my fren got this prob help me
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ok....my fren just attended this camp and he knew this girl...at first,he didnt harbour any feelings for her but as time goes on during the camp...he felt tht the girl treated him very well...During the beginning of the camp,they were supposed to find partners and my fren was like walking ard duno who to parter wif..thn this girl walked up to him and took the intiative to partner him..this girl oso kept taking the initiative to talk to him but the girl is somehow older than him by 1 yr...
so ppl here...u think tht this girl is trying to get close to my fren as in bgr or just being frens ...wad should he do...
ok,he thinks tht the girl is interested in him but he is afraid tht this might turn out to be a jie-di lian...
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Originally posted by Screwd:ok....my fren just attended this camp and he knew this girl...at first,he didnt harbour any feelings for her but as time goes on during the camp...he felt tht the girl treated him very well...During the beginning of the camp,they were supposed to find partners and my fren was like walking ard duno who to parter wif..thn this girl walked up to him and took the intiative to partner him..this girl oso kept taking the initiative to talk to him but the girl is somehow older than him by 1 yr...
so ppl here...u think tht this girl is trying to get close to my fren as in bgr or just being frens ...wad should he do...
ok,he thinks tht the girl is interested in him but he is afraid tht this might turn out to be a jie-di lian... Girl may or may not be interested. But looking at this i think she is slightly impressed by him if not she wont take the initiative. Your friend is against jie-di lian? If the girl is one year older i dont see a prob. -
yes,he feels tht its abit awkward to be wif someone who is older than him..he thinks tht the girl might feel insercure wif him...
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one year.. u mean like 1985 and 1986 tat kind? iszit exactly 12 months ? it can be that the gal is born in 1985 october and the guy 1986 march... so its less than one year difference mah... so if separation is less than 12 months, iszit any different from a gal and guy born in same year and the gal older by the guy by 6 months?
in my point of view.. one yr isnt bad... i gt a guy friend whose stead is 3 yrs older than him.. and they're going steady
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I agree with what this forumer is saying.. I think its fine..Originally posted by elektra:one year.. u mean like 1985 and 1986 tat kind? iszit exactly 12 months ? it can be that the gal is born in 1985 october and the guy 1986 march... so its less than one year difference mah... so if separation is less than 12 months, iszit any different from a gal and guy born in same year and the gal older by the guy by 6 months?
in my point of view.. one yr isnt bad... i gt a guy friend whose stead is 3 yrs older than him.. and they're going steady
But what is your fren thinking now? he dun wan her to get close to him? -
Friends before lovers.Originally posted by Screwd:ok....my fren just attended this camp and he knew this girl...at first,he didnt harbour any feelings for her but as time goes on during the camp...he felt tht the girl treated him very well...During the beginning of the camp,they were supposed to find partners and my fren was like walking ard duno who to parter wif..thn this girl walked up to him and took the intiative to partner him..this girl oso kept taking the initiative to talk to him but the girl is somehow older than him by 1 yr...
so ppl here...u think tht this girl is trying to get close to my fren as in bgr or just being frens ...wad should he do...
ok,he thinks tht the girl is interested in him but he is afraid tht this might turn out to be a jie-di lian...
Start off by becoming good friends and see where it leads to. But always be aware of subtle hints when she wants to let him know that friendship is above anything else. -
YOur friend is you?
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the camp how long? 3 days?
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1 wk la,and no my fren doesnt mind her being close to him...
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1 year is still ok... haha for me up to 3 years is still fine... as long as the other party dun mind loh... all is up to your fren....
if he think it's fine then he can cont with this gal... jux take it easy can c how things go laa.... no need to rush so fast into it... -
its u right?
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my love partner can be +3, -4. haha...
aiya...most impt is whether your fren got liking or not.
if have, go for it.
if not, forget it..simple as that... -
yea! it must be you!
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One year dun matter...