Love: Decided on Fate or created by Man
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Well...very often we have 2 people accidently bumping against each other, resluting a mess(maybe one of them sprain their legs etc) and they help one and another and they get to know each other better...guy ask gal for number..gal gives number...yada yada and they fall in love with each other after countless dates .etc
-This would be Fate
While created by man....
Would be the matchmaking services..where people are brought together by dating services created by man
My point is....Do you think that love by a couple is created by Fate or by Man? and give reasons on why you think so
P.S: Sorry if i dun sound too clear...i didn't had enough sleep last nite..
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
I kinda find it is all by fate
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do u knw there are more things to think about other than love? haih~ life is cruel sometimes.
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Meeting her is by Fate...
Having her is by Ur efforts... -
bear is in love...
/kicks bear -
Originally posted by alexkusu:bear is in love...
/kicks bear
Why U kick me?... -
true true...Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Meeting her is by Fate...
Having her is by Ur efforts... 
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Originally posted by StarPuppy:true true...
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Just for you SP
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=119542 -
Originally posted by StarPuppy:Well...very often we have 2 people accidently bumping against each other, resluting a mess(maybe one of them sprain their legs etc) and they help one and another and they get to know each other better...guy ask gal for number..gal gives number...yada yada and they fall in love with each other after countless dates .etc
-This would be Fate
While created by man....
Would be the matchmaking services..where people are brought together by dating services created by man My point is....Do you think that love by a couple is created by Fate or by Man? and give reasons on why you think so
P.S: Sorry if i dun sound too clear...i didn't had enough sleep last nite..
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy As again, this question bends towards spiritual aspect of Love: The moment when you start to question Love why and not direct this question towards a person - it becomes spiritual in nature.
We all begin life with vast inadequacy in Love because life is about learning Love in our own ways. If Love is a subject, all of us would have strength and weakness in different topic within the subject. The people whom we are bound to meet this lifetime presented lessons to 'tutor' us in Love aspects where we are weak in.
In face of Love, we all become emotionally naked. There is neither screen nor mask we often wear to the world. The lessons that Love brings would 'feel' hurtful because the shield we wield against strangers has vanished. We become vulnerable... like a child.
The naive often find themselves cheated.
The passive often find regrets.
The flirt often missed the good person.
And the list goes on.
The appearance of this particular person... our current cosmic lesson... is what people deemed as fate. But fate (being appearance of a particular person) has a double edge thingy to it: some relationships are karmic by nature. Karmic relationship are challenging relationship place to test our knowledge of Love and how we handle them. Chances are, karmic relationship will try to degenerate us. Don't ask me why some people always have karmic relationship - I can only tell you these certain group of people are likely to have abuse, misuse or have been cruel in Love in previous incarnation. This is a constant.
Worsen by (this lifetime) personality, character traits and decision made. These are variables.
And if enlightenment is gain (sometimes is merely time factor) - what that has previously served to degenerate us will build us instead. You know when you play those role playing games and when you encounter difficult monsters - these creatures somewhat have higher experience points. If we gain enough experience points, we level up... and become stronger than before.
Freewill is almighty in Love because the decision we made is actually freewill - it is within your span of control. You may not decide who you are going to meet this lifetime, but certainly, you have the choice if you want accept them into your learning cycle.
A man may have decided to try for the matchmaking services - but does he has control over the people whom he will meet? Not exactly. But, as again, he has a choice over the people whom he deemed as potentials to see if a relationship is possible between them.
A closed heart - even with all 'best fate', 'best people'... will fail if the freewill decision is to say no.
Which is more powerful?
You decide.
Cheers -
Can i say "Destiny"?
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
As again, this question bends towards spiritual aspect of Love: The moment when you start to question Love why and not direct this question towards a person - it becomes spiritual in nature.
We all begin life with vast inadequacy in Love because life is about learning Love in our own ways. If Love is a subject, all of us would have strength and weakness in different topic within the subject. The people whom we are bound to meet this lifetime presented lessons to 'tutor' us in Love aspects where we are weak in.
In face of Love, we all become emotionally naked. There is neither screen nor mask we often wear to the world. The lessons that Love brings would 'feel' hurtful because the shield we wield against strangers has vanished. We become vulnerable... like a child.
The naive often find themselves cheated.
The passive often find regrets.
The flirt often missed the good person.
And the list goes on.
The appearance of this particular person... our current cosmic lesson... is what people deemed as fate. But fate (being appearance of a particular person) has a double edge thingy to it: some relationships are karmic by nature. Karmic relationship are challenging relationship place to test our knowledge of Love and how we handle them. Chances are, karmic relationship will try to degenerate us. Don't ask me why some people always have karmic relationship - I can only tell you these certain group of people are likely to have abuse, misuse or have been cruel in Love in previous incarnation. This is a constant.
Worsen by (this lifetime) personality, character traits and decision made. These are variables.
And if enlightenment is gain (sometimes is merely time factor) - what that has previously served to degenerate us will build us instead. You know when you play those role playing games and when you encounter difficult monsters - these creatures somewhat have higher experience points. If we gain enough experience points, we level up... and become stronger than before.
Freewill is almighty in Love because the decision we made is actually freewill - it is within your span of control. [b]You may not decide who you are going to meet this lifetime, but certainly, you have the choice if you want accept them into your learning cycle.
A man may have decided to try for the matchmaking services - but does he has control over the people whom he will meet? Not exactly. But, as again, he has a choice over the people whom he deemed as potentials to see if a relationship is possible between them.
A closed heart - even with all 'best fate', 'best people'... will fail if the freewill decision is to say no.
Which is more powerful?
You decide.
Cheers [/b] err...err.. *scractches head* err... too chiem liao
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
Chim meh? Simplify liao lor...Originally posted by StarPuppy: err...err.. *scractches head* err... too chiem liao
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
Cheers -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:Chim meh? Simplify liao lor...
Cheers He's not ready for the answer?
Cheers -
i just cut short a little
if a man is not ready to be more open to more choices he will always be stuck with the limited choices he impose on himself.
let go off your self impose rules for a mate and u may find yourself having more choices...
Fate gives u a chance by letting u meet different people in life...
but is up to man to chose who he treasure the most and act on it. -
i cut it even simplier
1. when it is time to let go, it is time to let go
2. who hand longer who take