GIve mi some Comments on this..Thx alot..
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I got a group of friends which i was quite close to them..actually knw them for abt 3 months only..There's was this gal which i like..the whole group also know abt this ba..they jus said tt it's quite obvious lor..bcoz i have a habit of blogging mah..so i will write everything including my feelin in tt blog..so happen tt one day she read tt blog..and i think she know everything ba..but she didn't have any reaction..I also duno how she feeling towards mi lor..I know most ppl will ask mi to go ask her..But everytime when i wanna try to ask her, Sure got things will happen de..it happen abt 4-5 times le..but i still trying..
But recently..she and her close friend(a guy) quarrel..and i become the middle man ba..and i try to tok to her and calm her down lor..But after the whole incident ended..I feel tt i was being thrown aside lor..Which i feel very sad and dissapointed..It's like she treat mi like a spare trye lor..the feeling is not good..It's like only when got problem btw her and her close friend(tt guy) ten i will b notice lor..ten sometimes they both will play lor..But tt guy is like abit of eat tofu lor..play play will sort of hug lor..Wat's worst is tt they r playing infront of mi..It really breaks my heart lor..So everytime i will try to walk away when this happen..And now i am really feeling very lost..wat should i do? : ..( -
infatuation only eh.. don't be possessive.. let her be..
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waylay her when she go home
then give her a good one from behind
run like hell
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Haiz..my this life is like coming back to pay back those i have own in the previous life..my love life has nv been good..haiz..haiz..haiz..
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Stick to that kinda mentality and I don't see how it would help?Originally posted by Normal^Guy:Haiz..my this life is like coming back to pay back those i have own in the previous life..my love life has nv been good..haiz..haiz..haiz.. -
huh?wat u mean? i don get it..
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She treat you as a friend lah.. not a close friend though.. Cheer up, you'll meet the right one..
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If you love her..you'll want her to be happy...do you think she'll be better off with you??or will she be better with the other guy or whoever??
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first thing first, after reading your mail...all i can say is that this is only 1 sided Love From YoU onLY!!...don't dwell on it too much...Originally posted by Normal^Guy:I got a group of friends which i was quite close to them..actually knw them for abt 3 months only..There's was this gal which i like..the whole group also know abt this ba..they jus said tt it's quite obvious lor..bcoz i have a habit of blogging mah..so i will write everything including my feelin in tt blog..so happen tt one day she read tt blog..and i think she know everything ba..but she didn't have any reaction..I also duno how she feeling towards mi lor..I know most ppl will ask mi to go ask her..But everytime when i wanna try to ask her, Sure got things will happen de..it happen abt 4-5 times le..but i still trying..
But recently..she and her close friend(a guy) quarrel..and i become the middle man ba..and i try to tok to her and calm her down lor..But after the whole incident ended..I feel tt i was being thrown aside lor..Which i feel very sad and dissapointed..It's like she treat mi like a spare trye lor..the feeling is not good..It's like only when got problem btw her and her close friend(tt guy) ten i will b notice lor..ten sometimes they both will play lor..But tt guy is like abit of eat tofu lor..play play will sort of hug lor..Wat's worst is tt they r playing infront of mi..It really breaks my heart lor..So everytime i will try to walk away when this happen..And now i am really feeling very lost..wat should i do? : ..(
if she treats u as a normal fren, den dun pin too much hope...if she likes u, she will drop hints, but apparently, she didnt, so don't even think....thats my advice for you...
the more you think about them, the more unbearable it will be for you...just drop it...engage yourself with lots of work, normal way to make yourself forget (avoid de path from love) but it works if you seriously wanna forget her, but will harm ur body in the process..BEWARE for your health...take care... -
Yaya..Mayb u r right ba..This thing has trouble mi for the past wk le..during the Xmas right..i pass her a present le..but on tt day of xmas not even a single sms or a single mail from her lor..from tt day my heart broken into many mnay many pieces lor..from tt moment on, i know tt i going to wash my hands off this thingy..i am not going to bother it anymore..i know saiding is easier ten doing..And i also know this will b a tough one..haiz..But no matter wat..Thx for all advice and suggestion..if u all still have any suggestion or advice u wanna give mi, feel free..Thx for all in advance..
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Dude she treat u like a entertainer or some sort of Charlie CHaplin. MAYB she's using u in some sort of ways. It shows that she don give a shit to u. BUt think frm the other side, she don need to give u replies too. IT's OBVIOUS enoiugh that she is REJECTING you! So give up man!
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What have you learn from this crush?Originally posted by Normal^Guy:Yaya..Mayb u r right ba..This thing has trouble mi for the past wk le..during the Xmas right..i pass her a present le..but on tt day of xmas not even a single sms or a single mail from her lor..from tt day my heart broken into many mnay many pieces lor..from tt moment on, i know tt i going to wash my hands off this thingy..i am not going to bother it anymore..i know saiding is easier ten doing..And i also know this will b a tough one..haiz..But no matter wat..Thx for all advice and suggestion..if u all still have any suggestion or advice u wanna give mi, feel free..Thx for all in advance.. -
This is ONLY ONE relationship you're trying to get into... It doesn't necessarily reflects on how your FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS would be... STICK to the mentality that you're bound to be a failure, and you WOULD BE a FAILURE....Originally posted by Normal^Guy:huh?wat u mean? i don get it.. -
one sided love. Wait n see how lah..
U r not even her bf or what, dont need to think so negatively abt what she did to u....its all in yr mind
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she dun like you give it up if she does she will reacts differently
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no use letting urself fall into the bottomless pit further ... u like her .. she koes it .. start treating her veri good .. stick to her ?? show her more effective hints tat u like her .. ask her for 1 to 1 date .. make ur feelings known .. then when u think time is ripe .. ask her .. if u nv try .. u nv koe wat will happen .. if she rejects u .. time can heal .. in no time u will stand up high n look forward in life again .. if nt .. u will onli sink deeper n deeper .. don gu giang .. be guy k .. wan it go take it ..
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This is ONLY ONE relationship you're trying to get into... It doesn't necessarily reflects on how your FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS would be... STICK to the mentality that you're bound to be a failure, and you WOULD BE a FAILURE....
yah la must haf confidence in urself brother -
She's not interested...
Don't be sad lah, got many other fishes out there... Don't give up a forest just because of a tree... -
if they treat u like a spare tyre, then find other then...only true frenz will cherish one another...you just have yet to find your true frenz
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perhaps you should read my thread too..Originally posted by Normal^Guy:I got a group of friends which i was quite close to them..actually knw them for abt 3 months only..There's was this gal which i like..the whole group also know abt this ba..they jus said tt it's quite obvious lor..bcoz i have a habit of blogging mah..so i will write everything including my feelin in tt blog..so happen tt one day she read tt blog..and i think she know everything ba..but she didn't have any reaction..I also duno how she feeling towards mi lor..I know most ppl will ask mi to go ask her..But everytime when i wanna try to ask her, Sure got things will happen de..it happen abt 4-5 times le..but i still trying..
But recently..she and her close friend(a guy) quarrel..and i become the middle man ba..and i try to tok to her and calm her down lor..But after the whole incident ended..I feel tt i was being thrown aside lor..Which i feel very sad and dissapointed..It's like she treat mi like a spare trye lor..the feeling is not good..It's like only when got problem btw her and her close friend(tt guy) ten i will b notice lor..ten sometimes they both will play lor..But tt guy is like abit of eat tofu lor..play play will sort of hug lor..Wat's worst is tt they r playing infront of mi..It really breaks my heart lor..So everytime i will try to walk away when this happen..And now i am really feeling very lost..wat should i do? : ..(
i spend a year writing on this forum...
and nothing came the outcome till you really go for it.,.
but if she's not the one.. let it go.. it will make you more happy in the end.