Dreams reflect my thoughts?
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Yesterday I had a dream about this girl I am close with. We are lying close in bed(erm fully clothed) and talking about stuff(forgot what) for a long time. We are in a room in my grandfather's home.
The reality is that she is very tomboyish and I'm probably the closest male friend of hers as she is the closest female friend of mine. Our friends always say that we are a couple and tease us lah. But I THINK I don't like her but she has admitted some time ago to friends that she liked me at some point before.
I like to talk to her and used to study a lot with her. When we are together I dun feel any awkwardness or "sexual tension". I can talk to her about everything.
I always tell myself I dun like her, I dun like her, she is a tomboy, and that I like another girl( I DO like another girl consciously and the tomboy knows).
Do you think Im suppressing my feelings for the girl in question? Do you think my dreams make my "true feelings" resurface? Or is it just another stupid dream leh?
I have asked myself over and over but I dunno where the answer lies. -
riyoushuoshi yeyoushuomeng
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people often sae that dreams are the representations of the reality..is it true?
that's for mi to know and for u to find out..
however..i've to agree wif the first reply u got...
if u nv tot abt her so much..u wouldn't dreamt of her..
it doesn't mean u like her tho..it juz means she has been weighing a lot on ur mind lately..
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I think you just spend alot of time with her... That's all??Originally posted by crimson soldier:Yesterday I had a dream about this girl I am close with. We are lying close in bed(erm fully clothed) and talking about stuff(forgot what) for a long time. We are in a room in my grandfather's home.
The reality is that she is very tomboyish and I'm probably the closest male friend of hers as she is the closest female friend of mine. Our friends always say that we are a couple and tease us lah. But I THINK I don't like her but she has admitted some time ago to friends that she liked me at some point before.
I like to talk to her and used to study a lot with her. When we are together I dun feel any awkwardness or "sexual tension". I can talk to her about everything.
I always tell myself I dun like her, I dun like her, she is a tomboy, and that I like another girl( I DO like another girl consciously and the tomboy knows).
Do you think Im suppressing my feelings for the girl in question? Do you think my dreams make my "true feelings" resurface? Or is it just another stupid dream leh?
I have asked myself over and over but I dunno where the answer lies.
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You think too much *shakes head*
It's only a dream...
FeowFeowOriginally posted by crimson soldier:Yesterday I had a dream about this girl I am close with. We are lying close in bed(erm fully clothed) and talking about stuff(forgot what) for a long time. We are in a room in my grandfather's home.
The reality is that she is very tomboyish and I'm probably the closest male friend of hers as she is the closest female friend of mine. Our friends always say that we are a couple and tease us lah. But I THINK I don't like her but she has admitted some time ago to friends that she liked me at some point before.
I like to talk to her and used to study a lot with her. When we are together I dun feel any awkwardness or "sexual tension". I can talk to her about everything.
I always tell myself I dun like her, I dun like her, she is a tomboy, and that I like another girl( I DO like another girl consciously and the tomboy knows).
Do you think Im suppressing my feelings for the girl in question? Do you think my dreams make my "true feelings" resurface? Or is it just another stupid dream leh?
I have asked myself over and over but I dunno where the answer lies. -
You already answer your own question. It's not about the dream that makes you think this way. It's not because you think of her so much that you dream of it. Go think about this, why do you want to know if it's because you think of her too much that you dream about her.Originally posted by crimson soldier:Yesterday I had a dream about this girl I am close with. We are lying close in bed(erm fully clothed) and talking about stuff(forgot what) for a long time. We are in a room in my grandfather's home.
The reality is that she is very tomboyish and I'm probably the closest male friend of hers as she is the closest female friend of mine. Our friends always say that we are a couple and tease us lah. But I THINK I don't like her but she has admitted some time ago to friends that she liked me at some point before.
I like to talk to her and used to study a lot with her. When we are together I dun feel any awkwardness or "sexual tension". I can talk to her about everything.
I always tell myself I dun like her, I dun like her, she is a tomboy, and that I like another girl( I DO like another girl consciously and the tomboy knows).
Do you think Im suppressing my feelings for the girl in question? Do you think my dreams make my "true feelings" resurface? Or is it just another stupid dream leh?
I have asked myself over and over but I dunno where the answer lies.
If it's never in your own thoughts, it'll never occur to you to think that the dreamt meant anything.
Like Feow said, it's just a dream. But it's not a dream anymore if you have to ask this kind of question. I dream everyday. For years, I dream of tall buildings. I dream of alot of things, does that mean anything? I dont' even bother to find out if it meant anything unless I want it to mean something. Is that what you are seeking for?
Now you know the answers to your own question? -
A dream is just a dream which has nothing attached to it. Dreams are random, senseless, mindless. Like what laosu said, if you haven't got that thinking somewhere in the vast realm of your mind, that dream would be.. nothing. You THINK you don't like her, yet you have to repeatedly tell yourself you don't like her. My opinion is probably the same as many. You unconciously fell in love with her.Originally posted by crimson soldier:Yesterday I had a dream about this girl I am close with. We are lying close in bed(erm fully clothed) and talking about stuff(forgot what) for a long time. We are in a room in my grandfather's home.
The reality is that she is very tomboyish and I'm probably the closest male friend of hers as she is the closest female friend of mine. Our friends always say that we are a couple and tease us lah. But I THINK I don't like her but she has admitted some time ago to friends that she liked me at some point before.
I like to talk to her and used to study a lot with her. When we are together I dun feel any awkwardness or "sexual tension". I can talk to her about everything.
I always tell myself I dun like her, I dun like her, she is a tomboy, and that I like another girl( I DO like another girl consciously and the tomboy knows).
Do you think Im suppressing my feelings for the girl in question? Do you think my dreams make my "true feelings" resurface? Or is it just another stupid dream leh?
I have asked myself over and over but I dunno where the answer lies. -
Wahhh makes sense i'll think about it
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Depends what kind of dreams you have. For me, my dreams reflect or gives me 'glimpses' of my future. Hence I get sense of deja vu 2-3times a day
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hanor hanor... actually, i dreamt of lin zhiling before leh. arguing abt something then later kissed. wah lan eh..Originally posted by FeowFeow:You think too much *shakes head*
It's only a dream...
FeowFeow
i really wacked myself manz.. me and my stupid dream.
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Yes i tink u have fallen in love with that girl in question . Have you ever wondered whether the girl u consciously "like" is just a figurehead ?
Have you spent much time with the girl u "like" ?
Are you comfortable with her the way u are with your friend ?
If not , maybe you are trying to find reasons to "dislike" this friend of yours , issit becos of her looks ? Her manner of dressing ?
In the end , it will not be looks that matter , when your both old and frail. So cherish what u have and dont take it for granted -
ri jiu sheng qingOriginally posted by binarynwitz:My opinion is probably the same as many. You unconciously fell in love with her. -
Originally posted by crimson soldier:Yesterday I had a dream about this girl I am close with. We are lying close in bed(erm fully clothed) and talking about stuff(forgot what) for a long time. We are in a room in my grandfather's home.
The reality is that she is very tomboyish and I'm probably the closest male friend of hers as she is the closest female friend of mine. Our friends always say that we are a couple and tease us lah. But I THINK I don't like her but she has admitted some time ago to friends that she liked me at some point before.
I like to talk to her and used to study a lot with her. When we are together I dun feel any awkwardness or "sexual tension". I can talk to her about everything.
I always tell myself I dun like her, I dun like her, she is a tomboy, and that I like another girl( I DO like another girl consciously and the tomboy knows).
Do you think Im suppressing my feelings for the girl in question? Do you think my dreams make my "true feelings" resurface? Or is it just another stupid dream leh?
I have asked myself over and over but I dunno where the answer lies.
Your dream is not a conclusion, in fact, it is a question.
You see, your dream didn't speak of anything other than clean talking. And the fact that she appear in your grandfather house, in a room and the bed part suggested that you are comfortable in her presence emotionally and physically(especially if you were close to your grandfather OR you like/used to stay/hang out in his house when you were younger/till now).
Your dream probably reflects a hidden thought in your subconscious. A question that was never surfaced. You may or may not pursue for an answer - my suggestion is to continue life and behave the same way like you have always did.
Cheers