Originally posted by blurgirl:
Which one should come first?
Can't seem to balance these 4 leh?
Friends wanna meet up often, BF wanna see often, family wants more interaction and career needs equal attention....(do OT or not?? )
Wah liew...life sucks...
can someone give me a good ADVICE on this????

You should learn to prioritise things in your life in your OWN SYSTEMATICAL WAY, not forgetting to include TIME for YOURSELF. Amount of time to be allocated would depends on the weigh of the SUBJECT of CONCERN and the NECESSITY. As a RULE of THUMB, when TIME needed is LESS than REQUIRED there is no BEST WAY but a CUSTOMISED ONE according to YOUR OWN belief and needs...
People in your life should learn to UNDERSTAND and COMPROMISE with your TIME SCHEDULE to a CERTAIN EXTENT, and you on the other hand should try NOT to neglect ANY part of your life if they hold a MEANING to it....
There're CERTAINLY books you can find on TIME MANAGEMENT and such... TRY NOT to stick to the CONCEPT or METHOD of one book, but to CHOOSE only POINTS mentioned in the books which is APPLICABLE to your life....