How to keep relationship long-lasting....
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Any suggestions to keep a relationship long-lasting??
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A relationship can only last if it is with the right person. If he/she is not the one for you, despite how hard you try... it just wont make it to the wedding altar.
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i am trying to figure that out myself too..anyone care to tell me???Originally posted by babyandao:Hiz....
Any suggestions to keep a relationship long-lasting??
Like to hear ur sugestions....hehehe
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I am JUZ a ORdinNary GiRL WhO liVEs In An ORdiNarY woRLd~~~~~~~ -
WEll ... i think someone mentioned this before .... There has to be ... Well ... this is gonna be a very long POst ...
Mutual Respect
For starters, the individual must know himself or herself well first. It is vital that the individual's character and personality is maintained when a relationship grows. There is no need for you to have exact views on all issues as your partner. Having respect for what your partner stands up for is more important than being agreeable when not.
Best of Friends
Your partner is your lover and also your best chum! Treat your partner as your best friend and do things that you would do with your best friends with him or her too. If you enjoy a certain activity with your best of friends, do it with your partner too.
Unconditional Love
A small dose of unconditional love will go a long way. Do not expect that your partner reciprocates what you give out. Do not keep a checklist of what you have shared, but rather, it is more important to concentrate on showering your love.
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The night is near and dawn is coming... I Lay awake on my bed thinking of you... I wonder ... when will we meet again ? When will we talk once more ? I Know my love to you is deep and true ... but i wonder how you feel for me ... -
Continued from above.
Understanding
Know how your partner feels; whether by listening or by observing his actions. Hold back touchy issues when it is obvious that he has had a bad day in the office. Instead, offer to give a back rub or cook a good dinner instead. When you see that your partner has received a commendation about his work ability, share the joy too!
Compromise
Give an inch, and you may well get a mile. In a relationship, it needs both parties to click and a small compromise on each other's part will help to increase mutual understanding. There may be instances when both parties have to work late, but do still work out a schedule to spend time together by adjusting activities that have less priority. Compromise will mean that you are able to see things from your partner's viewpoint and this will only help to strengthen the relationship in the long term.
Hope this has helped many of you to answer your questions =) -
wow....chim theory....ehhehe
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Sure man ... spread the points listed above ... they're really useful =)
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The night is near and dawn is coming... I Lay awake on my bed thinking of you... I wonder ... when will we meet again ? When will we talk once more ? I Know my love to you is deep and true ... but i wonder how you feel for me ... -
thanx for telling me also..
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I am JUZ a ORdinNary GiRL WhO liVEs In An ORdiNarY woRLd~~~~~~~ -
pheo, maybe i get together with u and be ever-lasting? ehhe u like? anyway u attached? eheheh
Cheers !!
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aww, babyandao, u sound quite flirty eh?heheOriginally posted by babyandao:pheo, maybe i get together with u and be ever-lasting? ehhe u like? anyway u attached? eheheh
Cheers !!
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LeighAnn~~19/f
cuz im wicked,ahem... -
i'd like to be in long term relationship which i've never experieced before. there must be this special some one who is right for me. well i guess im still waiting for him to come to me or he perhaps is already around the corner, what i have to do is open my eyes and dig him out..hehe
all the best searching for ur love, pals
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LeighAnn~~19/f
cuz im wicked,ahem... -
Hm....Well LeighAnn...
maybe I m the one u are searching for....hehehe interested?
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*ROFL*Originally posted by babyandao:Hm....Well LeighAnn...
maybe I m the one u are searching for....hehehe interested?
Cheehong ar babyandao ?
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The night is near and dawn is coming... I Lay awake on my bed thinking of you... I wonder ... when will we meet again ? When will we talk once more ? I Know my love to you is deep and true ... but i wonder how you feel for me ... -
Hw u know my name chee hong?? hmhmh....gd telepathic skills.... ehhehehe
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Yup,good luck and keep your eyes open for Mr Right,not Mr Perfect,heheheOriginally posted by LeighAnn:i'd like to be in long term relationship which i've never experieced before. there must be this special some one who is right for me. well i guess im still waiting for him to come to me or he perhaps is already around the corner, what i have to do is open my eyes and dig him out..hehe
all the best searching for ur love, pals
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When you were born, you were hungry and everyone around you was full. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one full and everyone around you is hungry.
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Why Mr Right ? And Not Mr Perfect ? But i guess most will go for mr Perfect ... rather then Mr Right by their side...~Originally posted by moose:Yup,good luck and keep your eyes open for Mr Right,not Mr Perfect,hehehe -
Too many people spend all their life looking for the perfect partner when the should be looking for the right partner,ehehe
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When you were born, you were hungry and everyone around you was full. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one full and everyone around you is hungry.~~~
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whether a relationship can last, FATE has a major role to play in it.
i m one strong believer in FATE. No matter how compatible u both are, if there's no fate between the two of u, dats it! no such thing as eternity if FATE disallows...sad huh?!
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Well ... it's obvious you're a strong believer of FATE. It's usually FATE that brings 2 pple together ... and for them to have a lasting relationship ... Isn't it ?Originally posted by firefly:whether a relationship can last, FATE has a major role to play in it.
i m one strong believer in FATE. No matter how compatible u both are, if there's no fate between the two of u, dats it! no such thing as eternity if FATE disallows...sad huh?!
FATE...u sure can ruin some pple's lives! -
True that fate plays a major part,but the person in the relationship also plays a major part,hehee
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Makan begins with a drool, grows with a chomp, ends with a burp.When you were born, you were hungry and everyone around you was full. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one full and everyone around you is hungry.~~~
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me juz feel sad...*sigh* FATE had brought the supposedly perfect guy into my life...and IT snatched him away frm me juz when we are startin to plan our future lives together..
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Dun be so sad...I connsole u....maybe u like to meet ur Mr Right now....ME .... hehe
Can consider u know....
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hahaha! u joker! thankz anyway!
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Like to know u better intro?
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Communication should be the keyword in any long lasting relationship If u communicate and share ur feelings and tots frequently wif ur partner, instead of accumulating secrets and bottling stuff 2 urself, the relationship will have a single heart, a single mind, of honesty and mutual understanding Wat more is needed? Hee
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