Anyone got good advice to help??me want to sign on but my gf
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Anyone got good suggestion or not har??how to tell her and make her let me go work in the government sector??she keep on saying that i can find a better job outside..but i interested in going to join police leh...anyone got suggestion??especially the gers??how to coax her har??..
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Just tell her the reasons why you wanna choose that job... It's GOOD at the time also if you would listen to her reasonings... But STILL, it's your OWN CAREER.... You make YOUR OWN FINAL DECISION....?
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mebe she is worried tt being mata is a dangerous job...but u shd let her know tt it is ur dream and u will want to pursue it and hope shd can be understanding and give encouragement n support...
if she insist, then it is up to u to decide whether u want ur dream job or ur dream ger (ur dream ger is the one who will let u strive ur dreams)
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Hiya...the thing is because that i am currently overseas studing and the reason is because that she is afraid that i will get sick with the job and then will not be happy workong there... (because Mata cannot anyhow juz come out one mah...) and also mainly because i have to go thru another 9 mths of training which is stayin at PA loe...so she said that no time to accompany her...
Alas...my dream ger is the one that stops me frm pursuing my dream career... how sad..... -
Hmm.m..do you really think so??Originally posted by DRU|D:She Is Not Ur Mother And She Dosen't OWn U
So Tell Her 2 Mind Her Own Bees Wax
Fancy lettin A Pussy Rule Ur Life
GEEZ!!!!!
anyway..its not that i let her rule my life or something like that..but its the respect for her loe and its just liek that whats the point of pursuing it and at the end of the day always end up quarrelling over it rite..anyway...maybe need more time to consider this...*siGh* -
Hmm..any regulars out there har??maybe can get a few advice from you...
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the thing abt uniform grps, u have to have gd qualifications to rise to the top or else u just remain at the bottom of the food chain.neway, ure gerlfren shld respect ure decision and vice versa. this is ure ricebowl not hers...unless she marries u lah....grin
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not very true actually...Originally posted by sakaratulz:the thing abt uniform grps, u have to have gd qualifications to rise to the top or else u just remain at the bottom of the food chain.neway, ure gerlfren shld respect ure decision and vice versa. this is ure ricebowl not hers...unless she marries u lah....grin
if u r active and conduct is good...
u might get a raise or promotion...
well but tat will take a few years of cos...
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Yeah, but what about your education? NS is already bad enuff..
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i used to be against my bf of signing on too.. i also insisted that he will be able to get a better job if he does not sign on..
but my thinking changed when i tried to look for a job.. i realised that it's really not easy.. signing on has alot of benefits..
so now, i actually encourage my bf to sign on.. n he is going to...
maybe u shd let ur gf tok to those of your frens that sign on already,then maybe she can see the gd things abt signing on from them... -
What did he sign on as??...maybe i tok to her again when i have completed my studies loe..now also dunno how to convince her..the best thing can do is to let her see how difficult to find a job and hope that she will also encourage me to sign on like what you do...maybe you tok to her..kekeke.. :p juz joking...anyway..just hope that things will turn out better then expected..thksOriginally posted by joanne:i used to be against my bf of signing on too.. i also insisted that he will be able to get a better job if he does not sign on..
but my thinking changed when i tried to look for a job.. i realised that it's really not easy.. signing on has alot of benefits..
so now, i actually encourage my bf to sign on.. n he is going to...
maybe u shd let ur gf tok to those of your frens that sign on already,then maybe she can see the gd things abt signing on from them... -
oh.. actually my bf's dream is to be pilot but then he failed the test so too bad.. then he went to sign on with airforce but dunno y they rejected him, asking him to sign again when he is abt to ORD.. actually i think it takes time for you to convince her also lah.. all e best~Originally posted by Doom:What did he sign on as??...maybe i tok to her again when i have completed my studies loe..now also dunno how to convince her..the best thing can do is to let her see how difficult to find a job and hope that she will also encourage me to sign on like what you do...maybe you tok to her..kekeke.. :p juz joking...anyway..just hope that things will turn out better then expected..thks
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Just have to wait loe...and hope that things will turn out better then expected...Originally posted by joanne:oh.. actually my bf's dream is to be pilot but then he failed the test so too bad.. then he went to sign on with airforce but dunno y they rejected him, asking him to sign again when he is abt to ORD.. actually i think it takes time for you to convince her also lah.. all e best~ thks -
It sounds like your girlfriend do not want you to go through the frustration of hating your job after some time. Maybe she knows someone who is stuck in such a job and is complaining all the time.Originally posted by Doom:Hiya...the thing is because that i am currently overseas studing and the reason is because that she is afraid that i will get sick with the job and then will not be happy workong there... (because Mata cannot anyhow juz come out one mah...) and also mainly because i have to go thru another 9 mths of training which is stayin at PA loe...so she said that no time to accompany her...
Alas...my dream ger is the one that stops me frm pursuing my dream career... how sad.....
Have you talked to enough people in different jobs to decide that being in the police is really your dream job ? I did not. I thought of teaching or police while in university and then chose police.
The 9 months in academy was ok. Like army training but with law and stuff thrown in. The job is quite different from TV portrayals. Your first 2 years are definitely going to be in Investigation work - tons and tons of paperwork, phone calls, interviews and more paperwork.
You will almost never see action. You arrive at the scene hours after. After everyone else. You work bad hours. You work all hours. You get more depressed than divorce lawyers. Day in and day out, you deal with loss, death, injury and hate. And no one appreciates you. The complainant says you are slow, the defendent is abusive, your boss says you are incompetent, and of course your girlfriend wonders where you are all the time and why you prefer to sleep to meeting her.
Promotion ? Forget it. You start with Inspector or Asst Superintendent and then stay there for years. Your peers who are scholars zoom past you with doing a bit of this and a bit of that and before long, one of them is the commander of your division while you are still doing whatever you have been doing since day 1.
Sorry for all the negative stuff - just want to go beyond the "server the nation" and "help the weak" stuff. I did feel that I learnt more about people and life during those years. Sort of an accelerated maturing process. -
i heard that when u reach certain age the army or police wont want u already, and by that that your dioplam or dregee or wat soever will be out of date. Wat will u do by then?
think abt it
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Try CHITCHAT... A couple of regulars in there... One of them come by the nick of MOOSE....Originally posted by Doom:Hmm..any regulars out there har??maybe can get a few advice from you... -
That is the other about signing on for anything with a bond. By the time you are fed up with it and want out, your degree or diploma has become a piece of paper and no one believes you remember a thing from school.
Policemen and soldier who quit (don't talk about Generals etc) end up selling insurance, bouncers, security guards at hotels, helping out with friend's maid agency, work in Vietnam etc.
The lucky ones who have experience working with commercial crime at least can work for a credit card company investigating fraud cases.
Some think that taking an MBA after that will boost their chances of getting into the private sector. It does not work.
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pass me ur gf.. i teach her a lesson
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