Which option is better??
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Hmm when it comes to pursuing relationships, Im the type who is practical. I believe that a girlfriend is as a girlfriend does, so Im ok with any girl as long as she is ok with me.
Which one to choose:
a) tomboy(looks and appearance wise only) whom I have a close friendship with...can talk to her about a lot of things
b) pretty girl whom I admire and I think she's ok with me too...but I cant think and speak properly in her presence cos she really is *woah*
c) Very guai and decent looking girl, however she is very quiet but she is my dream girl but i cant communicate with her -
do you have these three op as a decision now?
And what will be your probablity of success on each option? -
provided both of u haf mutual feelings, option 1 lor.Originally posted by crimson soldier:Hmm when it comes to pursuing relationships, Im the type who is practical. I believe that a girlfriend is as a girlfriend does, so Im ok with any girl as long as she is ok with me.
Which one to choose:
a) tomboy(looks and appearance wise only) whom I have a close friendship with...can talk to her about a lot of things
b) pretty girl whom I admire and I think she's ok with me too...but I cant think and speak properly in her presence cos she really is *woah*
c) Very guai and decent looking girl, however she is very quiet but she is my dream girl but i cant communicate with her -
sounds to me u r still too early to make a decision.. .. if you really feel for a gal, you would not be having so many choices... that one gal will be your target.
If you are to choose like this and just go ahead, let just say the gal agree to be your gf, maybe in a short time you realise she's not the one and what are you gonna do? go for the other two? You'll hurt their feeling... -
Im the practical type once I commit to a person I'll do everything to make it work. been gfless for a long time so starting to get lonely...only computer to keep me company
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choose B
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i still think its not so right.......
but i'll give you my thoughts anyway, >>>B
btw jus curious.... how old are you? its orite if u dont wanna tell -
Everyone says that...Originally posted by crimson soldier:Im the practical type once I commit to a person I'll do everything to make it work. been gfless for a long time so starting to get lonely...only computer to keep me company 
Don't worry, i give you the benefit of doubt
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he's young i guess..... let him learn..................
the HARD WAY
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Originally posted by sharked:he's young i guess..... let him learn..................
the HARD WAY -
Actually, regardless of what situation, it always depends on individual and on urself. Ask urself what wat u really want in a r/s and ur expectation of ur partners. Some of us may prefer a good looking gal with ok character, likewise some will pick girls that has character that appeal to them. Well, most impt, in my opinion, find someone who can feel very comfortable in her presence and can chat openly regardless anything or rather share ur thoughts freely. And of cos there must also contain ur feeling of liking her as ur gf not as a frenZ or buddy.
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choose the one who can communicate n u can be happy with... dun choose a gal jz cos shes pretty...
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cannot stay as friends?
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Isn't it a guy's think to look at Physical AttributesOriginally posted by BrUtUs:choose the one who can communicate n u can be happy with... dun choose a gal jz cos shes pretty...
Facial Features
Body
Hair
The rest are secondary.
I don't blame crimson -
he's young and untested. most guys go for looks and live with the decision loh
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we can be here telling him lotsa advice and opinions, in the end its up to him to make the decision....
Like i always say to myself, "Every man shall answer for his own actions"
Decide wisely, never regret, live happy -
this is fugging typical. are you living in a taiwanese drama vcd?Originally posted by crimson soldier:Hmm when it comes to pursuing relationships, Im the type who is practical. I believe that a girlfriend is as a girlfriend does, so Im ok with any girl as long as she is ok with me.
Which one to choose:
a) tomboy(looks and appearance wise only) whom I have a close friendship with...can talk to her about a lot of things
b) pretty girl whom I admire and I think she's ok with me too...but I cant think and speak properly in her presence cos she really is *woah*
c) Very guai and decent looking girl, however she is very quiet but she is my dream girl but i cant communicate with her
so, since the sight of the pretty girl makes you hard, she is the obvious choice. no point taking the sad excuse for a female (a), or the mute (c).
follow your loin. -
yes it is but like wat misty said, live with the decision after that...Originally posted by M©+square:Isn't it a guy's think to look at Physical Attributes
Facial Features
Body
Hair
The rest are secondary.
I don't blame crimson -
It all depends how he deal with it.Originally posted by BrUtUs:yes it is but like wat misty said, live with the decision after that... -
love is blind when u fall in love,e party can be fat & ugly n yet u r willing to block bullets for her.
go with ur heart n nt ur brain -
err you can choose? Not they choose you?
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Yah lah! Personality incompatibility also don't care, right? Then later, when the relationship fails because of character clashes, who gets blamed? The girl, right?
Because the guys don't think with the correct head, right?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by M©+square:Isn't it a guy's think to look at Physical Attributes
Facial Features
Body
Hair
The rest are secondary.
I don't blame crimson -
How about understanding how they feel first ?
Lol...
If u really are in love, its only one gal. U can't choose.
If u can choose, it means ur just having the desire to have a gf.
Anyway, C for me if u need the choice.
GLHF... haha -
Yah!Originally posted by FeowFeow:Yah lah! Personality incompatibility also don't care, right? Then later, when the relationship fails because of character clashes, who gets blamed? The girl, right?
Because the guys don't think with the correct head, right?
FeowFeow
And then the girl will login to Sgforums and tell us her problems how the guy let go of the relationship and how broken hearted she is.
Then the rest of AA forumers will hurl insults at the guy, post something bad about the guy, and advice the girl to move on. Time will heal. Right???
Cheers -
never more true then this hahaOriginally posted by M©+square:Yah!
And then the girl will login to Sgforums and tell us her problems how the guy let go of the relationship and how broken hearted she is.
Then the rest of AA forumers will hurl insults at the guy, post something bad about the guy, and advice the girl to move on. Time will heal. Right???
Cheers
vicious cycle... thats wat keeps this forum going haha