Originally posted by Klactovak:Let's say... i've met somebody wonderful and things were going well and happy. We are really happy together, everything just clicks. All of a sudden because of a short absence, things change and the momentum is lost. Now, we feel like total strangers. I can't help thinking that maybe it was something i said or something i did. Then, i kind of get depressed over many things, even sensitive over the smallest things. It's driving me crazy. Not getting any sms, e-mails or calls.
I think maybe she's going through a very rough patch. As her work is very taxing and some of her colleagues are like asses. All i want to do is to share some of that burden... unless i'm also part of her problems. In which case, pestering her will only aggravate things.
What she said was "i need some quiet time alone." Heck! What on earth does that means? Maybe i'm reading into it too much but it hurts like mad!
Anyway, perhaps its the trip. That's all... Does going on a trip for 4 days and coming back to work affects her that much? How to cope? What to do? Anybody?
So be it, let her have her own solitude..............see if she misses your presence then. If she does, she will crawl back 2U & cherish U more!
A PEST is always detesting or unwelcomed! Don't be one, leave her alone for awhile & see where U stand!
[This message has been edited by Klactovak (edited 30 November 2001).]