Dear everyone
I, SGEMP, is a loyal member of sgForums, and a secondary 3 Express student
Just now in the HKitalk's (a.k.a. italk) A7 (job and education) board, there is a topic on how to be an ace in academic/studying life.
http://www.hkitalk.net/HKiTalk2/viewthread.php?tid=45272&fpage=1œƒžé�˔\�¬ˆ×—D�Ë�¶?
(PS: I am not a member of italk.)
In response, other boardmates (also known as iMember) replied:
(translated from the Chinese Traditional reply of "ccicoltd")
"Aces usually have tuitions on numerous subjects, so they are actually dependant on their tuition agencies to get past the grade.
Pay attention in class and use your own efforts are only second to tuition."Meanwhile, now, I noticed that many of my classmates were on tuition (some even after exams), while I used my own hard efforts, with
no tuition, often studying late into the night, and at worse sometimes without sleeping for the whole night at all.
(The main reason was, in my primary school era, I had attended tuition with my twin elder brother, but there were still no improvement on my grades, and so driving me to a conclusion that tuition does not help my grades, only pull down my grades. And so I detested going for tuition since.)
Hence I sincerely believed that this is all because I have some serious inefficiencies in my method of studying as compared to the others.And now what I got for the EoY 2005 is as this:
EL - just a narrow pass with the help of oral exam in the early of this year.
Some others are far better than me.
And that was despite my hard efforts, my close focus on my weak areas, and my frequent consultation with my teachers and sometimes my peers for tips on improvement, accompanied with implementation of all their advicees and suggestions.
CL - Others topped my class, despite my hard efforts and my close focus on my weak areas.
For all others, they were mostly satisfactory for me.
But for Social Studies, I was at some distance from the passing grade, and needing urgent help for further improvements, all despite of my hard efforts, my deep focus on my weak areas, and my frequent consultation with my teacher for tips to improve my grades in this subject.(And so another thread would be started here by me over this.)
Also, I had for the overall passed all the seven O' level subjects I am taking as a Secondary 3 student about to be promoted to secondary 4 express next year, despite my not-so-impressive showing in my social studies.
However, sadly, I could not top in any subjects, even my simplest subject CL, in recent years, despite my hard efforts, and despite seeing others only getting 4 to 5 O' level subjects overall passes, with a few having far better English standards than me. (One of the better-than-me-in-English classmate attends tuition even till this day, as far as I know for today.)
And concluding from all my abovementioned items, to have speedier, further improvement of my grades (especially my EL grades and standards), better efficiency and strategy in my learning process, and to reduce the "burn midnight oil" without sleep incidences, I sincerely believed that it is better for me to go for tuition.(However the decisions to send me into tuitions are typically decided by my parents, not me.)
(Also from my observations from all the resources, I found out that should one attend tuition is very conflicting for me to consider about it.)And so what do you think about my desire to go for tuition? Should I? Or should I not?Also does it mean that paying attention in class and using my own efforts does not help???And so is there any faster, more efficient shortcut methods and strategies available for me to study and to revise, so that I do not need to burn midnight oil without sufficient rest? Also I would appreciate if more tips to improve my English standards were given, (in the relevant topic).Thank you for your kind suggestions and advices.
Yours faithfully
SGEMP