Is it atrocious or are u in the wrong if..
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a guy doesn't bother about you anymore but at the start he..
1. Cares abt you
2. Protect you when you are bullied
3. Praises small things abt you
4. admires you from afar
5. Accepts you for who you are (I wonder if this the truth because...)
Later, he didn't care already because this girl beomes lazy, her behaviour isn't that good, erm..and other weird reasons like she cut her hair short so he doesn't like it.
I suspect he thinks this girl promises people a lot of things, but in actual fact, she didn't! Maybe she broke one or two promises, but he knows she does behave this way sometimes. His friends behave that way too, but that ain't important.
So why?
Because the girl is low-profile so can be easily thrown away? Or his friends influences him not to go with that girl? Or he is just 'playing' with that girl?
Now, he ignores the girl like as if she didn't exist and still dare to flirt with another girl infront of her..weird leh! Can any guys explain what causes him to become like that?
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He has lost interest in her. Or maybe he became aware of the flaws in the girl's behavior as they became closer and decided that they are not really compatible.Originally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:a guy doesn't bother about you anymore but at the start he..
1. Cares abt you
2. Protect you when you are bullied
3. Praises small things abt you
4. admires you from afar
5. Accepts you for who you are (I wonder if this the truth because...)
Later, he didn't care already because this girl beomes lazy, her behaviour isn't that good, erm..and other weird reasons like she cut her hair short so he doesn't like it.
I suspect he thinks this girl promises people a lot of things, but in actual fact, she didn't! Maybe she broke one or two promises, but he knows she does behave this way sometimes. His friends behave that way too, but that ain't important.
So why?
Because the girl is low-profile so can be easily thrown away? Or his friends influences him not to go with that girl? Or he is just 'playing' with that girl?
Now, he ignores the girl like as if she didn't exist and still dare to flirt with another girl infront of her..weird leh! Can any guys explain what causes him to become like that? -
it sounds like he loss interest in the gal... so the gal shouldnt be bothered abt him n wait on for another guy who accepts n really interested in her...Originally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:a guy doesn't bother about you anymore but at the start he..
1. Cares abt you
2. Protect you when you are bullied
3. Praises small things abt you
4. admires you from afar
5. Accepts you for who you are (I wonder if this the truth because...)
Later, he didn't care already because this girl beomes lazy, her behaviour isn't that good, erm..and other weird reasons like she cut her hair short so he doesn't like it.
I suspect he thinks this girl promises people a lot of things, but in actual fact, she didn't! Maybe she broke one or two promises, but he knows she does behave this way sometimes. His friends behave that way too, but that ain't important.
So why?
Because the girl is low-profile so can be easily thrown away? Or his friends influences him not to go with that girl? Or he is just 'playing' with that girl?
Now, he ignores the girl like as if she didn't exist and still dare to flirt with another girl infront of her..weird leh! Can any guys explain what causes him to become like that? -
The kind of love boys at that age knows is the kind of love for new toys.
Once the novelty wears off, he casts it aside and go seek a newer toy...
esp when peers pressure him it's no longer a cool cute toy to have anymore.
Get it?
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Well..
Sometimes we just love each other for the flaws.
The guy simply wasn't serious enough ? -
This scenario reminds of this korean movie - S Diary.Originally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:a guy doesn't bother about you anymore but at the start he..
1. Cares abt you
2. Protect you when you are bullied
3. Praises small things abt you
4. admires you from afar
5. Accepts you for who you are (I wonder if this the truth because...)
Later, he didn't care already because this girl beomes lazy, her behaviour isn't that good, erm..and other weird reasons like she cut her hair short so he doesn't like it.
I suspect he thinks this girl promises people a lot of things, but in actual fact, she didn't! Maybe she broke one or two promises, but he knows she does behave this way sometimes. His friends behave that way too, but that ain't important.
So why?
Because the girl is low-profile so can be easily thrown away? Or his friends influences him not to go with that girl? Or he is just 'playing' with that girl?
Now, he ignores the girl like as if she didn't exist and still dare to flirt with another girl infront of her..weird leh! Can any guys explain what causes him to become like that?
There was something special in the last part of the movie which the director tried to show the audience.
In a relationship, there are too many uncertainties and unseen obstacles.
Simply say, a relationship will definitely reach a saturation point which hiccups will arise, either caused conciously or unknowing.
But there are possible solutions to these 'problems' and it all depends alot on yourself.
After reading your post.
I think you're not clear in many aspects of what you're going through.
Laziness could have been because you've tried too hard to please him, so slacking abit might have seen lazy.
His act of flirting to other girls infront of you. You have to take a stand, speak up or you'll continually convince him that you've truly no attraction.
But he might also be attracted to you by your beauty/mysterious natured/find you special in the first place. But after knowing you more, you lose the nature to continually attract him.
He doesn't bother about you anymore because of you are anti seductive.
The last portion of your post, you suspect yourself being low profile.
Through the history of your threads.
If i'm not wrong, your negetive traits are turning people off.
advice:::
You have to stand on your own and speak up. This relationship cannot be saved unless the both of you make effort to get this relationship right.
You need to take a break from everything which requires emotional attention.
Your friends will be honest with you about your weaknesses and try to safe you from them.
Hope you'll have faithful friends
Cheers -
This kind of guys are under the category called "jerks", a.k.a. "bastards".Originally posted by macjoe:The kind of love boys at that age knows is the kind of love for new toys.
Once the novelty wears off, he casts it aside and go seek a newer toy...
esp when peers pressure him it's no longer a cool cute toy to have anymore.
Get it?
You shld just forget abt him and show him your life is better off w/o him. -
refrain from streotyping first until you know the story.Originally posted by pandemonium:This kind of guys are under the category called "jerks", a.k.a. "bastards".
You shld just forget abt him and show him your life is better off w/o him. -
I think that the guy has lost interest in the gal or that he's getting turned off by the flaws in the gal...
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Sometimes, when niether party does anything to keep the flame burning.
IT simply extinguishs.
It takes 2 hand to clap.
So Relationship isn't a one sided thing.
If the guy and gal can't keep their passion up, its no point. -
i hope im not stereotyping coz her story sounds like what happend to me. the guy just stopped all communications. it's only a few weeks later that i realised he's with another girlOriginally posted by M©+square:refrain from streotyping first until you know the story. -
That's it. Such guys also enjoy being liked and seek each "toy" who likes them.Originally posted by macjoe:The kind of love boys at that age knows is the kind of love for new toys.
Once the novelty wears off, he casts it aside and go seek a newer toy...
esp when peers pressure him it's no longer a cool cute toy to have anymore.
Get it?
They don't realize they hurt others, they find reasons why to leave the girls. What they don't accept on the "old" toy, they accept on the "new" toy. -
These are the type of boys who are perpetually in need of the significant other and literally fade away after a "break up"
One word - Unreliable. -
simply lost interest on tt gal, or mayb he found out shes nt his type. as for causes...no pt brooding over it...wont let u hab any losses or gains.
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Many possible reasons...Originally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:a guy doesn't bother about you anymore but at the start he..
1. Cares abt you
2. Protect you when you are bullied
3. Praises small things abt you
4. admires you from afar
5. Accepts you for who you are (I wonder if this the truth because...)
Later, he didn't care already because this girl beomes lazy, her behaviour isn't that good, erm..and other weird reasons like she cut her hair short so he doesn't like it.
I suspect he thinks this girl promises people a lot of things, but in actual fact, she didn't! Maybe she broke one or two promises, but he knows she does behave this way sometimes. His friends behave that way too, but that ain't important.
So why?
Because the girl is low-profile so can be easily thrown away? Or his friends influences him not to go with that girl? Or he is just 'playing' with that girl?
Now, he ignores the girl like as if she didn't exist and still dare to flirt with another girl infront of her..weird leh! Can any guys explain what causes him to become like that?
Anyway, why bother with such a guy? -
Were they attached before? If not maybe the guy wanted to get attached but the gal didn't give the right signals, so the guy could have possibly mistook it as the gal has no interest in the guy. So maybe he didn't pursue it anymore?
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noone is in the wrong.
its destined.
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the girl changes from time to time she may having increasing flaw but I think the guy will have more flaw expose as the time go by and short hair is okay what lol
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gur ask guy lah
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There are reasons for his departure try to backtrack and find out the reason.Originally posted by pandemonium:i hope im not stereotyping coz her story sounds like what happend to me. the guy just stopped all communications. it's only a few weeks later that i realised he's with another girl
But many a times, the 'victim' cannot see the reason.
If it becomes a pattern like thread starter faces...then it's time to do self reflection.
cheers