When love goes away....
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Let's say... i've met somebody wonderful and things were going well and happy. We are really happy together, everything just clicks. All of a sudden because of a short absence, things change and the momentum is lost. Now, we feel like total strangers. I can't help thinking that maybe it was something i said or something i did. Then, i kind of get depressed over many things, even sensitive over the smallest things. It's driving me crazy. Not getting any sms, e-mails or calls.
I think maybe she's going through a very rough patch. As her work is very taxing and some of her colleagues are like asses. All i want to do is to share some of that burden... unless i'm also part of her problems. In which case, pestering her will only aggravate things.
What she said was "i need some quiet time alone." Heck! What on earth does that means? Maybe i'm reading into it too much but it hurts like mad!
Anyway, perhaps its the trip. That's all... Does going on a trip for 4 days and coming back to work affects her that much? How to cope? What to do? Anybody?
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Originally posted by Klactovak:Let's say... i've met somebody wonderful and things were going well and happy. We are really happy together, everything just clicks. All of a sudden because of a short absence, things change and the momentum is lost. Now, we feel like total strangers. I can't help thinking that maybe it was something i said or something i did. Then, i kind of get depressed over many things, even sensitive over the smallest things. It's driving me crazy. Not getting any sms, e-mails or calls.
I think maybe she's going through a very rough patch. As her work is very taxing and some of her colleagues are like asses. All i want to do is to share some of that burden... unless i'm also part of her problems. In which case, pestering her will only aggravate things.
What she said was "i need some quiet time alone." Heck! What on earth does that means? Maybe i'm reading into it too much but it hurts like mad!
Anyway, perhaps its the trip. That's all... Does going on a trip for 4 days and coming back to work affects her that much? How to cope? What to do? Anybody?
So be it, let her have her own solitude..............see if she misses your presence then. If she does, she will crawl back 2U & cherish U more!
A PEST is always detesting or unwelcomed! Don't be one, leave her alone for awhile & see where U stand!
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i just broke off with my gf
this is what she told me b4 she say break
u really love her and i give her time to think.
but in the end
try to get to know what type of problem is she having from her friends around her, then u c what u can do to help her.
i think this will help -
U gotta show her tt as her bf, u can share her problems and be at her side no matter what. Perhaps u have to really talk to her one day, tell her how u are feeling, and tell her tt as her bf, u could help her with her problems.
I agree tt u may find our her problems frm her friends, but i think as her bf, u shld still ask her abt it urself. At least in this way, she knoes tt u care for her.
Hope tt helps... -
Hey, Thanks Guys & Ruth|E!!!
Everything's fine now. She's really bounces back to life. I'm trying not to think too much right now, just living in the moment will do for me.
Sometimes when you treasure someone more than they treasure you... it's too painful. But... who cares...