Probably no one knows the answer to this...
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Probably no one knows the answer to this... but is it wrong to think badly of something and yet do good to that something?
Example 1:
You keep helping this person, keep smiling at him, listen to him pour out his problems to you and never ever did anything wrong to him, but deep down you hate him and you're always thinking something like "GOD DAMN IT! THIS KIND OF PEOPLE SHOULD JUST DIE!"
But you never show it out or tell anyone and still acting like a good friend never do anything wrong to him.
Example 2:
You see a beggar begging, then you willingly donate money to him but deep inside you're thinking "WAH LAU EH, WHY AM I EVEN DONATING TO HIM! HE SO DIRTY AND SMELLY! GET LOST AWAY FROM ME LAH!"
But then everytime you see him, you'll still donate to him willingly and smile at him.
Is this wrong or right?
Its like the outside always does good, you never does anything bad but the inside you is rotten to the core just that you never and will never show it.
So is this person good or bad?
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this is quite hyprocrite
no good wor.
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So, are u like that?
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it's like putting on a mask isn't it?? like u want to be same kind of person u're not really deep down are. i believe ppl who do this must be feeling sick of doing it cos it's like putting on a mask to face ppl
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Sometimes...Originally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:So, are u like that?
But I am like... If I see anyone in need, I'll hesitate to help them, not because I don't want to, in fact deep down, I really want to help them but I can't be bothered or feel paiseh or sometimes just plain lazy. -
Any help Not given willingly, does Not truly come from the heart. Probably doing it just for show or to give oneself a pat on the back & crow to others, "I did a good deed"
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Ayukat:Probably no one knows the answer to this... but is it wrong to think badly of something and yet do good to that something?
Example 1:
You keep helping this person, keep smiling at him, listen to him pour out his problems to you and never ever did anything wrong to him, but deep down you hate him and you're always thinking something like "GOD DAMN IT! THIS KIND OF PEOPLE SHOULD JUST DIE!"
But you never show it out or tell anyone and still acting like a good friend never do anything wrong to him.
Example 2:
You see a beggar begging, then you willingly donate money to him but deep inside you're thinking "WAH LAU EH, WHY AM I EVEN DONATING TO HIM! HE SO DIRTY AND SMELLY! GET LOST AWAY FROM ME LAH!"
But then everytime you see him, you'll still donate to him willingly and smile at him.
Is this wrong or right? Its like the outside always does good, you never does anything bad but the inside you is rotten to the core just that you never and will never show it.
So is this person good or bad? -
Budden, its still done... the people still benefit right?Originally posted by FeowFeow:Any help Not given willingly, does Not truly come from the heart. Probably doing it just for show or to give oneself a pat on the back & crow to others, "I did a good deed"
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Probably you don't understand. Not because nobody knows the answer.Originally posted by Ayukat:Probably no one knows the answer to this... but is it wrong to think badly of something and yet do good to that something?
Example 1:
You keep helping this person, keep smiling at him, listen to him pour out his problems to you and never ever did anything wrong to him, but deep down you hate him and you're always thinking something like "GOD DAMN IT! THIS KIND OF PEOPLE SHOULD JUST DIE!"
But you never show it out or tell anyone and still acting like a good friend never do anything wrong to him.
Example 2:
You see a beggar begging, then you willingly donate money to him but deep inside you're thinking "WAH LAU EH, WHY AM I EVEN DONATING TO HIM! HE SO DIRTY AND SMELLY! GET LOST AWAY FROM ME LAH!"
But then everytime you see him, you'll still donate to him willingly and smile at him.
Is this wrong or right? Its like the outside always does good, you never does anything bad but the inside you is rotten to the core just that you never and will never show it.
So is this person good or bad?
Let's put yourself in the person who needs help in case 1. So the listener is your friend.
So you think it's right for him to feel this way about you?
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Budden he never do me wrong mah? Is he good or bad? And if there's a heaven and hell? Where do these people go?Originally posted by M©+square:Probably you don't understand. Not because nobody knows the answer.
Let's put yourself in the person who needs help in case 1. So the listener is your friend.
So you think it's right for him to feel this way about you?
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BADOriginally posted by Ayukat:Probably no one knows the answer to this... but is it wrong to think badly of something and yet do good to that something?
Example 1:
You keep helping this person, keep smiling at him, listen to him pour out his problems to you and never ever did anything wrong to him, but deep down you hate him and you're always thinking something like "GOD DAMN IT! THIS KIND OF PEOPLE SHOULD JUST DIE!"
But you never show it out or tell anyone and still acting like a good friend never do anything wrong to him.
Example 2:
You see a beggar begging, then you willingly donate money to him but deep inside you're thinking "WAH LAU EH, WHY AM I EVEN DONATING TO HIM! HE SO DIRTY AND SMELLY! GET LOST AWAY FROM ME LAH!"
But then everytime you see him, you'll still donate to him willingly and smile at him.
Is this wrong or right? Its like the outside always does good, you never does anything bad but the inside you is rotten to the core just that you never and will never show it.
So is this person good or bad? -
I'm the direct opposite...
I look mean on the exterior... but deep down... I am nice... -
Added with extra dosage of patience:Originally posted by Ayukat:Budden he never do me wrong mah? Is he good or bad? And if there's a heaven and hell? Where do these people go?
Would you like anything that is rotten?
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Like tat might as well dun act...Originally posted by DrTech:I'm the direct opposite...
I look mean on the exterior... but deep down... I am nice... -
Budden... isn't it weird if they go to hell when they did nth wrong?Originally posted by M©+square:Added with extra dosage of patience:
Would you like anything that is rotten?
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hmm. in ur mind, there's always a struggle between wanting to do good, and following your own desire.
in the end.. its what you do in the end counts.
whenever i do social service etc, i'll always grumble to myself what a waste of time etc.. but in the end, i know its a good thing and i do it, even if i'm not happy.
sometimes i feel happy after doing it, and seeing their happy faces. -
You didn't answer my question?Originally posted by Ayukat:Budden... isn't it weird if they go to hell when they did nth wrong?
Now you're asking if it's right or wrong?
Or
Or you're asking if this kind of person will go heaven?
By backstabbing people or having double standards.
Nobody will respect or like this kind of people. Because they are rotten inside.
Truth cannot be hidden forever.
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If u wan an answer its no just becos nobody in the right mind will say yes. But I still dun see why people like that are considered bad... they didn nth wrong mah.Originally posted by M©+square:You didn't answer my question?
Now you're asking if it's right or wrong?
Or
Or you're asking if this kind of person will go heaven?
By backstabbing people or having double standards.
Nobody will respect or like this kind of people. Because they are rotten inside.
Truth cannot be hidden forever.
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Then i ask you. Would you like to have this kind of friends around you and whom you treat as best friends?Originally posted by Ayukat:If u wan an answer its no just becos nobody in the right mind will say yes. But I still dun see why people like that are considered bad... they didn nth wrong mah.
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MC, must warn you. This fella has made Auntie Yunnie & I vomit blood before
ITS main motive is to argue with you until you get very angry. This THING has a really perverse streak. Don't get yourself worked up over IT 
Of course, if you're having a bad day, can let off steam at IT
FeowFeowOriginally posted by M©+square:Then i ask you. Would you like to have this kind of friends around you and whom you treat as best friends?
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Man.. u talk just like ur problems. Dun ask so many questions. U do what is right.. if u dun like it u say it. Some ppl are just too stubborn.. n u have the right to nut out at them ESPECIALLY when u warned them n they still do it... n stil bitch n moan. If u do things to show that u are doing a good deed or helping others , you are basically not doing it for the sake of friendship but for face. Its 2 different thing.. like i said..read my signature..
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I don't mind, they don't show it, I don't know.Originally posted by M©+square:Then i ask you. Would you like to have this kind of friends around you and whom you treat as best friends?
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If they show it, I'll just avoid them but I won't feel offended... becos I learned to take things lightly dunno since when, you can insult me or my family... and I wouldn't even care or feel angry.
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very true, but ultimately, its still the thought that counts.Originally posted by Ayukat:Budden, its still done... the people still benefit right?
its just like if you donate money to them, with all good intentions, or bad intentions, they will still benefit, as they get the money. However, if you do not donate, even if you have good/bad intentions, they still don't benefit, even if you have the purest heart. -
They are those that feel the need to anger others , and then they feel esctatic.. its like popping E's to them.. n sometimes they bring stupidity to a whole new level...Originally posted by FeowFeow:MC, must warn you. This fella has made Auntie Yunnie & I vomit blood before ITS main motive is to argue with you until you get very angry. This THING has a really perverse streak. Don't get yourself worked up over IT
Of course, if you're having a bad day, can let off steam at IT
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Very WARPED lorr If only there's a function for me to ban certain irritants, this guy would likely to be banned
FeowFeowOriginally posted by BadzMaro:They are those that feel the need to anger others , and then they feel esctatic.. its like popping E's to them.. n sometimes they bring stupidity to a whole new level... -
Haha...i know. That's why i didn't want to waste my time on him the other time.Originally posted by FeowFeow:MC, must warn you. This fella has made Auntie Yunnie & I vomit blood before ITS main motive is to argue with you until you get very angry. This THING has a really perverse streak. Don't get yourself worked up over IT
Of course, if you're having a bad day, can let off steam at IT
FeowFeow
This time i've got extra dosage of patience on this thread~
Cheers