LOVE or $$$ ?
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Dithing a woman is easy...Originally posted by mivecTURBO:how to ditch a women?
and how to say NO to a women who wans to borrow money from you?
she need money to cover her luxury expenses...
Saying no is a matter of opening your mouth and saying "NO"...
Finally, if she cannot even manage her own finance well, ask her to buzz off!! coz she will surely make you the poorest man on earth, confirm + guarantee!
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Please don't generalise, & please don't gender bash local girls.
I don't look at a guy's money. He can use it to wipe his damn a$$.
So sick of this kinda generalisation remarks.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by mivecTURBO:singaporean ladies out there...wat do you all look for in a guys?
seems like most ladies are after money more than love alone.. -
[quote]Originally posted by FeowFeow:
[b]Please don't generalise, & please don't gender bash local girls.
I don't look at a guy's money. He can use it to wipe his damn a$$.
So sick of this kinda generalisation remarks.
FeowFeow
Totally agreed with the above.
Pls note that not all gals r materialistic.. but i dont deny the no. r increasing..
Most of my friends including myself look for love n not money..
What's the point of having all the money in the world n the guy does not love u at all??
Money is something that can be earn so long as we r willing to work..
But Love is something that money cant buy.. n its priceless.. -
my ex left bcos i m in debt.
not all girls are materialistic.. yes i agree but in the long run, do u think they will want to stick by you thru tough times and suffer with you...
true love r hard to come by in this realistic society. -
Truly agreed this is a realistic society...Originally posted by mink77:my ex left bcos i m in debt.
not all girls are materialistic.. yes i agree but in the long run, do u think they will want to stick by you thru tough times and suffer with you...
true love r hard to come by in this realistic society.
But when cloudy days r over.. can the guys guarantee they wil stil be wif their gf.. lets say if they suddenly strike it rich..
The ans is probably "no" cos when guys hav money, they wil look for greener patches.. n all temptations wil start pouring in..
This is when the gf wil feel they r "idiots".. went thru so much for their guy n in the end.. betrayed by the man they love most..
Pls note that I'm jus quoting.. not "personal attack".. ( seen a lot of real life incidents of frens n relatives ) -
That would depends on the kind of relationship you're having with her...?Originally posted by mink77:my ex left bcos i m in debt.
not all girls are materialistic.. yes i agree but in the long run, do u think they will want to stick by you thru tough times and suffer with you...
true love r hard to come by in this realistic society. -
2 sides of the coin,
2 different scenerios,
but sometimes, its the same ending...
picture urself poor, u have a girlfriend. she is ur life, ur hope in the world tml.
u tell urself u will work hard so that one day u can marry her, and be happy till the end of both of ur lives.
one day after a tired day at work, u saw her holding another guy's hand charading into a expensive car. u lose the aim of ur life, u feel tired, regret, till the end of ur miserable existence...
now flip the coin
u r a business man, ur company is starting to do very well, u have a lovely wife, u'r proud of her, u truly worked hard for her comfort. both ur heart beat as one, or so u think...
but when u decide to surprise her by leaving early(from work). bought a bouquet a rose, a box of her favourite chocolate and a bottle of champagne. just to enter ur bedroom to see her romp with ur neighbour.
u ask urself, is it ur fault? did u not give her enough attention? were u never(never ever) at her side?
wad will u feel then? when she look into ur feverish eyes? will she be feeling guiltly, as u r towards her, or will she shrug it off sheeplishy? how do i answer that? i never know, for losers like me will never understand... -
Don't you think both scenarios are too stereotypical?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by htc:2 sides of the coin,
2 different scenerios,
but sometimes, its the same ending...
picture urself poor, u have a girlfriend. she is ur life, ur hope in the world tml.
u tell urself u will work hard so that one day u can marry her, and be happy till the end of both of ur lives.
one day after a tired day at work, u saw her holding another guy's hand charading into a expensive car. u lose the aim of ur life, u feel tired, regret, till the end of ur miserable existence...
now flip the coin
u r a business man, ur company is starting to do very well, u have a lovely wife, u'r proud of her, u truly worked hard for her comfort. both ur heart beat as one, or so u think...
but when u decide to surprise her by leaving early(from work). bought a bouquet a rose, a box of her favourite chocolate and a bottle of champagne. just to enter ur bedroom to see her romp with ur neighbour.
u ask urself, is it ur fault? did u not give her enough attention? were u never(never ever) at her side?
wad will u feel then? when she look into ur feverish eyes? will she be feeling guiltly, as u r towards her, or will she shrug it off sheeplishy? how do i answer that? i never know, for losers like me will never understand... -
he thinking way too negative I guess and the suitation is a general suitation I guess to himOriginally posted by htc:2 sides of the coin,
2 different scenerios,
but sometimes, its the same ending...
picture urself poor, u have a girlfriend. she is ur life, ur hope in the world tml.
u tell urself u will work hard so that one day u can marry her, and be happy till the end of both of ur lives.
one day after a tired day at work, u saw her holding another guy's hand charading into a expensive car. u lose the aim of ur life, u feel tired, regret, till the end of ur miserable existence...
now flip the coin
u r a business man, ur company is starting to do very well, u have a lovely wife, u'r proud of her, u truly worked hard for her comfort. both ur heart beat as one, or so u think...
but when u decide to surprise her by leaving early(from work). bought a bouquet a rose, a box of her favourite chocolate and a bottle of champagne. just to enter ur bedroom to see her romp with ur neighbour.
u ask urself, is it ur fault? did u not give her enough attention? were u never(never ever) at her side?
wad will u feel then? when she look into ur feverish eyes? will she be feeling guiltly, as u r towards her, or will she shrug it off sheeplishy? how do i answer that? i never know, for losers like me will never understand... -
Common...maybe my friends suay.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Don't you think both scenarios are too stereotypical?
FeowFeow
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both.
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Aiyoh... this kind of thing. Dun need to argue one lah.
In today's world, you need both money and love. One must be realistic n idealistic at same time. It's retarded and stupid to be plain idealistic, it's painful and lonely to be totally realistic.
Women are attracted naturally to men who can give them emotional, physical and financial security.
Men are attracted to women who look good.
All this is built into our genes to produce a stronger and better set of offspring. Dun argue over this man. Of course there are exceptions. The key thing is to balance it.
A pretty girl is not going to just marry a poor man and stick with him when she can deserve better. In SG you need money, no buts about that. Get married.. buy flat... have children.. bills pay this.. pay that. You want to know the power of money? Talk to those men who lose their job for long with children n wife to feed, even though wife can financially support herself, she'll definitely look at the man differently.
i suppose majority of us here are young and still have not had the experience of running a family and have financial and emotional frustrations. But i watched jack Neo's old show last nite 'money not enough'. Can really understand... That's why i also understand why mroe n more singaporeans not getting married. It's too damn dangerous to just lose your job with a family!
in short, love and money has to go together and be balanced. Women are naturally attracted to money n power. No matter how much they deny it... In fact there's nothing wrong. just like men all love beautiful women. BUT sometimes an average looking women who know how to be a real lady, to pamper, to sayang n take care of her men are so much stronger points than her looks!
Cheers! -
Indeed, money is very important. Money can buy almost everything you need BUT money cannot buy love!