confused
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i've been liking this gal for sometime now...bud during our conversations, meetings and sms i can't c any clue if she is intrested in me anot...most of the time i'm the 1 who initiate 1st...i'm goin to confess my feelings to her bud am afraid of rejection...wad should i do?
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u sld wait awhile first..don do anything in a rush
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ask her out once a while.... test water first.
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i agreed with him..Originally posted by mink77:ask her out once a while.... test water first.
don b like a failure like me
as long as once in a while keep contact wif her can liao -
body language are tell tale signs whether she likes u... eg. the way she behave in front of u compared to other guys or the way she talk to u etc.
and also, girls like confident guys. show ur confidence when u confess to her and dont behave like a wuss if she reject u. rejection is part and parcel of growing up and u learn from it. -
any more advice?
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Originally posted by StarPuppy:any more advice?
Tsk Tsk. -
I would say, take it slow... enjoy the time you spend with her... don't become obsessive... just have patience.
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ask yourself why should she like you?
1) are you handsome?
2) are you smart?
3) do you have the money to bring her out?
4) can you make her laugh?
5) how much do you like her?
a) if she ask you to buy an expenisve item will you buy it for her?
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be patience,wait till e day u r sure she has a bit of feelings for u then take actions. otherwise,u might scare her and hurt e frenship.
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some things cannot be rushed...
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talk to her, take the time to know her more. once she is more comfortable with spending time and being together with you...then you can ask her how she feels towards you
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maybe hint her once in a while but do not rush
bid ur time
take the correct opportunity
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Man must be thick skin a bit. But if in the end there is a rejection don't be too sad. Take it as a learning experience.
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If she sms you lesser and lesser meaning she's not interested in you..get wat i mean?
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If you're AFRAID of REJECTION, then DON'T ASK?Originally posted by collateral:i've been liking this gal for sometime now...bud during our conversations, meetings and sms i can't c any clue if she is intrested in me anot...most of the time i'm the 1 who initiate 1st...i'm goin to confess my feelings to her bud am afraid of rejection...wad should i do?
thanks....
MOREOVER, you don't see much of any 'hint' or sign that she might be interested in you
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Originally posted by M©+square: Tsk Tsk.
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if a girl smses a guy alot, it might not mean that she likes him. some will paiseh mah, then don't dare. they also scared the guy think she like him then spoil the friendship.
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i supposed this is kinda true that our beloved species from venus like confident people, but it can't be rushed, u can do things slowly that will make her heart skip a beat, but if rejected, dun sink into depression. smile it out, at least she will remember u kindlyOriginally posted by mink77:body language are tell tale signs whether she likes u... eg. the way she behave in front of u compared to other guys or the way she talk to u etc.
and also, girls like confident guys. show ur confidence when u confess to her and dont behave like a wuss if she reject u. rejection is part and parcel of growing up and u learn from it. -
give her a kissOriginally posted by collateral:i've been liking this gal for sometime now...bud during our conversations, meetings and sms i can't c any clue if she is intrested in me anot...most of the time i'm the 1 who initiate 1st...i'm goin to confess my feelings to her bud am afraid of rejection...wad should i do?
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Originally posted by qooorange:give her a kiss
and kena slapped.