A Real Life Girl's Story: Troubled Heart Part 1: It all bega
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true i admit that love is blind..but one thing must bear in mind girls are normally the one who lose out in most cases... so girls better think before u leap don't easily jump into a relationship and find out later that the guy is not suitable for u. worse is u don't have the courage to suggest a breakup with him... there it goes -- guessing game. this hurts the other party too.
just giving on some of my comments.
Retrac: have u been in similar case as the girl?
Seventh_Signs: how about u? :p
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for me i think its the opposite actually....i think online friendships can be more safe and rewarding. its easier to get to know someone without all the pretentions, and if you don't like the person its also easier to back out provided you haven't met up with the person yet.
but one thing must bear in mind girls are normally the one who lose out in most cases... so girls better think before u leap don't easily jump into a relationship and find out later that the guy is not suitable for u.
some guys get girlfriends just for sex and some girls get boyfriends just for money and to show him off. in either case, the person being made use off loses out. not saying the girl doesn't suffer, but don't forget about what the guy would go through too
btw, i've heard of at least one case where a girl got a boyfriend just for sex, and the guy was the one who ended up being hurt (emotionally) in the end. not too common, but it does happen. -
girls or guys out there better be aware n careful of the people you meet online..
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I never trusted online relationships and never will.
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I do agree with the moral of the story.. some people really hard to tell from the surface.. Maybe not even on the internet, but also in real life. our friends and classmates... I ever have my experiences with one too.. Felt a little cheated and betrayed for I really put effort into a friendship. Till today, I can't really be bothered how that classmate is doing everyday. Though she called me sometime back, and told me a few things and how she had changed, but it turn out that there are still a lot of false information in her words. Really disappointed
but horz.. when you post this story here, you put some people who genuinely want to help people in a very bad position lehz.. now no one will trust us liaoz... =( hehehe~
Don't worryz lahz.. if someone wants to listen to us, s/he will listen one.. if not then s/he would not post his/her thoughts here liaoz...
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The World Is UnFair , Never Trust Anyone.
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but some really work out well! this world is so fake if only there are more sincere ppl around, it would be just nice and perfect.Originally posted by shandower:I never trusted online relationships and never will.
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sad to say.. there is no such ting as prefect..Originally posted by RoWLeY:but some really work out well! this world is so fake if only there are more sincere ppl around, it would be just nice and perfect. -
I agree with that.. we hear about a lot of r/s that start off online that don't work out, and there's a lot of cheating and stuff could be because now these kind of information has become so accessable to all of us. In the past, there are also a lot of such cases of r/s not being lasting and a lot of cheating, just that they are told by the word of mouth so it was not so available.Originally posted by RoWLeY:but some really work out well! this world is so fake if only there are more sincere ppl around, it would be just nice and perfect.
Besides there are r/s online do work out and they are pretty lasting and sincere. It's just that those who are hard-broken have posted them online, those who are happy are spending time together so it's a pretty much one-sided thing and it's bias to judge things like this.
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<- Don't be AN IDIOT and start stereotyping like this....Originally posted by Xanthon:The World Is UnFair , Never Trust Anyone. -
EVERYone in tis world wears a mask...tatz y u will never noe wats behind the mask...
if there's ever 1 person who is willing to remove the mask for u....make sure u be prepared...cos wat u may c may be either velli scary or veli nice...
but ppl who dare to remove their mask and live without it are rare and close to none...
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hmm... well i agree with this especially when u are the victim. who doesn't wear a mask? maybe im not fit enough to voice out my opinions here because i do not think that i have seen the REAL world enough. well, just get on with life and don't ever wear a mask out of bad intentionOriginally posted by DavyLMF:EVERYone in tis world wears a mask...tatz y u will never noe wats behind the mask...
if there's ever 1 person who is willing to remove the mask for u....make sure u be prepared...cos wat u may c may be either velli scary or veli nice...
but ppl who dare to remove their mask and live without it are rare and close to none...
if u meet 1 u will understand...
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FERICIA, U REALLY SI BEI ENG.
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Continue yr story leh?? wat happened after that ? did she n edward marry?
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PLS LOOK AT THE DATE BEFORE U START POSTING...
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hi all..wow long time no come in liao.leh..hw is everybody..???got become smarter after hearin my story bo? anyway the lynn and tat edward are frens then no marry lar..hehe she nt cinderella hw to marry..
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wow cah..this story had beeen here some times ago liao rite?
why repeat again?!?!?.... -
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err.. since this thread was brought to the front page i managed to read it.. haha
so many of this kind of stories everywhere.. i read one NUS one where they got to know each other thru the telnet terminals.. or was it ngee ann poly? oh well...
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haha! I know this story has been posted very long but I wish to give some comment.
Luckily this lynn and Edward are not together. Who knows this edward is another filrt also. Rem he had a gerfriend and still called lynn to tok abt their relationship problem. If he wanted to solve his problem, he should tok to his gerfriend instead. What is he trying to do....trying to bo tong qing ar.
Actually this lynn is already quite lucky. This Sky seems to be a professional....that's y his msg and and toking skill is superb which make his "sheep" dizzy...heart melt. But he is too impatient lar. If he is pro enough I think lynn will not only lost her money but everything....u know what i mean.
The moral of the story is not to trust anybody! Netfriend and reallife friend. Think logically haha -
i tink edward is a gd guy.. hope she treats lynn well and dun cheat her like wat sky did,cheating her of money,feelings and luckily no sex... treat her well edward!!
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heard sky is still out there finding his prey.....anyway be careful..not oni online..real life also...ah beng aso can cheat $$... Lynn she going overseas to study soon....she got a new bf already.......edward's friend somemore..Originally posted by Ah^ken:i tink edward is a gd guy.. hope she treats lynn well and dun cheat her like wat sky did,cheating her of money,feelings and luckily no sex... treat her well edward!!
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hmmmmm heng got ppl bring this story up again so i can read it
but then i got a feeling it juz a story....too dramatic and too detail to be easily dictated...
juz my 2 cent worth
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Hope Edward wun be so sad cos he not wif Lynn...
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some ppl can oni be gd frens and nt lovers