Can a guy win an argument with a girl?
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when guys and gals argue. it seems that the guy can never win an argument even though he's right. is that true?
or is it because guys don't need to win an argument and face the consequences of the gals later on. either way, my conclusion is to let the gals win all the argument so that i can have peace of mind. -
ditch the gal and will have longer peace of mind , unless of cos u find another girlfriend..
deja vu!
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how to win??so easy, just give her a tight slap and she will break down in tears.....
and Da...DA.....u win!!!
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Aiyah!!! KangKang, what a REAL man you are... hahahaha.... wah lao! cannot hit woman to win lahOriginally posted by kangkang:how to win??so easy, just give her a tight slap and she will break down in tears.....
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giving in to gf all the time is not a gd idea at all. she might not think highly of u and may look for other better guys. neway if ure relationship is stable enuf, its not neccessary to lose all the time. u win some and lose some. but most important thing is that u make up/out after that...
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Well, I dun care. Whenever haf argument wif them, I argue all the way one. Rubbish also take out and argue.
But if tired, argue wif who also anyhow, dun argue.
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arguments shd be intellectual...presenting facts and logic
not squabbles and juz throwing temper ard..
guys can win..definitely...
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pity ur gf man...Originally posted by kangkang:how to win??so easy, just give her a tight slap and she will break down in tears.....
and Da...DA.....u win!!!
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You aren't fair to the gals if u say like that, all of us should b firm in our stand, it's only different points of views if a guy and gal quarrel...Originally posted by Klactovak:when guys and gals argue. it seems that the guy can never win an argument even though he's right. is that true?
or is it because guys don't need to win an argument and face the consequences of the gals later on. either way, my conclusion is to let the gals win all the argument so that i can have peace of mind.
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Dun haf any wat.Originally posted by hopy:pity ur gf man...
Even if got, I wun relent if reason is on my side... But u haf to see wat the argument is abt in the first place rite?
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration"
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The Eagle
He clasps the crag with hooked hands:
Close to the sun in lonely lands,
Ringed with the azure world, he stands.
The wrinkled sea beneath him crawls;
He watches from his mountain walls,
And like a thunderbolt he falls.
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Hi FI,Originally posted by FireIce:arguments shd be intellectual...presenting facts and logic
not squabbles and juz throwing temper ard..
guys can win..definitely...
I agree that guys can win when facts and logic are on their side.
the downside is many women are emotional. they remember arguments and keep track of what happened. a guy may win an argument but might suffer consequences. she might become colder and play mind games.
on the other hand there are lots of open-minded women who may lose an argument and not scheme to get back.
so it's a matter of choice whether to let her win to keep the peace. then, a guy has a right to defend his own dignity too. Ah well, we live in a complicated world. -
Depending on who u are arguing with, u might adopt different strategies.
GF/Wife:
U can always choose to reason, but mind that in the moment of heat, logical reasoning might not always work, and to keep the relationship going, u might wanna consider giving way. But persistent tolerance might lead to unneeded frustration. So u might wanna draw the line.
Others:
Any commitments?? No?? Then u might wanna show them the facts. If not, u will have to stand your ground and remind them that each is entitled to their own perspective. Don't strain the relationship by worsening the matter. -
drink from her fuzzy cup
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Agree totally wif u, Klactovak
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration"
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The Eagle
He clasps the crag with hooked hands:
Close to the sun in lonely lands,
Ringed with the azure world, he stands.
The wrinkled sea beneath him crawls;
He watches from his mountain walls,
And like a thunderbolt he falls.
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hey sebastian, are u having some problems wif ur gf? seems that the posts u post these few weeks makes me feel that u are v troubled.. u okay???
erm.. i think guys can win an arguement for sure.. provided no violence lah!! depending no wat kind of arguements, but then sometimes if the ger lost, she will be v offended n therefore, yah loh, as wat u said, better to let them win so they be happier.. keke~
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yo Joanne, thanks for concern. am not having any problems with gf. thinking about these because in case, i really need to react i know what to do. don't have to crack my head so much.... heehee.Originally posted by joanne:hey sebastian, are u having some problems wif ur gf? seems that the posts u post these few weeks makes me feel that u are v troubled.. u okay???
erm.. i think guys can win an arguement for sure.. provided no violence lah!! depending no wat kind of arguements, but then sometimes if the ger lost, she will be v offended n therefore, yah loh, as wat u said, better to let them win so they be happier.. keke~
this is what i call being pro-active. how're things with you?
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Personally, I feel I can never win an argument with a girl, especially if she is the gf... Henpacked ay? Most of the time, I think I can do better in the short run by just listening and accepting. Hard to argue as man tends to talk logic. Angry woman can't hear no logic. She will feel that you are being too defensive and most prolly you are really being defensive.
I not sure if there's a way out even though this is unhealthy. Personally, I can't take this no more. Sometime I think I'll be better off alone... -
wat a bunch of losers
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If relationship interests are at stake the argument would do best to make way for the lady.
If not the guy has just as much reason to win as the girl which brings in the subject of having the flair for argument.Then it doesn't matter which sexes are in the argument itself but rather who is better at talking.
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didnt know you were attached.. hurhuhruhrOriginally posted by Klactovak:yo Joanne, thanks for concern. am not having any problems with gf. thinking about these because in case, i really need to react i know what to do. don't have to crack my head so much.... heehee.
this is what i call being pro-active. how're things with you?
still happy-go-lucky and life goes on. -
kill the root before the problem start....
dun start an argument...avoid it at all cost...healthier to both guy and ger...
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~~Evi|Ger~~
more affectionately known as...
tHe eXtrA-oRdiNaRy eCCenTriC PaRanOid BiTch wiF thE PaiZaBor aTTiTudE
(who is a Prata-natic...and a loyal supporter of Quickly and Qoo~)
A hiaK~ is a sarcastic laugh -
the way to win is to let the ladies think they win...