Being frens with a cheating Ex
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This is but just ONE of the MANY THINGS which happens in this WORLD...Originally posted by dunamis:What Zeny said is true. He never love you and care about your feelings. Ultimately, that girl is of higher priority than you. Such guy cannot give you security unless he learnt his lesson which obviously, he never learnt. Because he still go back & treat the girl like his queen (you should be the queen!!).
That girl reminds me of one of my colleagues. She broke up with her exbf 1 year ago. Now, he has a new gf and she is single. She told me up till now, whatever she wants, her exbf will get for her. Even if she knows his gf is beside him, she will still demand the exbf to serve her and the guy really did! That silly guy would tell his gf that his exgf needs this & that and off he goes. When I asked her why is she doing this, she told me she is single and just bored. Also, she knows the exbf still like her alot and thus, will care about her. Therefore, she make use of him. I am quoting word for word, "If I want him back now, he will leave his gf and be with me." Anyway, she call herself b1tch.
If you happen to feel less charming or attractive than that girl, please don't be because their immoral actions don't deserve your self-worth. I think perhaps, that girl doesn't come from a good loving background so she thrist for guy's attention (that's what happen to my colleague) or she was sexually abused before and so she lost her self-respect and started sleeping around with guys. (like Annabel Chong) Whatever the case is, that girl is old enough to choose whether she wants to be good or bad. She did not try to regain her self-respect and likewise, everyone will continue to disrespect her. Respect needs to be earned.
Cheers!
If my friend's a GAY, DOES THAT MAKES YOU A GAY TOO
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Sorry, but I don't see the relevance. Just sharing my experience for your reference only. Anyone can contribute their experiences as references. Ultimately, Gur is the decision maker.Originally posted by Devil1976:This is but just ONE of the MANY THINGS which happens in this WORLD...
If my friend's a GAY, DOES THAT MAKES YOU A GAY TOO
Doesn't mean that girl is similar to my colleague. I never seen that girl before so it's not up to me to justify. I was just listing all possible causes on why she behaves this way. Overall, I was trying to emphasis that the boyfriend loves the exgf more than her. Anyone can see that.
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You hit the nail on the head
Be strong and stand your ground, insist that he follows certain limits . If he can't do that, dump him.Originally posted by gur:Its not me...its my BF!
I think he is so farking stupid or he only think with his dick. -
It's bad to MISLEAD people sometimes (whether you hold the direct intention or not) Of course, not having to bear the CONSEQUENCES of the OUTCOME doesn't mean you can do things like that...?Originally posted by dunamis:Sorry, but I don't see the relevance. Just sharing my experience for your reference only. Anyone can contribute their experiences as references. Ultimately, Gur is the decision maker.
Doesn't mean that girl is similar to my colleague. I never seen that girl before so it's not up to me to justify. I was just listing all possible causes on why she behaves this way. Overall, I was trying to emphasis that the boyfriend loves the exgf more than her. Anyone can see that.
Cheers!
Be tactful next time...? -
Where is thread starter?
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Lurking around.Originally posted by M©+square:Where is thread starter?
I read all the replies....actually all these happened more than 6 mths ago.
I started to feel upset all over these incidents again when i found out he looked up and contacted her recently behind my back after he promised not to keep in touch with her anymore.
What do you guys make of these?
I seriously do NOT understand why the NEED to stay in touch and for him to break his promise and misplace my trust over and over again.
Btw, i didn't stop them from keeping in contact at first. However, its until i came across those "i still love u" and "more then frens" msges.
I asked him to make things clear between them but he refused and choose to keep silent. After which I couldn't take it anymore and I wanted them to stop contact and all these nonsense.
I pity her husband...spending so much money to marry such a loose cu*t.
Btw that dick husband of hers is an army officer. I hope he is not from the same uni as mine. Its a disgrace to us!
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Dump that loser la...