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i meet this man who is married and we both really like each other but he is married with a kid so we just flirt and we both no it ant goin anywhere so we are best mates that is till my friend ellen* started working at my work and she started flirting with him n he told me im the only one he wants but he keeps flirting with her in front of me im trying to forget about him but its hard n i have been gettin pains n shortness of breath cause of this its making me ill i just want someone 2 say something 2 me 2 help me out.. am i the one in the wrong 4 believing him or is he doing this 2 hide the fact that he loves me? PLEASE HELP i just want 2 cry..
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hmm.... frank words: leave him.... he really sounds like a playboy and jerk....
cry if u have to... but after that, move on.....
i dun know u.... but i do think u deserve someone better... someone who can make u smile and not cry.... -
change job? BTW, why are you wasting your time and youth on a married man ?
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thanks people i always say i am what i am love may hurt me friends may leave me but i am what i am and that a person!!
i tried staying out of his way today at work but its hard when i have to go through his office to get to places i have 2 get 2. the thing is he told me some of his deep secrets so i thought i could trust him n i fell 4 it he knows im sensitive n he used that on me. im normally one 2 be smiling making every1 happy and full of energy but he has just taken that from me and im so glad i have found this forum 2 let it all out n say what i want..thank you ur all great help xx -
telling secrets and being intimate does not mean anything when the fellow has a family.
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see i didnt know he was married untill 2months after talkin 2 him, i cant wait till thursday coz we break up 4m work for a month yey so i can forget about him easier xxx but some of the texts he used 2 send me was mad like once he told me just becoz he wont leave him wife doesnt mean he hasnt wanted 2, or how he really wants me n has dreamt about kissing me.. but yet now he is treating me like crap xx
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be careful of guys. lots tell me to be their mistress and never reveal they are married for years after I known them. I always make it a point to ask and know what and who I am dealing with and I don't want all the b!tchy crowd to wag their tongues and claim I got something cause I slept around. To guys, everything they do can become a ego boost and the whole purpose is to make themselves feel good.
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thank you, you have been a good help, i need some 1 to talk 2 and 2 know that im not the only one..i thought there was nothing wrong with me till today n i thought ill find a place 2 talk 2 some1 and ask there advice n u have answered it you see im young and i dont know much about life n relationships so i dont know what expect and its good 2 talk 2 people who does know about ! xxx
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be professional at work. Flirting with any guy at work discredit you as a professional person. Once tongues wag, you can forget about your future. I don't have that problem with married men nor do I flirt with them, they flirt with me and never get any response. I am just tired of being asked to be some guy's mistress just cause they have money.
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yeah well i like being center of attention but i dont like being used and when i see him next ill show him who is boss and get on with my work like im ment 2 ..men r only a bit of our lifes not totally everything in our life xxx
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Dear Fairy Muff,
Since you now know what kinda conniving fool he is, you'd do well to steer clear from him. Don't touch a married man, he's married. Unless, of course, you don't mind others doing the same thing to you when you're married.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by fairy_muff:thanks people i always say i am what i am love may hurt me friends may leave me but i am what i am and that a person!!
i tried staying out of his way today at work but its hard when i have to go through his office to get to places i have 2 get 2. the thing is he told me some of his deep secrets so i thought i could trust him n i fell 4 it he knows im sensitive n he used that on me. im normally one 2 be smiling making every1 happy and full of energy but he has just taken that from me and im so glad i have found this forum 2 let it all out n say what i want..thank you ur all great help xx -
ALL SIGNS say you should just DISTANCE from him... Only wise and reasonable thing to do. Else, be prepared for multiple INVITED TROUBLES..Originally posted by fairy_muff:thanks people i always say i am what i am love may hurt me friends may leave me but i am what i am and that a person!!
i tried staying out of his way today at work but its hard when i have to go through his office to get to places i have 2 get 2. the thing is he told me some of his deep secrets so i thought i could trust him n i fell 4 it he knows im sensitive n he used that on me. im normally one 2 be smiling making every1 happy and full of energy but he has just taken that from me and im so glad i have found this forum 2 let it all out n say what i want..thank you ur all great help xx -
Originally posted by fairy_muff:i meet this man who is married and we both really like each other but he is married with a kid so we just flirt and we both no it ant goin anywhere so we are best mates that is till my friend ellen* started working at my work and she started flirting with him n he told me im the only one he wants but he keeps flirting with her in front of me im trying to forget about him but its hard n i have been gettin pains n shortness of breath cause of this its making me ill i just want someone 2 say something 2 me 2 help me out.. am i the one in the wrong 4 believing him or is he doing this 2 hide the fact that he loves me? PLEASE HELP i just want 2 cry..
Somehow, my instinct tells me that you are one vulnerable (and emotionally simple-minded) woman that shouldn't even be playing this seduction game since day one. This man is crafty and is out to satisfy his own emotional (or sexual, if something did happened) needs through pretext of simple flirting.
This game isn't as simple as you thought it was. In fact, the rule was zero commitment and was played accordingly. He IS MARRIED with a kid my dear... and his act is merely filling in whatever emotional void you are suffering from and to entertain his deep seated fantasy.
Pardon for saying this but wtf is hiding a fact cause he loves you? Because he flirts with other woman and when he hides this 'truth' = he loves you? How simpler and naive can you get?
Quit now or risk full karmic blow.
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Like what all the others had adviced u, leave him....he is married and i think he jus wan to have "fun" outside... tou1 chi1.....
Well, if u really are determined to leave him, warn him that u will tell his wife is he still pester you...
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I have a highly recommended book I suggest you buy and read for yourself.
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Originally posted by alexkusu:I have a highly recommended book I suggest you buy and read for yourself.
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it takes 2 hands to clap. So Frankly I feel F-M is also at fault.
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call his wife and tell him about it.Originally posted by fairy_muff:i meet this man who is married and we both really like each other but he is married with a kid so we just flirt and we both no it ant goin anywhere so we are best mates that is till my friend ellen* started working at my work and she started flirting with him n he told me im the only one he wants but he keeps flirting with her in front of me im trying to forget about him but its hard n i have been gettin pains n shortness of breath cause of this its making me ill i just want someone 2 say something 2 me 2 help me out.. am i the one in the wrong 4 believing him or is he doing this 2 hide the fact that he loves me? PLEASE HELP i just want 2 cry..
or bring his kid to office and see his dad flirting.
or take a video of the 2 of them flirting and email them around.
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Xmas is a time of giving. Me generous mood. Share with everyone maOriginally posted by M©+square:
PM la...
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Also must ask everyone if they accept your good will or not mahOriginally posted by alexkusu:Xmas is a time of giving. Me generous mood. Share with everyone ma 
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well we had a arguement today we ant friends or anything else ive got a months holiday so i ant got 2 see him. but i think about him alot..must stop that.. i moved on 2 some nice bloke at work who has liked me 4 ages he hasnt got a g/f and he's cute not my age but hey i like them older got a christmas kiss of him yey.. my heart hurts 4 the man i thought could have been with 4eva but friends come and go but i should be true to myself xxx
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that guy is a jerk and a playboy.
leave him and dun believe anything that he told you.
if he wants to be with you, he would be more than ready to leave his wife anythime.
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Good for you. Word of caution though, don't hurt the nice guy whom you're with now, even if you're with him on the rebound.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by fairy_muff:well we had a arguement today we ant friends or anything else ive got a months holiday so i ant got 2 see him. but i think about him alot..must stop that.. i moved on 2 some nice bloke at work who has liked me 4 ages he hasnt got a g/f and he's cute not my age but hey i like them older got a christmas kiss of him yey.. my heart hurts 4 the man i thought could have been with 4eva but friends come and go but i should be true to myself xxx -
sighOriginally posted by fairy_muff:i meet this man who is married and we both really like each other but he is married with a kid so we just flirt and we both no it ant goin anywhere so we are best mates that is till my friend ellen* started working at my work and she started flirting with him n he told me im the only one he wants but he keeps flirting with her in front of me im trying to forget about him but its hard n i have been gettin pains n shortness of breath cause of this its making me ill i just want someone 2 say something 2 me 2 help me out.. am i the one in the wrong 4 believing him or is he doing this 2 hide the fact that he loves me? PLEASE HELP i just want 2 cry..