rejection
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wondering any of u guys out there can still remain as friends w the girl which reject u??? what i mean is to behave, act or treat her like nothing had happened before.
do u think it's un gentleman if the guy start to stay away or shun from the girl after getting rejected??? -
i think it works both ways
firstly will u still feel starnge when u tok or when u r wit her??
next is will she feel the same or wat?
it all runs down to u c if i wan to shun or shy away fr her or not
if can y not b friends?
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Not easy but can be done, if both side are still single.....
I mean if the ger who rejected you have a bf now, do you think she will have the time for a 'friend' like you?
I really doubt so....... chances are slim....... if you call her on her hp, i doubt she will even ans if her bf is ard....... for fear that her bf will be jealous.
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nOthiNg iS ImpOsSibLE In tHiS wOrLd
EvEn tHe wOrD ImPoSsiBLe SaYs "i'M pOsSiBLe" -
hehehe actually if a guy juz calls a ger and her bf picks up the phone...seriously speakin whu wont b jealous?
unless the bf trust the ger a lot la
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I'm stil fren wif 1 gal who rejected me b4.
And her bf now is one of my best frens.
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration" -
put aside that male pride if you want to be friends. personal experience... i was a dick, didn't talk to this friend of mine for one and a half years after i was rejected. that was 5 years ago. before i met my ex, we were the best of friends, and i still loved her.
so.. seriously.. your pride is not worth losing the friend over. take it easy, relax and just be friends man. who knows if you can take it a step higher? i'd rather have a very close friend than a gf man.... and relationships start best from friendships. i think anyone here would tell you that.
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Explaining how u feel and wanting her to be your gf is 2 different issues all together. The former situation can adhere to maintaining the friendship but not so easy for the latter.
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What if you meet someone whom you would like her to be your FRIEND as much as a GF....?Originally posted by Larry:Explaining how u feel and wanting her to be your gf is 2 different issues all together. The former situation can adhere to maintaining the friendship but not so easy for the latter.
Some girls are just so STYLISH and STRAIGHTFORWARD that they can accept the fact that you're still interested in them YET maintain a CLOSE FRIENDSHIP with you... Hmm... Hehheh... VERY INTERESTING that makes life....? -
Devil:
Life's challenging in that sense.
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well...some of the gals juz like the feeling of knowing some1 likes her, but dun 1 2 have a commitment...so...hmm...like that lor.. normally is the guy who will feel funny... as wat ppl says, women's heart is like the deep end of the ocean...