right or wrong move?
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haha i've been having a crush on my classmate from since the start of the year. started from an online r/s, sms-ed and called each other, starting was kinda mutual lah. but then i was too passive in class and didnt had the courage to break into her clique and talk to her so i guessed the passion died out slowly but surely.
anw, i'm due for ns soon so i decided to call her and confess. but i knew that i sure get rejected, it's like fighting a war that you sure know you will lose but you fight for the country's pride wahahaha. ya and then really rejected. but having been rejected, i surely feel abit sore lah. but i'll regret even more if i dont because i dont know when i will have the opportunity to meet her alrdy unless till next year take back A's results.
she said she prefer to be friends with me. i understand but then i guess it'll be v awkward when i meet her soon, how should i react? act as if nothing happened or try to approach her?
did i make the right move? since i alrdy know the interest is dying but then i know consciously how i feel about her. -
You did what you should and you got the response from her.
You ask us if it's the right move?
You just want to say it not because you really like her.
Just the spur of moment. -
NICE...Originally posted by M©+square:You did what you should and you got the response from her.
You ask us if it's the right move?
You just want to say it not because you really like her.
Just the spur of moment.
If it's really LOVE, why should you be afraid that the feeling would just 'go away'...? -
He's not even afraid. 'He knows the interest is dying'Originally posted by Devil1976:NICE...
If it's really LOVE, why should you be afraid that the feeling would just 'go away'...? -
yah coz some of the female friends i talked to said that guessing is very tiring. although i know not much hope but at least i was truthful to myself and not regret 5 or 10 years down road having any regrets like 'maybe we still could continue on...' yah..
but the giss of my question is actually how should i approach her when i meet her and her clique pple soon. thx eh
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what u do is definately correct.. so no worries about tat dude..Originally posted by thousandisland:yah coz some of the female friends i talked to said that guessing is very tiring. although i know not much hope but at least i was truthful to myself and not regret 5 or 10 years down road having any regrets like 'maybe we still could continue on...' yah..
but the giss of my question is actually how should i approach her when i meet her and her clique pple soon. thx eh
about how u approach her, my personal opinon is that jus t be urself.. if u need to ook awkard, look like tat.. this tells her u do mean what u say to feel like tat.. and keep trying, proving urself to her.. but give urself a time limit to try ur best lah.. (maybe a yr or 2) One must also know when to give up.. -
approach her with a smile. it always works.
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/approach starblue with a smileOriginally posted by starblue:approach her with a smile. it always works.
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haha oh wells.... it's like ten years monk school (boy's school) got to know someone i can click with. and first crush is alw so memorable, hmm i shared so many first times with her.
but i guess it'll be long before i meet someone i can click with. sigh. relationships really is tough to sustain when the guy is in ns i guess? -
Well at least you did ask.... so no regrets~~
At least you next time you wont be "damn, tt time should have asked her, maybe had chance"...blah blah blah
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Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:/approach starblue with a smile
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Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:/approach starblue with a smile
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I think it's great that you tried whether was it a spur of the moment or not..
One should not leave with regrets. rather have a broken heart that takes a bit of time to heal rather than live with the scar of regret which may nv heal.
Anyway it's up to you whether you wanna try on. My advice is take it easy as friends and see how it goes. just do what you deem is right and it should be fine. follow your heart.
Just treat her like always before when u first knew her... Chinese always say ˳Æä×ÔÈ» -
its right or left lah
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nope it wasnt on a spur of moment but i pondered over it for quite a while. actually even wanted to write a letter then go ns. but decided not to lah. and! the part of 'interest is dying' i was referring about her in me
i'd very much not be just friends or very good friends with her. but... sigh. -
Basically i think the sparks has considerably gone down, but u don't wanna live with regrets that your feelings for her were not told.Originally posted by thousandisland:nope it wasnt on a spur of moment but i pondered over it for quite a while. actually even wanted to write a letter then go ns. but decided not to lah. and! the part of 'interest is dying' i was referring about her in me
i'd very much not be just friends or very good friends with her. but... sigh.
End of the day the decision is with you and no regrets, no turning back after it's made. -
Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:/approach starblue with a smile