my friends avoiding me
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my friends say I am a bad person and give me all kinds of remarks. now they are avoiding me. on one hand, i feel bad about the remarks. on the other hand, i am happy with their decision since I prefer to be alone & i cannot cope with so many friends & i do not like to socialise. am i 'trying' to be positive or am i pathetic? having mixed feeling here.
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In friends , it's QUALITY not QUANTITY that counts
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your friends criticising u behind your back? or they say it right in your face?
if your friends did tat behind u, F**K them. Not worth keeping, go find other better friends...
if they say infront of u, then i suggest u try to change abit...maybe go out more with them? or talk with them more? -
It's good for someone to know his/her stand and be firm about his/her decision(s)... But sometimes it's IMPORTANT to REFLECT on things too..?Originally posted by straw:my friends say I am a bad person and give me all kinds of remarks. now they are avoiding me. on one hand, i feel bad about the remarks. on the other hand, i am happy with their decision since I prefer to be alone & i cannot cope with so many friends & i do not like to socialise. am i 'trying' to be positive or am i pathetic? having mixed feeling here. -
u mus have something which they dun have...e.g intelligence, capability...so they are "jealous" of u...
dun take it too hard...
i agree tt sometimes it is good to be alone...but dun be a loner...
find other frens since this bunch is not worth it
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having these kind of flaming frends is sad... i too used to have these types of frens... we r macam hitler and stalin... each holding a dagger behind us... waiting for a chance to strike back at each other...
cheeer up~ -
these happen all the times...
u cant satify all!!!
BE YRSELF!
[This message has been edited by RuthBaby (edited 25 March 2002).] -
yea... u r wat u r, dont think abt the omen, the ppl lead ur mind, believe no way.... bla.. y am i singing songs??
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I also have friends who left me because I am a problematic person. Now I have a few but understanding friends. And I am already used to alone. The feeling of lost is so terrible
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Ya I agree... You don't need to have many friends, just one or two really good ones... And especially good if you can find a soulmate.
And I think I'm somewhat like you... I kind of prefer to be alone sometimes too... But perhaps it's because i'm the class chariman, so i'm often away running errands... but even when I'm with my really good friend (who is somewhat like me too), we can just keep quite but we don't feel strange... Cos we just are like that. It takes time to find such a soulmate that has the same kind of character as urs, but i'm sure you will eventually find that person.
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oh same problem too...
they call me poor to my face... i am a natural loner too and quite old fashioned so pple think i am poor or not a local.
even the poly clinic doctor ask me can i speak english???
the harsh reality huh........
now i know why my taxi driver daughter wear branded clothes and own the latest phone while i just heck care abt all these things.
professional image..... -
Or r u over-sensitive?
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration"
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The Eagle
He clasps the crag with hooked hands:
Close to the sun in lonely lands,
Ringed with the azure world, he stands.
The wrinkled sea beneath him crawls;
He watches from his mountain walls,
And like a thunderbolt he falls.
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