For grown women with young looking single dads
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Do u feel jealous of it when yr dad if he has another woman in his life?
My dad is a widower and he has a few girld friends. all of them young..But i dont like them either as these women in their 20s are the same age as me.
How should u react as a daughter? My dad is still young dad 45 years of age. -
u go find a 45-yr old man and show him to your dad lor... see how he feels
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+1Originally posted by sgboy2004:u go find a 45-yr old man and show him to your dad lor... see how he feels
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People ask for your opinion you like that.Originally posted by sgboy2004:u go find a 45-yr old man and show him to your dad lor... see how he feels
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so whats bothering you?
anyway...since you are old enough to upkeep yourself...maybe its time to let him find a companion...
although i can understand it will be hard for you to accept someone near your age to be your 'mother'...but you have to think about the father...
males are creatures who cannot stand lonliness...they need companionship...to put it bluntly...they oso need 'uhhum'...
maybe with time you will find someone that both you and your dad like...
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45 yrs of age is still considered young in e lifetime of his.
he has jus stepped into his middle adulthood. where most pple would relate it to mid life crisis..there is a shift from being a provider (child grows up already) to attending to his own needs (dreams that he din fulfill during his youth). or have feelings of being loney for e rest of his life...
jus try to b more communicative with ur father..
according to stats:
males then to remarry in widowhood.
females dun -
why u care so much lady of lourdes.....he is man he know what he is doing...If u dont like the girl, just tell him u dont like he can go find other girl till u like...
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leave him alone la... even old man has his needs... u go find your young punk...Originally posted by Lady of lourdes:Do u feel jealous of it when yr dad if he has another woman in his life?
My dad is a widower and he has a few girld friends. all of them young..But i dont like them either as these women in their 20s are the same age as me.
How should u react as a daughter? My dad is still young dad 45 years of age. -
My dad enter fatherhood at young age when i was born...He is 45 i am 24.
Wehn we both go out, People think he is my brother...
Felt that i will lose him if he let other women come and steal. And the women he meet are not the kind who seems faithful....And these women like to behave in a flirty manner with me around which i dont like... -
Recently his manner of dressing and talking change to that of young man..He does not tell me where he is going late at nite and returns late. I have told him that bringing women to house is a strict no no
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u cant control it, he will stick fark around outside house..maybe visit pros in geylang..maybe his friends no good, influence him .u cant do a thing about it...Man do it, man get away..Originally posted by Lady of lourdes:Recently his manner of dressing and talking change to that of young man..He does not tell me where he is going late at nite and returns late. I have told him that bringing women to house is a strict no no
u can give him a few tight slap and ask him dnt go out for sex. -
man 45 years old still look young of course young gal like....he got lot of money, lot of sex expereince.U cannot do anything what.....he lucky widower can fool around....
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then y not u intro him a nice partner... ?Originally posted by Lady of lourdes:Recently his manner of dressing and talking change to that of young man..He does not tell me where he is going late at nite and returns late. I have told him that bringing women to house is a strict no no -
WHat 4 intro him, he can find himself can he, if he want he can come ask me i can intro him many gal and exchange Hp numbersOriginally posted by BrUtUs:then y not u intro him a nice partner... ? -
man who seeks woman half his age is disgusting. they are seeing it only from the sex point of view. but arent all men guilty of it?
in 20s look for 20s, in 30s still look for 20s, in 40s still look for 20s, in 50s still look for 20s.
frankly there is something wrong about the woman too. what does she see in a man old enough to be his father?
fatherly love maybe... or the pocket? -
let ur dad find women.. tell him beforehand to bring her to you if he decides she is the one.. and use your intelligence to see whether the woman really wants ur dad's love... or ur dad's $. 45 yrs old... 10 more years, CPF come out mah.
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ya lor i worried about it..some women may want to go for his $$Originally posted by sinicker:let ur dad find women.. tell him beforehand to bring her to you if he decides she is the one.. and use your intelligence to see whether the woman really wants ur dad's love... or ur dad's $. 45 yrs old... 10 more years, CPF come out mah. -
it s till fine with me as my dad look like young man. I am not particular.Originally posted by dragg:man who seeks woman half his age is disgusting. they are seeing it only from the sex point of view. but arent all men guilty of it?
in 20s look for 20s, in 30s still look for 20s, in 40s still look for 20s, in 50s still look for 20s.
frankly there is something wrong about the woman too. what does she see in a man old enough to be his father?
fatherly love maybe... or the pocket? -
Let him be, he's adult already, let alone he's your dad. It's his life, and his choices...
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Just like you, your father needs a LIFE TOO yeah...?Originally posted by Lady of lourdes:Do u feel jealous of it when yr dad if he has another woman in his life?
My dad is a widower and he has a few girld friends. all of them young..But i dont like them either as these women in their 20s are the same age as me.
How should u react as a daughter? My dad is still young dad 45 years of age. -
u dun have to call her mum. or to like her... let your dad know that. but still, at least be OK with your dad finding someone... he doesnt need to feel guilty for you after he has spent his entire life taking care of you.
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There are some things in life that is beyond your control. Thats what life is all about.
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Do we sense an Oedipal undertone in your grouses?
No offence intended, really. There have been known cases of such conflicts, particularly when the age difference between the parent and the child is not very wide.
Your dad is young, he looks young and he wants to feel young. He probably still loves your mother a lot, but he does not wish to spend the rest of his life mourning her death.
He is a grown man with an independent mind. As long as he is still loves you as a daughter and fulfills his due responsibilities as a father, how he decides to spend his remaining years is, quite frankly, his own concern. You couldn't and shouldn't deprive him of any happiness that he seeks. Since he is still human and not exempt from making mistakes, you could warn him against any potential pitfalls, but if he is still adamant about living life the way he wants, then there is nothing else you can do, other than to perhaps accept his decision and support him should he ever needs your help.
That is probably what love in the family, love between the parent and child should be:
"A gentle pillar of solace and peace, humming a song of unending forgiveness. "