Common for couple to engage in petting?
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If u r not comfortable den dont do it.. dun feel pressured to go into it juz to satisfy ur bf n sustain the r/s coz tt's a total wrong approach.
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Think is more or less guy's curosity?
sO far onli once i read in sgforums.. The guy rejected his gf advances! doN ask mi the threaD.. Haha.. forgOt liao..
So lOng as u botH r comfOrtable wiTh it.. He doEsn't step the BoundARy..
A guY who trueLy loveS yoU wiLL reSpecT waTeva deCision yOu've cHosen tO make.. Jus teLL hiM iF hE is goin beYond wAt u feEL is comFortabLe.. iF he stoPs.. hE is a gD guY.. cAn coNsiDer.. Haha..
If he doesn bother tO.. dUMp him!
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1. Get touchy out of innocent desire? Mayb at times ba but nowadays guys tend to be more not so innocent. There are of cos exceptions. Request to stop, i think they will stop if not it will be molest le.Originally posted by Jean3:-Do guys get touchy with their gf out of innocent desire sometimes? I mean they do touch (sensitive area) but if once request to stop they will.
-Do we classify that as bad act / rush act?
-Can we use this as a basis to judge the guy, as in like this guy might be possible bad guys etc those that will not control and give in to outside temptation? Do you think this is fair?
2. It depends on wat situation and how u see it to be. Mayb its a rush act at times, mayb its a bad act at times or mayb its a planned act gone faliure at times. It really depends on how u feel it and see it.
3. I dun think it can be used as a basis to totally judge a guy. not that fair to the guy. U have to take in other considerations as well, not just this aspect. See the whole thing. -
do it only if u feel comfortable.. if u dun wan .. make him understand and respect it. if he wan make a fuss over it. dump him . hes not respecting u.
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petting is common.
common does not make it appropriate or inappropriate.
but as long you dont consent, you make sure your boyfriend's hands are in the appropriate places. -
common, i tell u 1 thing most of the time is the female who wants it.
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from personal experience, i agree with FBI. LOL. It's addictive, for both parties.Originally posted by FBI:common, i tell u 1 thing most of the time is the female who wants it. -
sometimes the guy might be shy to ask u to have ^%#^ but when u ask him to stop he should stop, if not throw him into dustbin
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Desire are never innocent. I always tell my gf of 5mths that my hands and brain don't work hand in hand!Originally posted by Jean3:hello megatron,
I think u previously did give me some advice. Thanks and i truly appreaciate it.
= )
One more qns:
-Do guys get touchy with their gf out of innocent desire sometimes? I mean they do touch (sensitive area) but if once request to stop they will.
-Do we classify that as bad act / rush act?
-Can we use this as a basis to judge the guy, as in like this guy might be possible bad guys etc those that will not control and give in to outside temptation? Do you think this is fair?
Rgds Jean[/list]
I tend to get a bit touchy when kissing but if she's not comfortable about it and ask me to stop, I'll respect her decision.
That's not a bad act but more of a natural act but of course as guys, they should learn to respect the girl's level of acceptance towards the act too.
Most of us are living in Temptation Island and it's up to individual's resistance to temptations. I simply don't think it's fair to judge a guy base on this. I admit I myself have very little control over this with my gf and several time she simple just have to stop me from advancing but that doesn't make me a bad one and I have no interest to the outside temptations for one simple reason cause I love my gf. -
I do agree with weijie. Usually I'll go as far as my gf feels comfortable but once I hit her limit, she'll ask me to stop and I'll just hit the reverse gear. I do know I'll get what I desire (or what my body desire at that point) if I persist but I didn't cause I don't want to do anything to her that she'll feel uncomfortable with. It's definitely not because I'm afraid of commitment but I rather she's prepared for it.Originally posted by weijie1985:do it only if u feel comfortable.. if u dun wan .. make him understand and respect it. if he wan make a fuss over it. dump him . hes not respecting u.
Don't give in to guys who says "why you won't let me touch you? YOU DON'T LOVE ME?"
I think most woman falls for this statement. Sex or physical attachement IS NEVER an evident of LOVE. -
No sex no love. lol. quite common nowadays.
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Goodness, u guys are all so mundane! Just live life to its fullest without controls by anyone!
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It's not common, its as rare as finding diamonds along jln lengkok bahru.
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ya lo.. me exp told me that also. Females like to be hug, hug ppl. Kisses also. THey need alot of love.Originally posted by geodome:from personal experience, i agree with FBI. LOL. It's addictive, for both parties.
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It is common. But then if u want to get involve in heavy petting, pls only give it to your one n only. It is abt moral values.Originally posted by ditzy:It's not common, its as rare as finding diamonds along jln lengkok bahru. -
If it is about moral values, there shouldn't be any petting in the first place. There is a good reason why I use words like appropriate in place of right, and inappropriate in place of wrong - to not make a moral judgement on the activity, but to reason out if there should be a degree of control to make such an act appropriate.Originally posted by AnimalArmy:It is common. But then if u want to get involve in heavy petting, pls only give it to your one n only. It is abt moral values. -
hey dear, why u post such things on the forum! our things dunnit let whole world know rite? sorry i cause u so much trouble because i want to get in ur pants... but u shld listen to them... it's normal to have sex even! tmr we meet, pls wear miniskirt k? i tink im ready to have sex liao..
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no offence but this looks like a "will i get pregnant if my boyfriend kisses my nipples" kinda questions in teen/lime magazine.
i would say it is common. -
this is how r/s work.
but wat do u of couples kissing and petting in open public? -
i look away.Originally posted by 798:this is how r/s work.
but wat do u of couples kissing and petting in open public? -
Kissing and Hugging is OK. But anything more than that, I mean it will be better to leave it to the one and only.Originally posted by geodome:If it is about moral values, there shouldn't be any petting in the first place. There is a good reason why I use words like appropriate in place of right, and inappropriate in place of wrong - to not make a moral judgement on the activity, but to reason out if there should be a degree of control to make such an act appropriate. -
normal. have sex oso normal.
but not my business.