of his gang n e onli way to get noticed again is to create a pathetic plight n waste the post of genuine pplle trying to help him...n again he wil say he/she wil change n listen but few hrs later, anor similar self-pity small prob crops up n he/she posts again gaining even more support.
TO THIS PUP: "I PITY U COS U ACTUALLI NEED OTHERS TO HAVE A BETTER SELF_ESTEEM or TO FEEL GOOD ABT URSELF. I had a fren exactly like u n its realli sickening cos she cries, whines gets proper n the most appropriate advice but will in reality either do tehe opposite which is totally wrong or not taking action to solve e prob. (mayb e prob was exaggerated ...AA pple wil normally waste others time like tis cos they r kind of melansholy abt life, n sabotages pple who r leading happier lives than themselves
I will not mind if u pm me to flame me or make any form of sacarstic remarks on my nick. In fact Ive had received a PM from a female 28 - 30 yrs "know-it-all kind of forum mate who actualli so eng that she made hurting remarks on my NICK.
To tis lady: "all I can say is tat e reason y I even bother to reply is a test of ur integrity, n e verdict is dat u r e type of female (very good in playing politics i bet) whom everybody tells u nice stuff but in actual fact is all e opposite. U also hav a fetish / find kick / kill boredom / desperate to vent ur frustrations on others by degrading n insulting their nick.
U may be FORGIVEN BUT NOT FORGOTTEN AS WORM WHO SLANDERS OTHERS INTENTIONALLY..
PERIOD! & CIAO!
(guys, gals, weirdos, sadist, morons, rich brats, vainpots, politics player, whosoever) -
Originally posted by CP25:
u r a lazy bum...fail ur exams n disappoint ur parents ....im sure u have not e least bit of self-discipline. with such parents stil dun appreciate n make them proud of u...Being LAZY is e most incorrigible n sickening traits one can hv n u fit e bill, sad to say.
Parents r for life n they slog hard to giv u e best education. FOR GOD'S SAKE, get ur ass off watever silly stuff (including chasing gals who clearly doesnnt have e least bit of liking for u..so stop deceiving urself, we gals find guys like u who cant accept rejection e worse of e SNAGS groupie... )
SNAGS like u wont attract any fine gals, cos guys/gals who r lazy even wen iot comes to exam wil eventually become e scums of society n live on social welfare..so if dats e life u desire, dun post such self-pity post n demoralising post to other enterprising n less than perfect (some r ur clique though...they shd noe who they r without me posting their names here! even in their 30s ..wtbf)
SO MR AP (aka attract pity n no solutions and no one can help u here cos procrastination is a contagious deadly social disease! ONLY u can help urself cos u already know what is stopping u from studying n making ur parents worth their investment n care n time spent on nurturing slops like u!
PERIOD x2
(Jus a GENTLE msg to all those peeps who totally [b]hates on my posts n my attitude or my personlity, I will not mind if u pm me to flame me or make any form of sacarstic remarks on my nick. In fact Ive had received a PM from a female 28 - 30 yrs "know-it-all kind of forum mate who actualli so eng that she made hurting remarks on my NICK.
To tis lady: "all I can say is tat e reason y I even bother to reply is a test of ur integrity, n e verdict is dat u r e type of female (very good in playing politics i bet) whom everybody tells u nice stuff but in actual fact is all e opposite. U also hav a fetish / find kick / kill boredom / desperate to vent ur frustrations on others by degrading n insulting their nick.
U may be FORGIVEN BUT NOT FORGOTTEN AS WORM WHO SLANDERS OTHERS INTENTIONALLY..
PERIOD! & CIAO!
(guys, gals, weirdos, sadist, morons, rich brats, vainpots, politics player, whosoever) [/b] Woah...
/me sees steam
CP25... she is a girl leh...its weird.. its like.. take my bf for example.. last time, i will "fa da xiao jie pi qi".. den he will always sweet talk me.. calm me.. den i will feel happy inside (i know its bad.. but.. aiya girls shld know wat i mean).. sometimes he does that to me too, and i have to sweettalk him back.. etc.. but as we go on.. now we're together for almost a year, he knows i wont get so angry easily.. he sorta "don care" me whenever i 'claimed to be angry/pissed'..
Cheers -
No temper pple - I simply categorise into 2 types:Originally posted by blueberryjam:uhh hi people. thanks for reading my post... blah blah... yada yada...
.... i know i can make it... i wanna make them proud.. but im still not working hard....... i really am scared.... i dunno wats wrong with me now.... its terrible.... what should i do...???
1st - Unaware of own temper, cannot express, keep inside until one day blow up. 2nd - really not much temper and cannot get angry easily.
There is nothing wrong wif u if u are really the 2nd type - in fact I would say it is very good. U yourself mentioned "it very pointless to get angry" and u are veri right! *** U dun go around with using anger/temper to make pple scare of u or respect u!! There are many ways to gain pple's respect and convince others about your stands and rights.
Maybe u can try to using 'cool' methods, since u lack of 'Heat'(temper)... if pple make u angry, jus give them an icy stare or 'blank' look,)
then ignore them for one whole wk, if not enough, one mth or 4forever then- (jus kidding)
*Dun *WORRY too much - fm wat u wrote U seem 2 be better than normal.
(I know bcoz there are two of this types of pple veri close to me & i get to observe them every day) -
i know...but realli makes my blood boil seeing "already good life" guys/gals" postin stupid qs...PROCRASTINATION...who doesnt?Originally posted by Yunhaier:Cheers
But its good thang dat she wanna do her folks proud...so still got hope..mayb give her advice on how to stop procrastination or help her in her schoolwork..any1?
anyway her choice n not my concern, just felt sorry for her parents..n that wen they old...dat lazy gal dun work...who support e old folks. -
You seem to start condeming her.. haha.. Relax la.. Pple here for help nia..Originally posted by CP25:i know...but realli makes my blood boil seeing "already good life" guys/gals" postin stupid qs...PROCRASTINATION...who doesnt?
But its good thang dat she wanna do her folks proud...so still got hope..mayb give her advice on how to stop procrastination or help her in her schoolwork..any1?
anyway her choice n not my concern, just felt sorry for her parents..n that wen they old...dat lazy gal dun work...who support e old folks.