My story
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Hey people I'm here to share my love story, I really hope this would be of help to guys facing the same problem as me.
On 23rd april 04 I met the girl of my dreams, she was perfect, pretty ,kind and very understanding. Went out often spend countless hours at the beach. Did things most couples would have done, shopping etc. She helped me greatly in my studies and in my life. That time I was rather naughty getting into trouble in the law etc. I was in hostel then, she waited for me gave me endless support and love. She didn't mind me, she really did love me for who I was. I must admit I was not good enough for her, in terms of looks or capablilites. As a BF i was not a good one. I didn't try to understand her friends etc. We'll we held on, I didn't do things most guys would do for their GF like help them carry their bags etc however she didn't complain but held on with me. She always gave in until the very end. Althought she did 2 time me once in june of 04 I forgave her and she was really sorry, I guess this was when our relationship was aheading down the doom's road. She started treating me nice maybe too nice until I was taking her for granted which I truly regret now. She gave up her dreams of going to a JC for me and even gave up her friends for me. I on the other hand did not give up anything I guess, I didn't even treat her with the love she deserved. Only on the 7 of sept this year when we broke up that I knew how bad I was. Tried hard too hard maybe to get her back. Begged and plead tried everything i really did. Now left alone as a part of me is really missing, everything that once seemed important now seems unimportant. Before the break up I did lost faith in us, maybe we were together for too long and even thought of going with someone else. I am really a jerk and a fool for thinking that way and now its too late. I learned something through this experience that loving someone truly means giving in totally and not taking someone for granted. Life will never be the same for me. WelL I'm in the same class as her and shes seeing someone else i guess. I'm happy for her and do not blame her for treating me this way now.
Guys listen up when you think your pride and ego is most important remember one thing without her you would really be nothing and giving in althought it may be hard is the best solution otherwise when other guys come into the picture and treat her like a princess, you would truly lose out to them even if u try very very hard. I truly hope no one would ever go through this experience like me its truly hell on earth when someone who loved you so much wouldn't give u a chance after she has laid down so much wonderful memories for u. Guys out there be good bfs and never let you girl down for you will truly regret it, give in when giving in seems impossible and say a simple sorry althought its hard as sorry is a magical word that brings miracles. I really hope my experience will help all those couples who are having trouble now. Take care god bless everyone -
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Thanks for your story. Even though Im in a situation that is not related, it has open up my eyes to something. For that, I thank you. Now I know what needs to be done
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Do not take your gf or bf for granted.
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orbigood
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More often than not, we tend to take what we have for granted till we lose it in the end.
To the threadstarter, take heart and may you heal, find and love a special person just as she loves you again. -
Thanks I hope it has help those in need thats the true meaning =) Praying that noone will end up like me =P For all those who has suffered break ups I hope that you keep the wonderful memories and never forgot the past. . . .
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best wish and hope u meet ur last gf and marry her and be happy the rest of ur life.
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kelviz i am really sorry for hearing what has happen.
Is a phase of growing up that all of us had to face.
You have learn the hard way that love is never a one sided effort.
Both must put in effort to make the love complete.
Hope that u have learn the lesson well and treat the next love even better.
Let your ex go, she had done her best for u and u had your chance. If you truly love her let her go the path she wants and let someone treat her well for a chance. If she loves u from the bottom of her heart she will return back to u in due time.. -
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Hey.. Its good that you wake up now... The old saying goes:" a person will never weep till he/she sees the coffin"
You have learnt a hard lesson by loosing a girl whom truely love you and stood by your side through thick and thin..
You can try to find out if she is still attached now.. If she is now.. And if you are really remorseful and such.. Talk things out with her.. If she is really forgiving.. ask for a chance.. And if she gives you that chance. I guess thats the last thing you wan..
All the best dude.. Don give up..
Cheers
P.S. Can you paragrah nicely.. I read till my eyes blur..
Originally posted by kelviz:Hey people I'm here to share my love story, I really hope this would be of help to guys facing the same problem as me.
On 23rd april 04 I met the girl of my dreams, she was perfect, pretty ,kind and very understanding. Went out often spend countless hours at the beach. Did things most couples would have done, shopping etc. She helped me greatly in my studies and in my life. That time I was rather naughty getting into trouble in the law etc. I was in hostel then, she waited for me gave me endless support and love. She didn't mind me, she really did love me for who I was. I must admit I was not good enough for her, in terms of looks or capablilites. As a BF i was not a good one. I didn't try to understand her friends etc. We'll we held on, I didn't do things most guys would do for their GF like help them carry their bags etc however she didn't complain but held on with me. She always gave in until the very end. Althought she did 2 time me once in june of 04 I forgave her and she was really sorry, I guess this was when our relationship was aheading down the doom's road. She started treating me nice maybe too nice until I was taking her for granted which I truly regret now. She gave up her dreams of going to a JC for me and even gave up her friends for me. I on the other hand did not give up anything I guess, I didn't even treat her with the love she deserved. Only on the 7 of sept this year when we broke up that I knew how bad I was. Tried hard too hard maybe to get her back. Begged and plead tried everything i really did. Now left alone as a part of me is really missing, everything that once seemed important now seems unimportant. Before the break up I did lost faith in us, maybe we were together for too long and even thought of going with someone else. I am really a jerk and a fool for thinking that way and now its too late. I learned something through this experience that loving someone truly means giving in totally and not taking someone for granted. Life will never be the same for me. WelL I'm in the same class as her and shes seeing someone else i guess. I'm happy for her and do not blame her for treating me this way now.
Guys listen up when you think your pride and ego is most important remember one thing without her you would really be nothing and giving in althought it may be hard is the best solution otherwise when other guys come into the picture and treat her like a princess, you would truly lose out to them even if u try very very hard. I truly hope no one would ever go through this experience like me its truly hell on earth when someone who loved you so much wouldn't give u a chance after she has laid down so much wonderful memories for u. Guys out there be good bfs and never let you girl down for you will truly regret it, give in when giving in seems impossible and say a simple sorry althought its hard as sorry is a magical word that brings miracles. I really hope my experience will help all those couples who are having trouble now. Take care god bless everyone -
ppl so sad alr,u still liddat...Originally posted by Ferguson:orbigood
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Well life still sucks though lol she found another guy. I have to be happy for her ba its weird but ya sometime in life theres somethings you have to let go
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There's always greener pastures,hope u can find someone u really trust and like...
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My ex put me on a pedestal but I din treasure her & took her for granted instead. When I lost her I was totally devastated... I recalled that many years ago, I was very touched by a scene in Stephen Chow's "Journey to the West" where he said some very touching lines prior to becoming the Monkey God. I then reprimanded myself for having taken my ex for granted despite being touched by those lines years ago.. I then scoured the Net for the transcipt and eventually found it. I then told myself if I ever find a new love I'll treasure her so so much:-Originally posted by kelviz:Hey people I'm here to share my love story, I really hope this would be of help to guys facing the same problem as me.
On 23rd april 04 I met the girl of my dreams, she was perfect, pretty ,kind and very understanding. Went out often spend countless hours at the beach. Did things most couples would have done, shopping etc. She helped me greatly in my studies and in my life. That time I was rather naughty getting into trouble in the law etc. I was in hostel then, she waited for me gave me endless support and love. She didn't mind me, she really did love me for who I was. I must admit I was not good enough for her, in terms of looks or capablilites. As a BF i was not a good one. I didn't try to understand her friends etc. We'll we held on, I didn't do things most guys would do for their GF like help them carry their bags etc however she didn't complain but held on with me. She always gave in until the very end. Althought she did 2 time me once in june of 04 I forgave her and she was really sorry, I guess this was when our relationship was aheading down the doom's road. She started treating me nice maybe too nice until I was taking her for granted which I truly regret now. She gave up her dreams of going to a JC for me and even gave up her friends for me. I on the other hand did not give up anything I guess, I didn't even treat her with the love she deserved. Only on the 7 of sept this year when we broke up that I knew how bad I was. Tried hard too hard maybe to get her back. Begged and plead tried everything i really did. Now left alone as a part of me is really missing, everything that once seemed important now seems unimportant. Before the break up I did lost faith in us, maybe we were together for too long and even thought of going with someone else. I am really a jerk and a fool for thinking that way and now its too late. I learned something through this experience that loving someone truly means giving in totally and not taking someone for granted. Life will never be the same for me. WelL I'm in the same class as her and shes seeing someone else i guess. I'm happy for her and do not blame her for treating me this way now.
Guys listen up when you think your pride and ego is most important remember one thing without her you would really be nothing and giving in althought it may be hard is the best solution otherwise when other guys come into the picture and treat her like a princess, you would truly lose out to them even if u try very very hard. I truly hope no one would ever go through this experience like me its truly hell on earth when someone who loved you so much wouldn't give u a chance after she has laid down so much wonderful memories for u. Guys out there be good bfs and never let you girl down for you will truly regret it, give in when giving in seems impossible and say a simple sorry althought its hard as sorry is a magical word that brings miracles. I really hope my experience will help all those couples who are having trouble now. Take care god bless everyone
Maybe a lot of ppl in this forum have never watched this show but I'm sure ppl born in the 70s and before can relate to this....
So, in summary, never ever take someone for granted else when it's water under the bridge then it's really fu4 shui3 nan2 shou1....
U may wanna print the above out & paste it somewhere or print it to a pdf file, for when the One appears later on in ur life, these lines gently remind u not to make the same mistake again...
All the best in life...
edit: I am not sure if the image i uploaded will show. -
dont take ur partner for granted
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prove wat?Originally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:dont take ur partner for granted
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Once you learn things the hard way... then will you remember and change for the better..
That's human..
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Dear Kelviz,
Your story is sad, but a common 1. There're guys who only realise & take their gfs seriously WHEN the relationship has ended. During that period of time, they took it for granted that they'd always be forgiven, & the gfs would forgive them time & again outta love to the point where they couldn't take it anymore.
Then again, the split may Not have been that you were horrid, but due to your personalities Not being compatible, & both of you wanting different things in life. I've experienced this before, some of my exes were actually ok people, but what we wanted in life was different.
Nevertheless, as the pain must still be very raw, take the time to grieve. Just be wary of falling into the pattern of wallowing in self pity. Be strong & move on after awhile. Take it as a lesson so that in future, you'll be a better partner to someone.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by kelviz:Hey people I'm here to share my love story, I really hope this would be of help to guys facing the same problem as me.
On 23rd april 04 I met the girl of my dreams, she was perfect, pretty ,kind and very understanding. Went out often spend countless hours at the beach. Did things most couples would have done, shopping etc. She helped me greatly in my studies and in my life. That time I was rather naughty getting into trouble in the law etc. I was in hostel then, she waited for me gave me endless support and love. She didn't mind me, she really did love me for who I was. I must admit I was not good enough for her, in terms of looks or capablilites. As a BF i was not a good one. I didn't try to understand her friends etc. We'll we held on, I didn't do things most guys would do for their GF like help them carry their bags etc however she didn't complain but held on with me. She always gave in until the very end. Althought she did 2 time me once in june of 04 I forgave her and she was really sorry, I guess this was when our relationship was aheading down the doom's road. She started treating me nice maybe too nice until I was taking her for granted which I truly regret now. She gave up her dreams of going to a JC for me and even gave up her friends for me. I on the other hand did not give up anything I guess, I didn't even treat her with the love she deserved. Only on the 7 of sept this year when we broke up that I knew how bad I was. Tried hard too hard maybe to get her back. Begged and plead tried everything i really did. Now left alone as a part of me is really missing, everything that once seemed important now seems unimportant. Before the break up I did lost faith in us, maybe we were together for too long and even thought of going with someone else. I am really a jerk and a fool for thinking that way and now its too late. I learned something through this experience that loving someone truly means giving in totally and not taking someone for granted. Life will never be the same for me. WelL I'm in the same class as her and shes seeing someone else i guess. I'm happy for her and do not blame her for treating me this way now.
Guys listen up when you think your pride and ego is most important remember one thing without her you would really be nothing and giving in althought it may be hard is the best solution otherwise when other guys come into the picture and treat her like a princess, you would truly lose out to them even if u try very very hard. I truly hope no one would ever go through this experience like me its truly hell on earth when someone who loved you so much wouldn't give u a chance after she has laid down so much wonderful memories for u. Guys out there be good bfs and never let you girl down for you will truly regret it, give in when giving in seems impossible and say a simple sorry althought its hard as sorry is a magical word that brings miracles. I really hope my experience will help all those couples who are having trouble now. Take care god bless everyone -
Having a girl who dotes and love you so much is like a heaven gift. You must understand, not all guys will have even though they want, i admit i'm one of the many. All the time, i always commit, give in, love the girl first but in return i get is rejection. Well, if the chance comes again to u, cherish it well dude.Originally posted by kelviz:Hey people I'm here to share my love story, I really hope this would be of help to guys facing the same problem as me.
On 23rd april 04 I met the girl of my dreams, she was perfect, pretty ,kind and very understanding. Went out often spend countless hours at the beach. Did things most couples would have done, shopping etc. She helped me greatly in my studies and in my life. That time I was rather naughty getting into trouble in the law etc. I was in hostel then, she waited for me gave me endless support and love. She didn't mind me, she really did love me for who I was. I must admit I was not good enough for her, in terms of looks or capablilites. As a BF i was not a good one. I didn't try to understand her friends etc. We'll we held on, I didn't do things most guys would do for their GF like help them carry their bags etc however she didn't complain but held on with me. She always gave in until the very end. Althought she did 2 time me once in june of 04 I forgave her and she was really sorry, I guess this was when our relationship was aheading down the doom's road. She started treating me nice maybe too nice until I was taking her for granted which I truly regret now. She gave up her dreams of going to a JC for me and even gave up her friends for me. I on the other hand did not give up anything I guess, I didn't even treat her with the love she deserved. Only on the 7 of sept this year when we broke up that I knew how bad I was. Tried hard too hard maybe to get her back. Begged and plead tried everything i really did. Now left alone as a part of me is really missing, everything that once seemed important now seems unimportant. Before the break up I did lost faith in us, maybe we were together for too long and even thought of going with someone else. I am really a jerk and a fool for thinking that way and now its too late. I learned something through this experience that loving someone truly means giving in totally and not taking someone for granted. Life will never be the same for me. WelL I'm in the same class as her and shes seeing someone else i guess. I'm happy for her and do not blame her for treating me this way now.
Guys listen up when you think your pride and ego is most important remember one thing without her you would really be nothing and giving in althought it may be hard is the best solution otherwise when other guys come into the picture and treat her like a princess, you would truly lose out to them even if u try very very hard. I truly hope no one would ever go through this experience like me its truly hell on earth when someone who loved you so much wouldn't give u a chance after she has laid down so much wonderful memories for u. Guys out there be good bfs and never let you girl down for you will truly regret it, give in when giving in seems impossible and say a simple sorry althought its hard as sorry is a magical word that brings miracles. I really hope my experience will help all those couples who are having trouble now. Take care god bless everyone -
After every love relationship ended.. Both parties will lose out in the end.. but the experenice gain, the knowledge gain it never ending..
After my six yr relationship with my ex ended.. i too learn lot of stuff.. EGo,Temper and lotta of stuff...
i may feel sad, but i'm glad i walk out of it..learning lotta of new thing.. how to treat people,how to treat your love and start to treasure thing...
For the treadstarter..good luck in your future adverture..and may u learn from your mistake and treat your next gf the best u could..
u got your chance but u never treasure it, be glad that she was there in the past to make u happy... let her go and be happy for her..in whatever choice she make...