Why do i feel this way?
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Everytime i got to like a gal and decided to go after her, i will have alot of negative thinking. eg. she will reject my dates, she doesn't has any gd feeling with me, she is juz been polite to talk to me etc...
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obviously.
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you are not alone.
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You said it... low self-esteem...
You have so much negative aspects in your mind... If I were you instead of thinking that way I would turn those negative questions into a positive one...
Like "For sure she'll gonna like me coz I'm a nice a person"... "She will gonna look forward again of seeing me coz I treated her like a princess"... those stuffs like that so that you will have the confidence in yourself...
You see either which way there's always a risk to take... so might as well go for it and build your seld confidence...
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y dun u just lower ur expectation n treat them as frenz instead?
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That is expected mah...unless your monthly income is 1000k. But then, why don't you, like anna_babes26 puts it, turn that thinking into a positive one...Like, since you r worry that she might dislike you if you do something wrong all the time, think of it as "Since that is the case, then i shall not do any inappropraite things that might displease her" Then again, the othe rparty has to be matured enough too...Kinda like a balanced Equation...rite? Love is always a 2 way kinda thing
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Originally posted by Laguna83:Everytime i got to like a gal and decided to go after her, i will have alot of negative thinking. eg. she will reject my dates, she doesn't has any gd feeling with me, she is juz been polite to talk to me etc...
Does this mean that i have low self-esteem?
Knowing is one thing... what are you going to do about it?
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Originally posted by Yunhaier: Knowing is one thing... what are you going to do about it?
Cheers
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starts thinkin how great you are lor, then if she rejects juz 'chey ! dont wan dont wan la i sho the handsum it's ur loss to reject me'
low self esteem ba, but it's okie, cuz you're not alone -
anyway just try.Originally posted by Laguna83:Everytime i got to like a gal and decided to go after her, i will have alot of negative thinking. eg. she will reject my dates, she doesn't has any gd feeling with me, she is juz been polite to talk to me etc...
Does this mean that i have low self-esteem?
think of it this way, what have you got to lose? -
I also haf the same prob...Originally posted by Laguna83:Everytime i got to like a gal and decided to go after her, i will have alot of negative thinking. eg. she will reject my dates, she doesn't has any gd feeling with me, she is juz been polite to talk to me etc...
Does this mean that i have low self-esteem?
U nd to work on it...
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Originally posted by Laguna83:Everytime i got to like a gal and decided to go after her, i will have alot of negative thinking. eg. she will reject my dates, she doesn't has any gd feeling with me, she is juz been polite to talk to me etc...
Does this mean that i have low self-esteem? what dragg said is true
We are man...we should be brave.... Try and give it a shot...who knows she might just return the same feelings... Dun wait and 10-20 years later..see her with another guy and with kids and you standing down thinking "if only i did" Dun be afraid to try..Dun stand there and hope that fate will do something for you..fate works if only you work with it.... Time wait for no man
~+Cheers+~
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Hmm...u probably shouldn't go into e new friendship with an ultimatatum that u must be together at e end of it
