How would you feel if...
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You like this girl very much, you spend and wasted alot and I mean ALOT of time on her.
She has rejected you before but recently you 2 became closer VERY close. Gone out together on dates, bring her to and from school, held hands and even done some petting.
But to kick you back to reality, SHE IS NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND and she also has been clarfying with others of the fact that SHE IS NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
To make things even worse, many people are chasing her and she even goes on dates with those people. If she can do all that stuff with you, whats stopping her from doing all those stuff with others?
How would you feel? No, its not me, my friend, that girl also my friend lah. -
i think if she is a decent girl, she wont allow holding hands and petting to take place..Originally posted by Big Bot:You like this girl very much, you spend and wasted alot and I mean ALOT of time on her.
She has rejected you before but recently you 2 became closer VERY close. Gone out together on dates, bring her to and from school, held hands and even done some petting.
But to kick you back to reality, SHE IS NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND and she also has been clarfying with others of the fact that SHE IS NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
To make things even worse, many people are chasing her and she even goes on dates with those people. If she can do all that stuff with you, whats stopping her from doing all those stuff with others?
How would you feel? No, its not me, my friend, that girl also my friend lah.
u(or ur friend) should evaluate whether he will want a loose(i supposed) girl to be his girlfriend.. if yes, then continue chasing her! -
i'll feel like an idiot.
y would i be going out frequently with those girls who have rejected me?
i should move on and cut away every single contact of those who rejected me b4. cos everytime there's this funny feeling of awkwardness... ya know..
so, u'll never see me so friendly with my ex or any of my ex-crushes whom i've gone out with b4. -
another social butterfly... looking for greener pasture. if she do this to others, she will do same to u.
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she enjoys the feeling of being dated......but haben made her choice yet or simply does not want to commit to anyone now
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let your friend decided what is right for him.
Chasing a girl means u got to spend time and effort to go after her there is no simple short cut methods..
your friend has put a lot of effort to go after her i agreed and she has shown that she had given him a chance by going out with him.
but most impt the gal is in chosing stage now, and she got the every right to reject anyone she please.
She has not agreed to be your friend's gf yet right?
So your friend can only be called a guy who is chasing her only.
Putting time and effort into her only incease his chances to be her bf BUT it does not mean she will accept him.
Ask your friend this, if he loves her so much, quit complaining is tough job chasing girls, instead put in more effort to show that he is better than other guys out there to be her first choice as her bf.
If your friend still want to complain then ask him to quit chasing her and stop wasting his time... -
this question will apply to ur fren himself .. is tat gal worth it or not .. i myself had been in this sticky situation b4 .. i was kinda involved with a gal who is in a rls at that time .. however .. things happened n we even kissed .. i mean .. basically .. she was 2 timing .. n i knew she had a bf .. well .. i really liked her .. then it didnt drawn to me tat she already had a steady .. i kept on pursuiting .. it is like .. she kissed me .. then later go on date with her bf .. this kind of thing .. but i didnt mind ... love is blind i guess .. eventually she didnt choose me .. but chose some1 else .. some1 who jus appeared betw me n her bf .. which is farking lame ...
it onli took me sometime to look back .. n felt hw stupid i have been .. wasting the $$ n the care n concern .. over some1 who doesnt really fit the bill .. hai .. but we r still frens .. n rather close again