It's official. I'm single.
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yes.. i just came back.. broke up with my gf of 7 months 8 days.. she decided to do it right in the midst of my A lvls...
i am a JC2 student, she is a JC1.. i was already one of the comm members in the same CCA, hockey. i wasnt really interested in her in the first place.. a few weeks on, i saw someone so appealing... it was her.. i chatted up with her.. we talked in sch a lot.. one day, she asked a friend of hers for my number...
it all started. she was my 5th, whereas i was her 1st.. she needed a lot of explanation abt relationships... one month later.. on the 4th of april.. she said yes..
we had great times together.. words just can't explain how wonderful the experience was.. it was magical..
now, for some reason or another, she told me she's not feeling it anymore... she gave reasons like "i cant promise you i'll stay with you.." , "i cant play you on.." and "it's better to do it now than later.."
it's now over.
we talked at ECP this morning on the stone benches.. i tried hard to change her mind. she was persistent on breaking up.. 30 minutes later.. i gave her her wish. i walked away crying...
it's really over.. but i still love her.. she was my everything.. -
LOSEROriginally posted by sinicker:yes.. i just came back.. broke up with my gf of 7 months 8 days.. she decided to do it right in the midst of my A lvls...
i am a JC2 student, she is a JC1.. i was already one of the comm members in the same CCA, hockey. i wasnt really interested in her in the first place.. a few weeks on, i saw someone so appealing... it was her.. i chatted up with her.. we talked in sch a lot.. one day, she asked a friend of hers for my number...
it all started. she was my 5th, whereas i was her 1st.. she needed a lot of explanation abt relationships... one month later.. on the 4th of april.. she said yes..
we had great times together.. words just can't explain how wonderful the experience was.. it was magical..
now, for some reason or another, she told me she's not feeling it anymore... she gave reasons like "i cant promise you i'll stay with you.." , "i cant play you on.." and "it's better to do it now than later.."
it's now over.
we talked at ECP this morning on the stone benches.. i tried hard to change her mind. she was persistent on breaking up.. 30 minutes later.. i gave her her wish. i walked away crying...
it's really over.. but i still love her.. she was my everything.. -
/me pats sinicker backOriginally posted by sinicker:yes.. i just came back.. broke up with my gf of 7 months 8 days.. she decided to do it right in the midst of my A lvls...
i am a JC2 student, she is a JC1.. i was already one of the comm members in the same CCA, hockey. i wasnt really interested in her in the first place.. a few weeks on, i saw someone so appealing... it was her.. i chatted up with her.. we talked in sch a lot.. one day, she asked a friend of hers for my number...
it all started. she was my 5th, whereas i was her 1st.. she needed a lot of explanation abt relationships... one month later.. on the 4th of april.. she said yes..
we had great times together.. words just can't explain how wonderful the experience was.. it was magical..
now, for some reason or another, she told me she's not feeling it anymore... she gave reasons like "i cant promise you i'll stay with you.." , "i cant play you on.." and "it's better to do it now than later.."
it's now over.
we talked at ECP this morning on the stone benches.. i tried hard to change her mind. she was persistent on breaking up.. 30 minutes later.. i gave her her wish. i walked away crying...
it's really over.. but i still love her.. she was my everything..
at least you all had great times...its time to move on with your life...she decided to go to her path and i think if you truely love her..let her be happy
~+Cheers+~
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oh my.. that's really sad dude. hope u can get over it soon. don't think too much about it, concentrate on your As 1st. anyway, since she is your 5th, i am sure u can handle break ups pretty wellOriginally posted by sinicker:yes.. i just came back.. broke up with my gf of 7 months 8 days.. she decided to do it right in the midst of my A lvls...
i am a JC2 student, she is a JC1.. i was already one of the comm members in the same CCA, hockey. i wasnt really interested in her in the first place.. a few weeks on, i saw someone so appealing... it was her.. i chatted up with her.. we talked in sch a lot.. one day, she asked a friend of hers for my number...
it all started. she was my 5th, whereas i was her 1st.. she needed a lot of explanation abt relationships... one month later.. on the 4th of april.. she said yes..
we had great times together.. words just can't explain how wonderful the experience was.. it was magical..
now, for some reason or another, she told me she's not feeling it anymore... she gave reasons like "i cant promise you i'll stay with you.." , "i cant play you on.." and "it's better to do it now than later.."
it's now over.
we talked at ECP this morning on the stone benches.. i tried hard to change her mind. she was persistent on breaking up.. 30 minutes later.. i gave her her wish. i walked away crying...
it's really over.. but i still love her.. she was my everything..
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It's best to give in to her wishes, since she is no longer interested in continuing the relationship with you. Compelling or trying your best in changing her mind, even though successful, may not be for long term, as her mind will constantly be on the search for excuses to break-up.
Once a person made their decision and put their thumbs down, it is usually not that easy to change their minds, particularly involving emotional issues which are complex and confused easily.
All the best! -
You are still so young. Don't give up so easily young boy.
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+1Originally posted by Manager433:You are still so young. Don't give up so easily young boy. -
everyone(as in my friends and her friends) are now shocked it's over... everyone's calling me and asking what happened and all.. everyone thot we were meant for each other.. but well, i guess it just isnt meant to be..
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pat pat*
so poor thing.. but this is life..
all the best to ur A Levels. -
nowadays young people are more likely to take BGR non seriously...
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Yes, once he gets good A-lvl results, go oversea for uni. Comes back sure many many sg women surround him de lah. Then no need to worry no gf liao. So many to choose from.Originally posted by browniebaobao:pat pat*
so poor thing.. but this is life..
all the best to ur A Levels. -
Relationships these days among teens are not made out to last. SO just MOVE ON.
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welcome to the Single's club!
Be strong for now..no one else will b there for ya
A level's is a critical time..dun give up now.. -
Suck my ballz.Originally posted by Ferguson:LOSER
It'll happen to you. Or worse. -
after u see ah gua then u meet ur gf and she initiate break up?
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Heys sinicker, if you read this, seriously seriously don't think too much. There are many things that we cannot explain, and many things that we will not know about what happened between you and her.
Right now the most important thing is to focus on your As first. Remember, just study. Its hard not to think of her, but tell yourself, what's the point? She let you down, so does that mean you are gonna let KZ, the Lancer gang, and especially 'Mum' down?
It hurts, and it will hurt each and every time, be it the first, second, fifth, 100th. But right now is the most important time. Do not be distracted. Like what Mum would say, focus pple focus! You must focus on your As now. Questions can be asked later. If you want to know the truth, and she does not tell you, it will not change if you ask her now or you ask her after As.
In a relationship, 90% is you and her, and 10% is abt the circumstances you cant change (Starpuppy, am i quoting you?), precisely because it is the 10% that you cant change, there cant be much you can do about it right now. If you want to chase her back, or etc etc, its after As. Not now. Especially not right now.
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firstly, u ass sucker. wad's so loser abt losing ur gf. the true loser is you, moron.Originally posted by Ferguson:LOSER
secondly, sinicker, don worry. i know it mayb hard but pioritise man. A level first. A level is ur life. since she decided to walk out on u, A's most important now. just this week left. get it over with. don think abt other stuff. A's will be oversoon. u have ur frens don forget. we'll always be there for you. -
Snicker, just ignore that Loser. He got nothing better to say other than loser. For he is a BIG LOSER. He hope that by saying loser he can find himself another loser, trying to make himself feel better, but try harder dude.
Go work hard on your A snicker! We are all by your side! -
Oh yes and Ferguson, I think you should stick to your topics ofOriginally posted by Ferguson:LOSER
Hostel sex
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=160699
What do you do when you are horny?
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=140089
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Masturbating in your gf's clothes
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=129354 -
Move on... got more impt stuffs for u...Originally posted by sinicker:everyone(as in my friends and her friends) are now shocked it's over... everyone's calling me and asking what happened and all.. everyone thot we were meant for each other.. but well, i guess it just isnt meant to be.. -
during ur As?
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my brother brought me out to watch planes take-off and look at them coz he knew my rltnshp got problems... he wanted me to unwind...Originally posted by FireIce:after u see ah gua then u meet ur gf and she initiate break up? -
yes... halfway thru my As, stellazio...Originally posted by stellazio:during ur As? -
Moral of the story: Do not get into a relationship before you have finished your A, O level or whatever major examinations. Breakups occuring during this period is most stressful.
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and so i'm pretty alright now... the person whom i so looked up to has left me.. i don't know if i should thank her for the good times or to hate her for what she has done to me...
2 months back, she promised me not to do anything stupid while i take my As.. now, she's done it.. saying that it's better now than later...
lucky for me, i still have friends who are always on a constant look-out for my well-being.. friends are the people who won't leave you..