sexless marriage
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I am in 40 years old. I had not have sex for the past two years. My wife and I are more like roomates and closed friends rather than husband and wife. If not because of the children, we would have divorced long ago. Love simply died away as years passed by. We have been married since 1989. At that time, we will too young and naive. There is no chemistry when comes to sex. I am highly sexed and she is the opposite. Sometimes, I wish I had a sex partner or an affair secretly. Some ladies having the same problem as mine. Or any man who is the same boat and shoes, pls email me at [email protected]
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See a sex therapist / counsellor they are very good bunch of ppl to mingle with...
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Have you ever talk to your wife about this?...
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do u have kids?
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Originally posted by NT2:do u have kids?
He already said he has...
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1st. love need no b about making love.Originally posted by wongjoosong:I am in 40 years old. I had not have sex for the past two years. My wife and I are more like roomates and closed friends rather than husband and wife. If not because of the children, we would have divorced long ago. Love simply died away as years passed by. We have been married since 1989. At that time, we will too young and naive. There is no chemistry when comes to sex. I am highly sexed and she is the opposite. Sometimes, I wish I had a sex partner or an affair secretly. Some ladies having the same problem as mine. Or any man who is the same boat and shoes, pls email me at [email protected]
u hv a r/s problem with ur wife. u need to spend some quality time to sort out things (other then sex) with her. to help her out as a companion n a frenz.
2nd. trust. hv u betrayed her trust? cos u spoke of "Sometimes, I wish I had a sex partner or an affair secretly. Some ladies having the same problem as mine."
this is beri dangerous thought.
or some1 has spoken ills of u? -
Maybe a visit to "The Geylang Lorongs'" can help to solve your agony bah...
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Wah...I am glad he left email address for sincere people to respond, because dun seem like anyone care to honestly be helpful...
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Have u ever visit Miss Right hand? Maybe she can help u ease yr load!
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Wu ren chi di...Originally posted by dcx:Maybe a visit to "The Geylang Lorongs'" can help to solve your agony bah... -
Originally posted by wongjoosong:I am in 40 years old. I had not have sex for the past two years. My wife and I are more like roomates and closed friends rather than husband and wife. If not because of the children, we would have divorced long ago. Love simply died away as years passed by. We have been married since 1989. At that time, we will too young and naive. There is no chemistry when comes to sex. I am highly sexed and she is the opposite. Sometimes, I wish I had a sex partner or an affair secretly. Some ladies having the same problem as mine. Or any man who is the same boat and shoes, pls email me at [email protected]
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just say you are looking for free sex lah.
talk so much only the last sentence is important.
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You have had children.
How?
Come on, tackle your wife again.
From the tone of your post, looks like the problem is you, not your wife.
You expect your wife to be a hot chick.
But your wife is waiting for you.
She is wondering what happened to that horny stud.
She's thinking may be she is old and useless in sex.
Start tackling her early in the afternoon and continue until the night, and then slowly hint at sex. Tackle her with sweet words that makes her smile the whole afternoon.
Do not grab and rubba rubba her, like in the younger days.
Also do not just before going to sleep, shake her, grin and say "wan or dohwan" or "can or not". Like this sure to annoy her.
Slow slow woo her again lah.
She's awaiting! -
You don't have a clue! sometimes your partner just *may not be interested*, be it that day or that year. If your wife is absolutely not interested then your method is the equivalent of marital rape. I know cus i'm there; Been married for only 3 years but haven't had sex in most of that time, and not at all in the last year. Sometimes swooning and diamond rings just don't work. And mister left-or-right hand isn't much of a substitute if there's no hope of real affection in the future.Originally posted by mancha:You have had children.
How?
Come on, tackle your wife again.
From the tone of your post, looks like the problem is you, not your wife.
You expect your wife to be a hot chick.
But your wife is waiting for you.
She is wondering what happened to that horny stud.
She's thinking may be she is old and useless in sex.
Start tackling her early in the afternoon and continue until the night, and then slowly hint at sex. Tackle her with sweet words that makes her smile the whole afternoon.
Do not grab and rubba rubba her, like in the younger days.
Also do not just before going to sleep, shake her, grin and say "wan or dohwan" or "can or not". Like this sure to annoy her.
Slow slow woo her again lah.
She's awaiting!
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Sabaisabai.....All I can say is Thank You...
I wanted to say what you said, but wasn't sure how - excellent job.