He has lost interest in her. Or maybe he became aware of the flaws in the girl's behavior as they became closer and decided that they are not really compatible.Originally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:a guy doesn't bother about you anymore but at the start he..
1. Cares abt you
2. Protect you when you are bullied
3. Praises small things abt you
4. admires you from afar
5. Accepts you for who you are (I wonder if this the truth because...)
Later, he didn't care already because this girl beomes lazy, her behaviour isn't that good, erm..and other weird reasons like she cut her hair short so he doesn't like it.
I suspect he thinks this girl promises people a lot of things, but in actual fact, she didn't! Maybe she broke one or two promises, but he knows she does behave this way sometimes. His friends behave that way too, but that ain't important.
So why?
Because the girl is low-profile so can be easily thrown away? Or his friends influences him not to go with that girl? Or he is just 'playing' with that girl?
Now, he ignores the girl like as if she didn't exist and still dare to flirt with another girl infront of her..weird leh! Can any guys explain what causes him to become like that?![]()
it sounds like he loss interest in the gal... so the gal shouldnt be bothered abt him n wait on for another guy who accepts n really interested in her...Originally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:a guy doesn't bother about you anymore but at the start he..
1. Cares abt you
2. Protect you when you are bullied
3. Praises small things abt you
4. admires you from afar
5. Accepts you for who you are (I wonder if this the truth because...)
Later, he didn't care already because this girl beomes lazy, her behaviour isn't that good, erm..and other weird reasons like she cut her hair short so he doesn't like it.
I suspect he thinks this girl promises people a lot of things, but in actual fact, she didn't! Maybe she broke one or two promises, but he knows she does behave this way sometimes. His friends behave that way too, but that ain't important.
So why?
Because the girl is low-profile so can be easily thrown away? Or his friends influences him not to go with that girl? Or he is just 'playing' with that girl?
Now, he ignores the girl like as if she didn't exist and still dare to flirt with another girl infront of her..weird leh! Can any guys explain what causes him to become like that?![]()
This scenario reminds of this korean movie - S Diary.Originally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:a guy doesn't bother about you anymore but at the start he..
1. Cares abt you
2. Protect you when you are bullied
3. Praises small things abt you
4. admires you from afar
5. Accepts you for who you are (I wonder if this the truth because...)
Later, he didn't care already because this girl beomes lazy, her behaviour isn't that good, erm..and other weird reasons like she cut her hair short so he doesn't like it.
I suspect he thinks this girl promises people a lot of things, but in actual fact, she didn't! Maybe she broke one or two promises, but he knows she does behave this way sometimes. His friends behave that way too, but that ain't important.
So why?
Because the girl is low-profile so can be easily thrown away? Or his friends influences him not to go with that girl? Or he is just 'playing' with that girl?
Now, he ignores the girl like as if she didn't exist and still dare to flirt with another girl infront of her..weird leh! Can any guys explain what causes him to become like that?![]()
This kind of guys are under the category called "jerks", a.k.a. "bastards".Originally posted by macjoe:The kind of love boys at that age knows is the kind of love for new toys.
Once the novelty wears off, he casts it aside and go seek a newer toy...
esp when peers pressure him it's no longer a cool cute toy to have anymore.
Get it?![]()
refrain from streotyping first until you know the story.Originally posted by pandemonium:This kind of guys are under the category called "jerks", a.k.a. "bastards".
You shld just forget abt him and show him your life is better off w/o him.
i hope im not stereotyping coz her story sounds like what happend to me. the guy just stopped all communications. it's only a few weeks later that i realised he's with another girlOriginally posted by M©+square:refrain from streotyping first until you know the story.
That's it. Such guys also enjoy being liked and seek each "toy" who likes them.Originally posted by macjoe:The kind of love boys at that age knows is the kind of love for new toys.
Once the novelty wears off, he casts it aside and go seek a newer toy...
esp when peers pressure him it's no longer a cool cute toy to have anymore.
Get it?![]()
Many possible reasons...Originally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:a guy doesn't bother about you anymore but at the start he..
1. Cares abt you
2. Protect you when you are bullied
3. Praises small things abt you
4. admires you from afar
5. Accepts you for who you are (I wonder if this the truth because...)
Later, he didn't care already because this girl beomes lazy, her behaviour isn't that good, erm..and other weird reasons like she cut her hair short so he doesn't like it.
I suspect he thinks this girl promises people a lot of things, but in actual fact, she didn't! Maybe she broke one or two promises, but he knows she does behave this way sometimes. His friends behave that way too, but that ain't important.
So why?
Because the girl is low-profile so can be easily thrown away? Or his friends influences him not to go with that girl? Or he is just 'playing' with that girl?
Now, he ignores the girl like as if she didn't exist and still dare to flirt with another girl infront of her..weird leh! Can any guys explain what causes him to become like that?![]()
There are reasons for his departure try to backtrack and find out the reason.Originally posted by pandemonium:i hope im not stereotyping coz her story sounds like what happend to me. the guy just stopped all communications. it's only a few weeks later that i realised he's with another girl