Originally posted by kevinaldinho:
many of my frens tell me tht patching a broken relationship is a one wae ticket to breaking up eventually, really meh?
i kenna 2 times le, den in the end still break, so does it mean tht the first ever break up is final? hmmmmm......
I have seen with my own eyes that a patch relationship really works. In fact is stronger than others if the couple puts in the extra effort to make it work.
Actually lets put it this way, have you learn the lesson on why both of you break up? If you have not is just repeating the same cycle again and again.
Ask your heart the real question. What is really wrong with the relationship? Have you really understand her well ? Seat down and think real hard why is it happening to you? Do you really know her ? Do you think she is the one ?
To get out the cycle of patch and break is to finally realise what is wrong with the relationship. It could be a simple, I do not like her ways of doing things or she is not what I want in my life.
Only you can break this cycle. I can only guide you but the final step is up to you. So take your time away from everyone and think carefully alone.