
This story in Love Actually is the one that touches me the most...Originally posted by Tuatau:"Left hand is friendship; right hand is love."
An age-old dilema with seldom a happy ending.
We could attempt to advise, but eventually it is your choice to make.
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love is selfish. I agree... if u are certain of your feelings, ask yourself are you willing to throw away your friendship with your best friend be it whether you get the girl in the end or not.Originally posted by Airbus330Captain:Thanks for your advices guys .. .
Well , all I can say is that I can imagine both of us being together happily , having a family together. I havent had that feeling for a long time. I ask you guys a question. If you see someone who is already attached but you have strong feelings for her , what will you do ? Wait for her to break off depending on how strong their relationship are ? Forget it and move on or confess to her hoping that a miracle will happen ?
I believe love is selfish but what I really believe that even if I like her but she doesnt like me , love cannot be forced and if i really love her , I should be happy for her happiness, that is how I feel.
It's really quite a nice show...?Originally posted by rainee:This story in Love Actually is the one that touches me the most...![]()
yeah. i think so tooOriginally posted by rainee:This story in Love Actually is the one that touches me the most...![]()
Originally posted by Airbus330Captain:Thanks for your advices guys .. .
Well , all I can say is that I can imagine both of us being together happily , having a family together. I havent had that feeling for a long time. I ask you guys a question. If you see someone who is already attached but you have strong feelings for her , what will you do ? Wait for her to break off depending on how strong their relationship are ? Forget it and move on or confess to her hoping that a miracle will happen ?
I believe love is selfish but what I really believe that even if I like her but she doesnt like me , love cannot be forced and if i really love her , I should be happy for her happiness, that is how I feel.
tell u wat, this is actually a very common thing... especially if she's the type u like.Originally posted by Airbus330Captain:Dont be like me , fall in love with your best mate's gf .
I hope I can talk to someone about it in private
( PM ) .... whoever is free or good in advising , do you mind giving me some advises ? I dont feel like typing it all out here.
Thanks.
Greatly appreciated.
We do have such fantasies with someone once in a while. Nothing wrong in that.Originally posted by Airbus330Captain:Thanks for your advices guys .. .
Well , all I can say is that I can imagine both of us being together happily , having a family together. I havent had that feeling for a long time. I ask you guys a question. If you see someone who is already attached but you have strong feelings for her , what will you do ? Wait for her to break off depending on how strong their relationship are ? Forget it and move on or confess to her hoping that a miracle will happen ?
I believe love is selfish but what I really believe that even if I like her but she doesnt like me , love cannot be forced and if i really love her , I should be happy for her happiness, that is how I feel.
Seriously speaking, it is neither you or the girl's fault end up falling in loveOriginally posted by Airbus330Captain:Dont be like me , fall in love with your best mate's gf .
I hope I can talk to someone about it in private
( PM ) .... whoever is free or good in advising , do you mind giving me some advises ? I dont feel like typing it all out here.
Thanks.
Greatly appreciated.
So are you still going to decide to give up?Originally posted by Airbus330Captain:Yeah , she knows that I like her , she liked me for a period of time but her attitude changed .... I dont know how did that happened , but it happened few days after that .... my mood had been affected for weeks and last week was my lowest point ... went out with them yesterday, it was a mistake . She purposely became very passionate with him , the actions are clear. Kissing in my presense is enough to make my heart hurt. Her close friend and I agree on something , she still behaving like a kid. She thinks that I deserved better and I cannot disagree with her. If I would to move on from this which may be a good thing, I will have to stop contact with her and my best buddy for a while. My best buddy has changed recently , became quite obsessed with her . Obsessed : " Must meet up everyday , that sort you know" We used to talk on the phone every day but lately he stopped and roughly I know what is happening. The problem is she already told her close friend that they cannot be together because of religion and she only like not love him ..... now u figure.![]()
Well, it's time to cool offOriginally posted by Airbus330Captain:Yeah , she knows that I like her , she liked me for a period of time but her attitude changed .... I dont know how did that happened , but it happened few days after that .... my mood had been affected for weeks and last week was my lowest point ... went out with them yesterday, it was a mistake . She purposely became very passionate with him , the actions are clear. Kissing in my presense is enough to make my heart hurt. Her close friend and I agree on something , she still behaving like a kid. She thinks that I deserved better and I cannot disagree with her. If I would to move on from this which may be a good thing, I will have to stop contact with her and my best buddy for a while. My best buddy has changed recently , became quite obsessed with her . Obsessed : " Must meet up everyday , that sort you know" We used to talk on the phone every day but lately he stopped and roughly I know what is happening. The problem is she already told her close friend that they cannot be together because of religion and she only like not love him ..... now u figure.![]()
Originally posted by Airbus330Captain:Yeah , she knows that I like her , she liked me for a period of time but her attitude changed .... I dont know how did that happened , but it happened few days after that .... my mood had been affected for weeks and last week was my lowest point ... went out with them yesterday, it was a mistake . She purposely became very passionate with him , the actions are clear. Kissing in my presense is enough to make my heart hurt. Her close friend and I agree on something , she still behaving like a kid. She thinks that I deserved better and I cannot disagree with her. If I would to move on from this which may be a good thing, I will have to stop contact with her and my best buddy for a while. My best buddy has changed recently , became quite obsessed with her . Obsessed : " Must meet up everyday , that sort you know" We used to talk on the phone every day but lately he stopped and roughly I know what is happening. The problem is she already told her close friend that they cannot be together because of religion and she only like not love him ..... now u figure.![]()