Problem with consistancy
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Dear guys,
Again, nt a major problem. But hope u guys can read n reply.
Sometimes I realli hate myself. I hate myself for lackin in consistancy in almost everything i do.
for example,
in school, when i do maths, even when i know e question, know how to do, studied for it, n i still screw up because i made a careless mistake at the first few steps.
n my english compo mark range can be from 5/30 to 25/30. i myself, have no idea y...
in sports, i play badminton. i can do all the stuff all the others do, but i keep losing to my peers because i keep making unforced errors n mistakes. i know dis might be out of point.
in games, like dota. i believe i have quite a considerable amount of standard, sometimes i can play till very pro, while sometimes i am unable to "psycho" myself to play to my potential.
i always tell myself, " if only i could play like i did yesterday ".
it might sound dramatic, but my performances in everything fluctuates alot. and i don't know why im lidat.
because of this, i am unable to excel in anything i do. i always reach a "considerable" standard. which fluctuates up and down. -
if you wanna enter a good jc or poly- you have to change the way your working rite nowOriginally posted by Scape_Goat_Token:in school, when i do maths, even when i know e question, know how to do, studied for it, n i still screw up because i made a careless mistake at the first few steps.
n my english compo mark range can be from 5/30 to 25/30. i myself, have no idea y...
in sports, i play badminton. i can do all the stuff all the others do, but i keep losing to my peers because i keep making unforced errors n mistakes. i know dis might be out of point.
in games, like dota. i believe i have quite a considerable amount of standard, sometimes i can play till very pro, while sometimes i am unable to "psycho" myself to play to my potential.
i always tell myself, " if only i could play like i did yesterday ".
it might sound dramatic, but my performances in [b]everything fluctuates alot. and i don't know why im lidat.
because of this, i am unable to excel in anything i do. i always reach a "considerable" standard. which fluctuates up and down.
you cannot tell yourself "if only i could play like i did yesterday" bad move- you don't live in the past, don't keep thinking of the past. the only reason why you should think of the past history is to improve yourself and not use it as a excuse to get yourself into the comfort zone of not trying to imrpove yourself.
carelessness is a flaw that you have to correct...for me, i was once in your shoes too...but i only managed to correct this mistake under proper teaching by a good teacher and of course i change the habit becoz it was O lvls back then...lolz...
then another thing is that you don't compare yourself to others, compare yourself with yourself...compare your results and improve....for they have different strong points and weak points...if you only compare your weak points with other people's strong points then your bound to be negative...
have faith in yourself and compare with yourself...motivate yourself...tell yourself you can do it....remember one thing...it's mind over matters!! -
Yea, u gotta look to the future. U can look back upon the past, and learn from your mistakes, but learn from it fast, and proceed on to the future. Don't dawdle on things that have already happen, but instead look at how you can improve yourself. Even if you score good grades today, push yourself harder to score better grades. Even if you don't meet your expectations, at least you'll be consistently good.
Also, u gotta practice.. Choose something u wanna be excellent in and focus on making it great. Sometimes, external factors affect our consistency and that can't be helped but what can be helped would be ourselves. Cmon man.. Have faith in yourself and go kick some butt...
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Originally posted by Scape_Goat_Token:
Dear guys,
Again, nt a major problem. But hope u guys can read n reply.
Sometimes I realli hate myself. I hate myself for lackin in consistancy in almost everything i do.
for example,
in school, when i do maths, even when i know e question, know how to do, studied for it, n i still screw up because i made a careless mistake at the first few steps.
n my english compo mark range can be from 5/30 to 25/30. i myself, have no idea y...
in sports, i play badminton. i can do all the stuff all the others do, but i keep losing to my peers because i keep making unforced errors n mistakes. i know dis might be out of point.
in games, like dota. i believe i have quite a considerable amount of standard, sometimes i can play till very pro, while sometimes i am unable to "psycho" myself to play to my potential.
i always tell myself, " if only i could play like i did yesterday ".
it might sound dramatic, but my performances in [b]everything fluctuates alot. and i don't know why im lidat.
because of this, i am unable to excel in anything i do. i always reach a "considerable" standard. which fluctuates up and down.
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I think you don't have problem with consistancy... more like a problem with complacency. When you have attain a good result, your attitude kinda slacken as you felt that when you have probably reached 'there', you are 'there'.
In fact, you can only be good at something ONLY when you are always 'there'. I know when people are damn good at certain things, no matter what happens, they don't fluctuate between the two extreme. Only those who thought they were 'there', fluctuate so much.
P.S: As we go higher, it takes more to advance than our initial path up. Spend more effort in fine tuning the minor details to get you higher.
Cheers