Hey bro,let me share with you my views.What that guy said was absolute crap,catch no balls to be precise,lolz.Originally posted by birdbird:Hi folks...it's me again.seems like i enjoy to post topic but i got no choice.everytime i have a conversation with my gf,i always encounter situations which i dun know how to tackle.A topic which i always try to avoid at the moment was raised by her juz now.it's regarding religion.she's a christian and i'm not.i know before hand that it's a must that christian can only be with another christian yet i can't help but fall in love with her.although she say she does not mind but i can sense she really hope i can convert to christian.sigh...i told her that i dun want to convert juz becos of her without really believing in christianity.this i view is not truthful to her and not respecting Jesus.i'm really worried i would lost this relationship becos of this.sigh......
first i would like to say, wats ur problem? i c ur name here n i c ur name there, and most of the time u r simply criticising ppl for their truthful, sincere msg.Originally posted by JacK84:Hey bro,let me share with you my views.What that guy said was absolute crap,catch no balls to be precise,lolz.And what's that got to do with religion?If you were sincere to make friends,go ahead.You'll not lose a piece of meat or shorten yer lifespan or watever..if you ppl are really loving,right?
Think about it.Btw,| never believe in god anyway.
Second | would say,then what's your problem?Originally posted by OverTheParadise:first i would like to say, wats ur problem? i c ur name here n i c ur name there, and most of the time u r simply criticising ppl for their truthful, sincere msg.
There is a difference between stating your opinions and being harsh regrding ur disagreements. ppl mean wat they say, i dun think u haf a right in calling it crap.
and then for ur info, since u dun believe in God i presume u know nuts abt the meaning of christianity.
why would religion got to do with whether they together or not isit? let me put it in layman's terms for you.
one of the basic ideas of christianity is that there is an afterlife for people who are saved, or in other words, true christians at heart. So let's just imagine, if, IF, u truly believe you get to go to heaven someday, you'll also wish that your loved ones will be able to go too. Would you bear the thought of knowing someone you love suffer in hell?
So how do christians solve this problem? they try their best to reach out to eeryone around them, so as to help them become 'saved' too.
That is why this could be an issue for families or couples whereby one person is a christian the other is not, cos the christian will want to spread the Word about God's love and promises to the one they care about, whereas, the other party, before he/she sees the Truth, might feel uncomfortable.
So, you say, if 2 ppl are loving, who cares abt religion...that's where u r wrong. becos when 2 ppl love each other, all the more the saved one will want ther other one to accept God too.
get it?
there u go, i'm not a christian either, but just some stuff i've come to understand...
I think so long as you can learn to respect her faith for her lord and she can understand your stand for not wanting to be involved now, this relationship can still go on...?Originally posted by birdbird:Hi folks...it's me again.seems like i enjoy to post topic but i got no choice.everytime i have a conversation with my gf,i always encounter situations which i dun know how to tackle.A topic which i always try to avoid at the moment was raised by her juz now.it's regarding religion.she's a christian and i'm not.i know before hand that it's a must that christian can only be with another christian yet i can't help but fall in love with her.although she say she does not mind but i can sense she really hope i can convert to christian.sigh...i told her that i dun want to convert juz becos of her without really believing in christianity.this i view is not truthful to her and not respecting Jesus.i'm really worried i would lost this relationship becos of this.sigh......
You THINK but you're NOT her...? How you KNOW? Does LOVING someone means to go into her religion even if it means to do so BLINDLY...? Tell you what do I THINK? It's an INSULT to the someone you LOVE, it's an INSULT to the religion she LOVES and it's AN INSULT to yourself.... That's what I THINK?Originally posted by otacon:I have ever tried to change my religous believe to Christian cos my ex-gf is Christian. But she said it's not like changing clothes, in religous believe, u have to believe in it before u can join it. But if you really LOVE her, you should convert to Christian.(And I mean love, not like) But if you dun love, her, just forget it and let her go. Stop wasting your time and her time. I think she really mind that you dun convert to Christian. So this will be a thing to argue abt in future.

tat was well said!!! BRAVO!!!Originally posted by i am twat:ASK YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO GO FARK HER GOD IF SHE LOVE HIM SO MUCH. IF I WERE U I WOULD DUMP HER CAUSE SHE WON'T LOVE ME AS MUCH AS HER GOD.
Bravo! Bravo!! :p I couldn't agreed more.Originally posted by i am twat:ASK YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO GO FARK HER GOD IF SHE LOVE HIM SO MUCH. IF I WERE U I WOULD DUMP HER CAUSE SHE WON'T LOVE ME AS MUCH AS HER GOD.
brudder: you just type out here what she gives as excuse about christianity and we together brainstorm on how to shoot her backOriginally posted by birdbird:Hi folks...it's me again.seems like i enjoy to post topic but i got no choice.everytime i have a conversation with my gf,i always encounter situations which i dun know how to tackle.A topic which i always try to avoid at the moment was raised by her juz now.it's regarding religion.she's a christian and i'm not.i know before hand that it's a must that christian can only be with another christian yet i can't help but fall in love with her.although she say she does not mind but i can sense she really hope i can convert to christian.sigh...i told her that i dun want to convert juz becos of her without really believing in christianity.this i view is not truthful to her and not respecting Jesus.i'm really worried i would lost this relationship becos of this.sigh......

my final ans will be city harvest church...lock it inOriginally posted by LoVa:for me i was a ex-christian myself , at a particular church,i believe many pple would have hear of its name ,better not mention it,i been there a couple for years and sumtimes i got irriated by wat they say sumtimes,they are tokkin as if they whole world is wrong onli they are rite ,and they wont blame the sinners for saying bad things or condemming they , they say "god pls do not blame they as they have not tasted they grace and goodness of god."and sumtimes the things the say are sum how contradicting,and last time i was playing "magic cards" and they say its demonic and want me to throw away all my cards,i have nothing to say.then when u hang out too much with ur non christian frenz they say dun hang out too much as they are"unequally yoked" (in simple words -not christian),and even discourage u from listenming to too much pop songs , and i myself came to a conclucsion that wat ever that u do thats makes u drift away from church.they will tok a lot to u counselle u until u buea tahan.and recently a pastor's wife entered the pop entertainment circle,which is even on 93.3fm got concert,i was like.oh my..wat was it that they were telling me all these years,u say want to listen,listen to church cds,christian songs,dun get too obbesed.now alreadi i can imgaine how they are going to tell their church member,"our pastor is going to enter in to entertainment circle,where more pple is gonna know abt us, in this way we will be able to impact more lives ,get more souls saved!"ya rite..wat ever they say is rite.as mention in some post earlier christians can really be veri good frens and advise seekers and they will help u in a great deal i really agree with these,but they are juz wanting u to convert...,
bascially i tink all religions in all corners of the earth is all the same, its all abt making u a better person , love yourself and one another and makin ur life a worthy 1 .coz every life is precious.