What Kind Of Friends Do You Have?
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1) Friends that u chit chat in school, whereas when you reach home, you totally won't care about what happen to your friend or simply forget this friend of yours temporary?
2) Friends that gives you an attitude when talking to you?
3)Friends that gives you lame reasons like lazy, tired, wanna play games when you ask them to come out?
You have this kind of friends?
What kind of friends do you have?
Have you ever thought of are your friends like what i've mentioned in 1)?
Are they truly your friends?
Have you ever give a thought for it...?
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Hmm.... Now I understand why you were 'labelled' as pessimestic...?Originally posted by Uptempo:1) Friends that u chit chat in school, whereas when you reach home, you totally won't care about what happen to your friend or simply forget this friend of yours temporary?
2) Friends that gives you an attitude when talking to you?
3)Friends that gives you lame reasons like lazy, tired, wanna play games when you ask them to come out?
You have this kind of friends?
What kind of friends do you have?
Have you ever thought of are your friends like what i've mentioned in 1)?
Are they truly your friends?
Have you ever give a thought for it...?
Not like those above questions of yours never popped into my mind before...? But it was REAL LONG way back lah..... Why about hearing things from a MORE REALISTIC point of view.... Just like normally when 'Devils' whisper things of such nature as above to you... They also NEVER told you that....
(1)Human minds are GREAT... If not 'superb'.... But it's not like they come without limits....? Whatever you can store in your 'short term memory' is LIMITED... And your ability to RECALL is also LIMITED (Varies from people....) Rather than thinking that this friend of yours or that friend of yours are REALLY SELFISH creatures or only think about THEMSELVES and have no time to put you or a REAL GOOD FRIEND (gf/bf who can't THINK PROPERLY... LISTEN to this ALSO...) on his/her mind, why not think of his/her LIMITATIONs as a HUMAN...?? Hmm... Talk about SELFISH huh....? Try thinking about how SELFISH you've been as a friend also if you don't even give YOUR FRIEND a bit of FREEDOM on his/her mind to think of the things he/she need to attend to...? Or just let his/her wander...? Think of the RESPECT and MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING you should've given your friend....? COMEON... THINK....
(2) Though I have to admit that some people have REAL ATTITUDE PROBLEMS (Friend or NO friend). ALOT I believe are just their characters..... The kinda person they are which YOU cannot get used to... Next time you have that kinda thinking, see how your other friends are reacting to it...? If they're also giving NEGATIVE response, then THINK about why the person wanna do it in the 1st place...? USED to it? Can't control? Not bothered...? THINK.... If there's a REASON for him/her to be so, then there's an ANSWER to your THINKING...
(3) If you KNOW that your friend is giving you a LAME EXCUSE, why don't you just EXCUSE them...? May it be that they're TRULY TIRED, LAZY or whatsoever (For all you know they might not even be interested in YOUR ACTIVITIES... <- Shouldn't force them to do things which they don't like to do right...?) they gave you A REASON.... Fact or not, they surely have their REASON (may it be the one they've told you or other hidden ones..) for doing so.... Before you start to blame them the NEXT TIME, try thinking of the moment when you gave yourself a little EXCUSE just to SPARE yourself from something..? Hmm....
Friends OR NOT, it's up to you to decide.... But COMDEMNING is EASILY DONE on others... And when that HAPPENS.... It could also be EASILY DONE on YOU.....
Time to take more rest my friend....
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
Hehee....Thx for reply. Anyway that was juz a mood swing topic~ see u ard then~
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Today I met a great new friend who knew me right away
It was funny how he understood all I had to say
He listened to my problems n dreams
We talked about life which he'd been there too
It seem that we've known each other since long
But as i stretch out my hands to embrace this new great friend of mine
I was startled, and only found out that this new great friend i knew is only a mirror image of me standing by. -
in friends , it's the quality that counts , not the quantity.
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hmm......mine got no quality ley...muz be like those apples with an empty or rotten core.
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Today I met a great new friend who knew me right away
It was funny how he understood all I had to say
He listened to my problems n dreams
We talked about life which he'd been there too
It seem that we've known each other since long
But as i stretch out my hands to embrace this new great friend of mine
I was startled, and only found out that this new great friend i knew is only a mirror image of me standing by. -
but always remeber that u have a true fren in the mirrorOriginally posted by Uptempo:hmm......mine got no quality ley...muz be like those apples with an empty or rotten core. -
Do not underestimate the power of 'mood swing'...? It could prove to be quite hazardous...? ESP. for girls....? :pOriginally posted by Uptempo:Hehee....Thx for reply. Anyway that was juz a mood swing topic~ see u ard then~
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
Go find yourself some better apples then if you DESIRE them...? But at the same time, understand that no one's prefect...? Everybody's unique in their own ways and bound to be faults...... If you happens to be sitting at such an angle that your friend's 'weakness' is in your sight... Understand that it is just part of his/her character... At the same time, don't always spend time thinking negatives of your friends...? Why not find the POSITIVEs of your friend... ENJOY it and SHINE on them too..??Originally posted by Uptempo:hmm......mine got no quality ley...muz be like those apples with an empty or rotten core.
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
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Do not underestimate the power of 'mood swing'...? It could prove to be quite hazardous...? ESP. for girls....? :p
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Hee....Okai....so...i'm sort of like.....fortunate to be a guy~? hiakz~
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Today I met a great new friend who knew me right away
It was funny how he understood all I had to say
He listened to my problems n dreams
We talked about life which he'd been there too
It seem that we've known each other since long
But as i stretch out my hands to embrace this new great friend of mine
I was startled, and only found out that this new great friend i knew is only a mirror image of me standing by. -
Go find yourself some better apples then if you DESIRE them...? But at the same time, understand that no one's prefect...? Everybody's unique in their own ways and bound to be faults...... If you happens to be sitting at such an angle that your friend's 'weakness' is in your sight... Understand that it is just part of his/her character... At the same time, don't always spend time thinking negatives of your friends...? Why not find the POSITIVEs of your friend... ENJOY it and SHINE on them too..??Originally posted by Devil1976:[QUOTE]Originally posted by Uptempo:
[b]hmm......mine got no quality ley...muz be like those apples with an empty or rotten core.
[/B][/QUOTE] yah , agree with wat Devil says...
There are lots of potential great friends out there. Give , n u will recieve in return.
No one is perfect. *Remember that u cannot tailor made a friend.*
All The best!!!
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Go find yourself some better apples then if you DESIRE them...? But at the same time, understand that no one's prefect...? Everybody's unique in their own ways and bound to be faults...... If you happens to be sitting at such an angle that your friend's 'weakness' is in your sight... Understand that it is just part of his/her character... At the same time, don't always spend time thinking negatives of your friends...? Why not find the POSITIVEs of your friend... ENJOY it and SHINE on them too..??Originally posted by Devil1976:[QUOTE]Originally posted by Uptempo:
[b]hmm......mine got no quality ley...muz be like those apples with an empty or rotten core.
[/B][/QUOTE] yah , agree with wat Devil says...
There are lots of potential great friends out there. Give , n u will recieve in return.
No one is perfect. *Remember that u cannot tailor made a friend.*
All The best!!!) -
Do not underestimate the power of 'mood swing'...? It could prove to be quite hazardous...? ESP. for girls....? :pOriginally posted by Uptempo:
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Hee....Okai....so...i'm sort of like.....fortunate to be a guy~? hiakz~
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??? thought only girls have mood swings? R u having problems with guy friends? I thought Guys make good friends? At least they will not back stab u , bad mouth you .... compare bra size.... compare waist line.... blah blah blah.... compare bfs.... brag abt their motor bikers bfs.... hahahhahahhahaa -
Originally posted by Uptempo:
Guys experiencing too much 'mood swings' can be EQUALLY UNHEALTHY lah.... ~Sigh...~
Do not underestimate the power of 'mood swing'...? It could prove to be quite hazardous...? ESP. for girls....? :p
Hee....Okai....so...i'm sort of like.....fortunate to be a guy~? hiakz~
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
Hmm....lucky my mood swing comes once in a blue moon~ so i'm healthy or unhealthy now? keke~
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Today I met a great new friend who knew me right away
It was funny how he understood all I had to say
He listened to my problems n dreams
We talked about life which he'd been there too
It seem that we've known each other since long
But as i stretch out my hands to embrace this new great friend of mine
I was startled, and only found out that this new great friend i knew is only a mirror image of me standing by.