Impact...
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Its my chance to make an impact, hopefully at least leave a dent in her heart...
I know where her prom is gonna be held...
And I maybe going there to wait for her...
Sure I want to be together with her...
But I have problem if I go there to wait for her... I don't know what I want... I just want to see her... I just want to wait for her... other than that I don't know what I want...
Should I?
It feels like a drama...
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it feels like a stalker. i advice against it.
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I only got 2 more chances to see her... prom and A'Levels release date... otherwise... I will never have any chance to see ever again...
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get her number/email. start from there.
its is best u leave some details of your current r/s with her, how u know her, for how long, how is she like blah blah. then can tell u more. -
I got both email and number... she always has a valid reason to reject my "dates" but I dunno whether she is lying or not...
I decided to start over again... This time I aren't going to just stay at home and wait for a miracle to happen, I am going to find her face to face...
I don't care if its stalking... my father stalked my mother, my cousin stalked her current girlfriend, my friend stalked girlfriend...
Someone once said, chasing, wooing, stalking, its all the same...
And its not like she doesn't know me... -
may i ask u. so wad if u turned up at her prom?? will she let u take her home? if she keeps refusing your dates, why do u persist?Originally posted by Big Bot:I got both email and number... she always has a valid reason to reject my "dates" but I dunno whether she is lying or not...
I decided to start over again... This time I aren't going to just stay at home and wait for a miracle to happen, I am going to find her face to face...
I don't care if its stalking... my father stalked my mother, my cousin stalked her current girlfriend, my friend stalked girlfriend...
Someone once said, chasing, wooing, stalking, its all the same...
And its not like she doesn't know me... -
umm u should tell us hows your relationship with her now? can the both of u talk to each other very well? are both of u in the same school? did she avoid u or did her actions towards u have any indications?
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Originally posted by Big Bot:my father stalked my mother, my cousin stalked her current girlfriend, my friend stalked girlfriend...
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Is she hostile or currently still friendly towards you?Originally posted by Big Bot:I got both email and number... she always has a valid reason to reject my "dates" but I dunno whether she is lying or not...
I decided to start over again... This time I aren't going to just stay at home and wait for a miracle to happen, I am going to find her face to face...
I don't care if its stalking... my father stalked my mother, my cousin stalked her current girlfriend, my friend stalked girlfriend...
Someone once said, chasing, wooing, stalking, its all the same...
And its not like she doesn't know me...
Anyway, just keep in contact with her and a few months down the road, just drop her a line.She might feel different.You never know. -
but kinda true wadOriginally posted by boy in blues:
imo a stalker is oni valid when he follow her home, follow her to school and back home again and probably do dat everyday. trying to meet her at a specific unique occasion i think its alright ba.. -
Originally posted by Ito_^:but kinda true wad
imo a stalker is oni valid when he follow her home, follow her to school and back home again and probably do dat everyday. trying to meet her at a specific unique occasion i think its alright ba..
he's like implying the only way to get gf is by stalking leh...Originally posted by Big Bot:my father stalked my mother, my cousin stalked her current girlfriend, my friend stalked girlfriend...
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How can it be the same?Originally posted by Big Bot:I got both email and number... she always has a valid reason to reject my "dates" but I dunno whether she is lying or not...
I decided to start over again... This time I aren't going to just stay at home and wait for a miracle to happen, I am going to find her face to face...
I don't care if its stalking... my father stalked my mother, my cousin stalked her current girlfriend, my friend stalked girlfriend...
Someone once said, chasing, wooing, stalking, its all the same...
And its not like she doesn't know me...
Chasing, wooing is legal when the other party is willing to be chased and wooed. If she already warn you to keep away from her but you still continue to pester her like that, she actually has the right to call in the police on the charge of harrasment and stalking and you could be jailed for that or at least be warned by the police for first timer. And if you continue like this, you'll be charged in court and she can get a protection order against you. I don't think you want things to turn out this way right?
You are taking your A Levels and I'm damn surprised that your understand of English is so bad. -
hmm where is the prom held .. fullerton ?? cos mine is there tomorrow .. lol .. ur gal u like issit from my jc ??
or MAYB I KOE HER? -
No lah, she is still friendly lah... and never ask me to go away also...
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hahaa....u wan to leave a dent? make sure its not a scar! i advised you not to go to her prom night . You know, after everything has ended, pp always like to gather and go out for supper or stuffs. If you turn up, and she wans to go out with her frens, then what u going to do? Kana reject again? Y wait? I think you shld jus sms and ask her how is her prom night instead.Originally posted by Big Bot:Its my chance to make an impact, hopefully at least leave a dent in her heart...
I know where her prom is gonna be held...
And I maybe going there to wait for her...
Sure I want to be together with her...
But I have problem if I go there to wait for her... I don't know what I want... I just want to see her... I just want to wait for her... other than that I don't know what I want...
Should I?
It feels like a drama... 
Come to think of it..when was my last prom night? waaaa...years ago...hahah.. -
You shouldnt. Prom may be the biggest and most important night of her life. You dont want to ruin that dont u?Originally posted by Big Bot:Its my chance to make an impact, hopefully at least leave a dent in her heart...
I know where her prom is gonna be held...
And I maybe going there to wait for her...
Sure I want to be together with her...
But I have problem if I go there to wait for her... I don't know what I want... I just want to see her... I just want to wait for her... other than that I don't know what I want...
Should I?
It feels like a drama... -
Originally posted by Big Bot:Its my chance to make an impact, hopefully at least leave a dent in her heart...
I know where her prom is gonna be held...
And I maybe going there to wait for her...
Sure I want to be together with her...
But I have problem if I go there to wait for her... I don't know what I want... I just want to see her... I just want to wait for her... other than that I don't know what I want...
Should I?
It feels like a drama... 
You don't even know what you want or what to do... what makes you think that when the occasion arises, you will know what to do?
It is like going to a 7-11 store, frantically looking all over the place before approaching the casher.
'I know I have to come here, but can you tell me what am I suppose to buy in here?'
P.S: If you don't plan, you can seriously forget about this whole thing.
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Move on. What's so special about this girl. Plenty of girls out there.
By rejecting your dates a number of times shows her level of interest towards you. Get the fooking hint.
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IMO, if the girl has repeatedly said no, perharps its time to move on
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Nevermind, I think I ask her directly can fetch her home or not better...
After all...later her father come... Her father always stick with her 1...BTH... -
Anymore questionOriginally posted by Big Bot:I got both email and number... she always has a valid reason to reject my "dates" but I dunno whether she is lying or not...
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Then what makes you think she should care?Originally posted by Big Bot:I don't care if its stalking... my father stalked my mother, my cousin stalked her current girlfriend, my friend stalked girlfriend...
Someone once said, chasing, wooing, stalking, its all the same...
And its not like she doesn't know me...
Anyway... It's UP TO YOU... FACE the CONSEQUENCES YOURSELF... -
Jux forget about it and move on man....
i think you should not ruin this friendship that you had with her...
Best if you can giv more details on your r/s with her now....
kinda hard to give advice jux from here though... -
Lets go back to the basic shall we?Originally posted by Big Bot:Its my chance to make an impact, hopefully at least leave a dent in her heart...
I know where her prom is gonna be held...
And I maybe going there to wait for her...
Sure I want to be together with her...
But I have problem if I go there to wait for her... I don't know what I want... I just want to see her... I just want to wait for her... other than that I don't know what I want...
Should I?
It feels like a drama...
Why do you say you like her?
Feel like graping you and shaking you asking why are you so desprate for this gal. Does she look so stunning that you must have her ? Or is she the one whom you can chat for hours with?
My advice be her friend first know her well before ever thinking of chasing her. Do not scare her away so fast, chasing a gal need time not rush work. There are somethings which gals can hide very well from friends but once you are her bf, she will show the real bad side.
There is a trick I can teach you in order to impress her at the porm. Ask her friends if she likes flowers or which toy character. If she like flowers try to buy the biggest bunch you can afford. Or if she like snoppy for example buy the biggest you can find. The key point is bigger and better than others. winks I think you are smart enough to understand what I am saying.
Next thing I want to point out is that your mindset got to change a bit. Instead of targeting her alone, try to mix with her friends. Once you have gain the trust and respect of her friends chasing her will be much easier.
Chasing a gal porperly is an art only a few can master. -
Drama your head! I think u r feeling the lovey dovey feeling again and again. U know, those puppy love feelings that some boys would have in their high school days...? yea...Originally posted by Big Bot:Its my chance to make an impact, hopefully at least leave a dent in her heart...
I know where her prom is gonna be held...
And I maybe going there to wait for her...
Sure I want to be together with her...
But I have problem if I go there to wait for her... I don't know what I want... I just want to see her... I just want to wait for her... other than that I don't know what I want...
Should I?
It feels like a drama...
I suggest u leave this r/s thingy aside until you learn to mature urself.