looking around, i gotta say its common... well yes, most guys are eager to get into it and more with the huge lust inside them... erm, that u gonna check wikipedia or something... last time also got la, but maybe its not done that fast like now and also probably less common due to the teachings by parents... y troubled over petting?Originally posted by Jean3:- Hihi people..i would like to check...is it common for couple to engage in petting in modern society?
- Are most guys very eager to get into it?
- What is the exact definition of petting.
- Do people in the old days do it? Or is it only evolve in recent days?
Trouble girl
WikipediaOriginally posted by Jean3:what is wikipedia?
We are not even a yr old into the relationship.
I am hoping for long lasting relationship and would not want to be involve in any intimacy until very very certain.
Any ideas to share?
Tell him that u don't feel comfortable getting physical cos u both need time to get to know one another. Tell him holding hands & hugging is ok but draw the line on petting. Be firm abt it. If he loves u, he will respect your decision.Originally posted by Jean3:what is wikipedia?
Well my bf is very good to me and he is a great person to be with be it sharing of troubles or happiness. However, i dont know if i should judge my bf on whether he is gd or bad regarding this matter. He is actually taking a step forward to be more physically involve with me (refering to petting i suppose). But i am worry that it is jus lust that is working on it and not true love. And if he expect this from me, wouldn't he be sort of less control on himself? This will make me wonder would he actually be lead astray if encounter temptions elsewhere. We are not even a yr old into the relationship.
I am hoping for long lasting relationship and would not want to be involve in any intimacy until very very certain.
Any ideas to share?
Originally posted by Jean3:
- Hihi people..i would like to check...is it common for couple to engage in petting in modern society?
Very common. Wherever I go, I see them. Usually, I see teenagers engage in public petting more often than I see adults.
- Are most guys very eager to get into it?
Usually. I learnt to understand the fact that because their organs are external while our's internal, so theirs are easier to... (up to your imagination). Overall, a guy's sex drive is higher than a girl's. Therefore, they are more likely to initiate petting first. If you initiate petting, it's more difficult for them to reject you. (because of what is just said)
However, say No! if you don't want it or feel uncomfortable. The guy should respect you. It is possible to hear "If you don't give me, you don't love me." Those are bast**ds who just want sex. A guy who has his interests in you, will respect your decision.
- What is the exact definition of petting.
The act of embracing, kissing, and caressing one's partner out of love or sexual desire. Or, affectionate play (foreplay without contact with genital organs.)
- Do people in the old days do it? Or is it only evolve in recent days?
My mum's era? Nope, they were more traditional and conservative in the past. They are told to get married with lesser divorce cases in their generation.
As a country becomes more 'westernized', people tend to be more open with an increased number of singles out there and more divorce cases.
Trouble girl
I understand that when you love someone, you're always insecure. And one good way to reassure yourself is to raise your concern to him. Being a guy myself, i respect all decisions raised by my lady. Afterall there's no point engaging into intimacy of such extent when i know she's not confortable about it. Its like turning my own sexual satisfaction against her insecurity.Originally posted by Jean3:what is wikipedia?
Well my bf is very good to me and he is a great person to be with be it sharing of troubles or happiness. However, i dont know if i should judge my bf on whether he is gd or bad regarding this matter. He is actually taking a step forward to be more physically involve with me (refering to petting i suppose). But i am worry that it is jus lust that is working on it and not true love. And if he expect this from me, wouldn't he be sort of less control on himself? This will make me wonder would he actually be lead astray if encounter temptions elsewhere. We are not even a yr old into the relationship.
I am hoping for long lasting relationship and would not want to be involve in any intimacy until very very certain.
Any ideas to share?
First of guys,if they are Curious or wanna just satify it, yes.Originally posted by Jean3:- Hihi people..i would like to check...is it common for couple to engage in petting in modern society?
- Are most guys very eager to get into it?
- What is the exact definition of petting.
- Do people in the old days do it? Or is it only evolve in recent days?
Trouble girl
May I ask, how old are the both of u? Bearing in mind, Looking for long term relationship is never possible if your at a tender young age.Originally posted by Jean3:what is wikipedia?
Well my bf is very good to me and he is a great person to be with be it sharing of troubles or happiness. However, i dont know if i should judge my bf on whether he is gd or bad regarding this matter. He is actually taking a step forward to be more physically involve with me (refering to petting i suppose). But i am worry that it is jus lust that is working on it and not true love. And if he expect this from me, wouldn't he be sort of less control on himself? This will make me wonder would he actually be lead astray if encounter temptions elsewhere. We are not even a yr old into the relationship.
I am hoping for long lasting relationship and would not want to be involve in any intimacy until very very certain.
Any ideas to share?
http://www.sgwiki.com/wiki/Main_PageOriginally posted by megatron:Gee, tats a lot of words n advice for Jean but what is wikipedia?
Hihi PeopleOriginally posted by MRMUSICPRODUCER:if u r jus a young gal then touch yourself if u r horny. if u r old enough & matured enough 2 know wat u r doing then u have 2 think of whether u r comfortable 2 do it or not. No pt doin something physical with some1 2 pls him & u dont enjoy it yourself. Do not regret in future. All depends on u actually cos its your body & life u r talking abt
hello megatron,Originally posted by megatron:Gee, tats a lot of words n advice for Jean but what is wikipedia?
1. sometimes i do brush against my ex's b.reasts but they were purely incidents. touching out of innocent desire of sensitive areas already means he wants to do it. no one would touch and that's it. if u request for them to stop, it depends on what will happen next.Originally posted by Jean3:-Do guys get touchy with their gf out of innocent desire sometimes? I mean they do touch (sensitive area) but if once request to stop they will.
-Do we classify that as bad act / rush act?
-Can we use this as a basis to judge the guy, as in like this guy might be possible bad guys etc those that will not control and give in to outside temptation? Do you think this is fair?
petting always leads to sex (it's actually foreplay) so it's commonOriginally posted by Jean3:- Hihi people..i would like to check...is it common for couple to engage in petting in modern society?
- Are most guys very eager to get into it?
- What is the exact definition of petting.
- Do people in the old days do it? Or is it only evolve in recent days?
Trouble girl